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Is this like something that happened years ago & he’s been to prison for? Or recently??
She’s abusive and doesn’t deserve your love, loyalty, or support. I would break up over text, block her on everything, and focus on rebuilding yourself.
You sound like a sweet partner, and there are sooo many people in the world that would be lucky to be with you.
Why believe what an abuser has to say about you? She’s saying all of it to keep you down and keep you WITH her, so she can break you down more. She’s making you her verbal punching bag.
(Also who cares if you’re 5 foot 7 lol. You’re always gonna be taller than somebody. And would you really wanna pursue someone shallow enough to reject you because you’re not “tall enough”.)
Actions speak louder than words – especially ones by text.
100% this.
Jesus Christ. The ignorance on display here.
Now I don’t want to get crazy here… but 2 things:
you were digging through his phone, which means you are already disregarding his trust
fucking ask him why… oh wait that might be awkward because you were checking his phone… if that’s not the case then ask him. What’s so nude about this?
People make relationships seem more difficult than they are. 1 of 2 things happened here. OP 9’lu knows the truth and needs to figure out the next move
Dude, she set a boundary because she sees your comments as negative and discouraging about her body.
If you choose to ignore or you disagree with her boundary, be prepared for consequences (like her breaking up with you).
As some have mentioned, it sounds like you two may have been compatible at one point, and you guys are no longer compatible (it sounds like she’s comfortable in her own skin or no longer enjoys doing activities like going up the gym.
It’s obviously something important to you, and not so much her. This sounds like the great divide putting a wedge between you two. You can still care about someone, but you cannot force your will onto them.
She doesn’t want to change my dude. Do with that what you will.
Dude, she set a boundary because she sees your comments as negative and discouraging about her body.
If you choose to ignore or you disagree with her boundary, be prepared for consequences (like her breaking up with you).
As some have mentioned, it sounds like you two may have been compatible at one point, and you guys are no longer compatible (it sounds like she’s comfortable in her own skin or no longer enjoys doing activities like going up the gym.
It’s obviously something important to you, and not so much her. This sounds like the great divide putting a wedge between you two. You can still care about someone, but you cannot force your will onto them.
She doesn’t want to change my dude. Do with that what you will.
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You only see your daughter every other weekend and some holidays, which alone puts a strain on your relationship, and now you’ve gone two years not even getting her a birthday present because of your wife. If you don’t sort your shit out now you’ll be lucky if your daughter ever speaks to you again.
Either your wife lied to you because she knew she could manipulate you into abandoning your daughter, or she has just decided that she wants to be the only woman in your life. Either way, she’s an awful person and if you want any hope of keeping your daughter in your life, you should leave her.
My dad chose his wife over my sister and I and the damage that did to our relationship will never be fixed.
That's a pretty bad take.
Abuse doesn't justify more abuse/harmful behaviors.
My mom didn’t approve of my wife until we had our son. Everything changes when a baby comes, until then it’s going to be challenging.
Oh it was planned, you just weren’t in on the planning.
For refusing to go along with an asinine ultimatum? The mom doesn’t get to dictate who her adult children spend time with, especially when that person is their father. She’s allowed to hate him for cheating, she isn’t allowed to force others to hate him.
This is a very good point and thank you! I am planning this summer to move closer to my family so I can help more and be around my parents. I feel as though I won't bring things up as much anymore which I understand and will talk to siblings or my friends about it.
It sorta goes into the “do you want to have kids?” part of the getting to know you phase. That should be well within the first month.
Ohh okay i understand. Because they would still be a redhead deep down, so like with OP’s girlfriend, shes actually secretly a man and he’s not gay which makes it wrong. I understand now!
I wonder if theres a word for having such a strong dislike of a group of people over a set of beliefs that causes you to have disdain and dislike towards them. Hmmmmmm
No, it's because they would not have been OK with dating them if they knew they were trans from the get go. You don't get to violate someone else's consent that way. Period. Let me put it this way, if I knew a woman would ONLY date FTM trans people, and I convinced her that I was FTM trans, but was actually cis male, would THAT then be OK? How about if I told a woman that I was sterile because I was FTM trans but I was a cis male? How about if I got her pregnant after? These are all hypotheticals, because ALL OF THIS IS NOT OK.
Sure, but dont confuse trust with truthful. Everyone has things they dont tell, be it just embarassing (eg some porn you whacked off to once) or something else. Its your life and you get to decide what you share with others.
Trust is just trusting they wont intentionally hurt you, will look out for you etc.
I mean, for sure your mum may have got up to no good, there may be extenuating circumstances (arguments, relationship on a break, whatever), equally she may also have regrets about it, and has changed since then or the relationship.
No excuses, dont get me wrong, it was absolutely wrong, but it was also 15+ years ago, and has the power to destroy your family.
Im not saying don't do it, im just saying just expect there will be consiquences potentially if something bad does come out, and do you really NEED to know?
In my mind couples counselling is got married couples who have built a life together. When you are dating, behaviour like this should just make you realise you are incompatible and break up. OP don’t waste your time any more. Move on and find someone who appreciates your effort not someone who gives you a list of things to find while you’re on vacation
You need to take care of yourself first before you can care for others. And your family needs someone from outside to help them. All you can do is get them to therapy and support them for that. There are treatment programs for your brother. Ask his doctor. As for your mother, I don't know, but again, she needs to see a doctor to make sure she does not have some other illness that's causing her weight loss.
I wish I could be more supportive of you and your family, but you need to remember the old saying, “don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm”. You look after yourself first and then get help for others. Does your school where you are have psychologists on staff to help students like you? Do not be too proud to go and ask. You are overwhelmed, and also need someone to be supportive. Take care and lots of virtual hugs to you!
Do you live! in the same country ATM or was it a long distance relationship?
You can always let him know you can’t afford such a high rent and if there’s no way to divide costs another way, you will not be able to move together. In any case, you can be sure there’ll be a prenup involved if you ever marry that man lol.
Thank you.