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Make me squirt [Multi Goal]
Date: October 24, 2022
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Make me squirt [Multi Goal]
Did you by any chance have a narcissistic or emotionally immature parent? It sounds a bit like your partner might be a narcissist, and often we can fall for one of one of our parents was one (as it mimics the “love” we received from them, and because it’s familiar/we don’t know any better, we mistake it for genuine love/care.
Check out: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. I swear this book is helping me recover and understand better than most other resources have so far.
Check out adventure challenge books. You get a book full of date/activity suggestions almost anyone can do. They have a lottery style scratch off so you never know what to expect. You can buy a Polaroid style camera with the book and turn it into a scrap book.
You gaslighted your husband into feeling like it was incorrect for him to address how much of a bitch you were acting towards him the morning of his grandfathers funeral
a day where hes probably feeling exhausted, upset and like he could probably benefit from some support from his family instead of having sarcastic mental and emotional abuse hurled his way in the form of sarcastic, snide jabs
you jumped at every opportunity you could to make him out to be some sort of villain in front of his daughter noless after manipulating the situation in having him feel like hes the one that should be apologetic for you being an inconsiderate condescending cunt and you're now stirring the pot even further on a subreddit looking for ways to demonise him even further gathering any justification you can as to why your entitled to lead him into financial ruin and probably further take his kids away from him
Your a cunt and i pray for him cause your toxic and he doesnt deserve to have to deal with your emotionally underdeveloped bullshit
Some fucking wife you are!
If you know your therapist will tell you that he's abusing you then I think you already know you're in an abusive relationship. So if that's the case why are you posting here? You're going to get the same answer whoever you ask.
This isn't a normal relationship and everyone else posting here is quite shocked at how much its not sinking in for you. What are you waiting around for to change exactly?
I deeply loved her and I kept trying to “fit a square peg into a round hole” which led to me doing inexcusable things including being unfaithful, which I'm shameful about. The effects of having been gaslighted transfer to present day, I seek comfort and praise from people I'm not in a relationship with, attention, affirmation…anything from anyone to make me feel like I did enough or I'm not incompetent. There's definitely some other underlying issues I need to work out that are in no way the result of being in a toxic relationship and I won't place any blame on my ex for those issues or the fact i was a dirtbag and had sex outside of the relationship. But I will hold her accountable for the damage she directly caused by knowingly manipulating me. I say knowingly (because to knowingly manipulate a loved one is abhorrent) because she knows I looked up to her and her extreme intelligence. She took advantage of her knowing I'd do anything to please her. And used my heavy drinking to support her recollection of events to support her claims. And after i would successfully defend my version of reality, my feelings were mitigated or discretited; brushing off my claims that shes being manipulative and it affected me as dramatic. I will never allow myself to intentionally be manipulated again. No one should.
Like i don’t expect it to be someone else, she didn’t even sleep with her ex because she’s protective about that stuff. And she made it clear she promises to come back. She also was willing to do a compromise, so i wanna trust her, im just nervous
Only time id excuse spyware for women is if they suspect their husband/boyfriend to be 1. A pedo or 2. Murderer.
Other than that those women are nuts and they need psychological help
Then could be a coping mechanism that helped you get through the hurt 🙂 totally normal, and explains why you got over him “so quick” normally it takes longer because even when we love who they were or the idea of them. We associate our love with that figment of our imagination or our memories of them and that still causes us to feel sad. But if you feel nothing at all, could be you’re repressing. I don’t quite know if that’s a good or bad thing personally, but… it’s easier to find peace that way. Eventually even repressed emotions can fade.
i think u misunderstood me. shows like got provide u with multiple perspectives and moral dilemmas. a lot of anime doesn’t, it will specifically be curated to entice men in a typically grotesque way
When a couple is actually ready to get married. 10/10
That's gingivitis and that's not good. It can lead to other diseases, tooth loss and heart problems.
Welcome to adulting. Compromises are called for, as are hard decisions sometimes.
There’s probably a compromise where you don’t play video games all that much and see your GF less. But this will be a very hot equilibrium to reach because it will probably be dissatisfying for both of you.
You could just suck it up and accept that there’s too much on your plate and something, (GF, work, school, or hobbies) needs to go. That’s probably also dissatisfying….
How about having a clear understand on what’s going on because it appears that you both have a different viewpoint
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Yikes man. Her ‘representative’ has clearly worn off. You know what to do. It should have never gotten this far. You know what you have to do.
I understand both sides as I'm in something similar on your end. Been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have sat down recently to ask what we wanted to do for the rest of the relationship last year. We came to the conclusion that we both do want to get married but we are taking the social & economic climate into heavy consideration.
Seeing as we on-line in Florida, it's very hot to get a house, have good stable jobs, etc just because it's so expensive. We want to have a house & much more stable jobs before marriage so we plan on moving to North Carolina then after another year or 2 we'll get a house then marriage.
Look at not just the relationship but what's going on around the relationship. Maybe that might be what is stopping him. We haven't gotten married not just because of the economic climate but also because he was engaged with an abusive person & for a long while he was scared about marriage so I never pushed it. Sit down & talk to him of why he doesn't want to, find out the full reason. Then go from there.
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Good start but the next chapter needs to pop a bit more.
Honestly, I would be done. There is no amount of sushi and/or flowers that would make me forgive this violation of privacy. 4k is not a lot of debt, and it sounds like you are responsibly paying it off. Kudos to you!
Because why would you have sex with someone else if you have feelings for someone in particular? And why would you risk ruining a relationship that you want to start by willy nilly jumping into bed with others?
Polly exists, but generally the poly person has feelings for all their partners, they don't just jump into bed with every one they go on one date with
Being a furry doesn’t necessarily entail kink. Even if it isn’t kink it’s viewed as very weird and taboo.
Lol and If I was actually uncomfortable with it. Then I likely would have just ignored you and moved on with my day. See how it works you don't deserve my medical diagnosis unless I give it to you ♡
Don't have children if you aren't certain you want them. They are a lifelong commitment. I have one child who is an adult now, and I can say raising a child is the hardest thing I ever did. Thankfully my child had no health issues when she was born, I don't know how I would have managed if she had been severely disabled.
Once you have a child, your life is not your own. Even taking a nap becomes a luxury. I have never loved anyone as much as my child, but raising a child is hard. The sacrifices you make for your children are immense. The love you have for your child make it all worth it, but I can't imagine having a child without the desire to be a parent.
If i were the person who had pics stolen, there is NO WAY I would say “let’s just forget it”. I would feel extremely violated. IMO you are being lied to.
6 years? You moved states for him and you on-line together, yet you can’t bring this up? He’s almost 40 y/o and he is a kept man. Fine if you both agree, but if you don’t want to be his mommy so he can stay a man-child, you need to you know talk to him, not us.
Think about this: that you are so reluctant to even bring this up is the very reason he is with you.
Or maybe she thinks her fiance is too friendly with her….
Definitely no. I'm 39 and am starting to to worry about what you're saying — almost a decade and a half later, but I'm still okay with not forcing myself into a relationship that isn't ideal. If anything, you're better off waiting. I was with a girl who got married at 24 and had her first kid less than a year later — she was very clear about how much she regretted doing so as young as she was (don't get me wrong, she loves her kids and is a great mom, she just wishes she had done it a few years later and not with a guy she met in high school).
The idea of getting married and starting a family is Reagan-era family-values BS. You'll find the person you're meant to be with on your own time, don't let anyone else dictate how, when, or where you find that person.
When you cheat, you cause emotional damage that can last for years, some victims of cheaters never recover the ability to trust or love completely. Cheaters don't just ruin marriages – they ruin lives. Treat your husband with respect and give him the gift of honesty. Share your dissatisfaction and try to find ways to solve it together. Then, if you still need to end the marriage you can do so with dignity knowing you tried.
If you had a friend in this position, and they told you everything you just wrote, what would you tell them?
I hope you recognise your value! Everyone deserves a relationship that makes them feel celebrated, like first choice, and secure.
I don’t have a playstation, but I cannot imagine any scenario where setting up an on-line account is rocket science. I really doubt you could have deleted anything if you tried. Does you husband often insist on holding your hand through simple tasks?
This reads more like a parent punishing a little child than a husband speaking to a wife. He sounds abusive, and I doubt this is the first or last time this has occurred. It will escalate. Please go to your parents and come up with a safe exit plan.
I’m confused about what you are talking about? I didn’t say I’d degrade you or anything. Where is this personal attack? Are you automatically assuming people will say bad things about your looks? Yikes.
I want to see what you look like because you’re bringing up the subject of grooming. I’d love to see what you got going on, so I can get a good scope of what your facial hair looks like since the topic is very important to you. Important enough to deride a post about a haircut and make it about yourself and/or other men.
Since it’s significant, let’s see what’s up. I’m happy to give feedback if you want, or a compliment to help boost your spirits about this sensitive subject.
Why did you tap her shoulder?
I'm going to go with “you're just in the area where she looks when she's looking into space.”
Respect yourself. You are a grown man, responsible for multiple children (includes your wife) – you dont need to take shit from a big toddler.
I’m not sure he’s ready for adulthood.
Possibly
Good lord no one should be taking dating advice from a teenager ?
True. Do you think im over reacting? I wanna get over this but at the same time his best friend may be a cheater and I dont wanna be around him. And its not like im going to go ask his wife if she was okay with it. Thats not my place
Easy…..✨leave him✨
And I hope u cut off that “best friend”! Open relationship or not NEVER sleep with your friends bf/ex ?
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The friend sounds like a scumbag. But the wife did not do anything she didn't want to do.
Set up your own account t and message him with “fancy meeting you here.” Then block and walk
He said he was considering working a retail job in the meantime after quitting because he thinks he hit a “dead end”, and he said he'd be “more respected” there too.
\Deep Inhale** HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
This dude is so out of touch though I guess that makes sense since he's been working an office job since his intern days. Good on you for leaving him though I would LOVE to see his reaction upon working retail for like a week.
Unfortunately, there’s not many problems that just go away with time and it’s probably wishful thinking with this one too. That said, I haven’t been through this to tell you yes or no for sure. But it hasn’t gone away or faded yet and it sounds like it’s been going on for a while.
Your therapist might be able to talk with the new person and get them up to speed, but regardless it sounds like getting a new person up to speed will take less time than has already been spent with this therapist on the issue.
Unfortunately, there’s not many problems that just go away with time and it’s probably wishful thinking with this one too. That said, I haven’t been through this to tell you yes or no for sure. But it hasn’t gone away or faded yet and it sounds like it’s been going on for a while.
Your therapist might be able to talk with the new person and get them up to speed, but regardless it sounds like getting a new person up to speed will take less time than has already been spent with this therapist on the issue.
Yeah I have to agree it was somewhat performative. It was a nice offer but wrong place wrong time so to speak. I can’t abort everything, change location and tell everyone last minute it’s somewhere else just for her. Very awkward and uneasy situation lol
I mean.. if she had permission to use the card and then accidently used it to pay for drinks but, settled the mistake right away when discovered. Thats not my definition of theft. Ive done things like that, and have had it happen to me. Its just an honest mistake.