I'm sorry, that's not what I meant or wanted to imply. Didn't want to sound rude. Text based communication is sometimes confusing, I also should've been more clear in previous comments and should've replied to you in a different way. I also have been confused on a few occasions (and I'm always grateful to people who point out where is my error). That resulted me acting like a dum dum. Lol
The think that makes the most difference isn't something you can do. It's what he's doing. With ADHD, you have to set systems in place for yourself to counteract forgetfulness. Personally I use sticky notes everywhere on everything. Note apps don't help me, I need ink on paper. Is he seeing a therapist? Is he medicated? ADHD has a high comorbidity with depression, so it needs to be actively managed and cared for. If he has untreated, unmedicated, no systems in place ADHD he's probably not gonna have a good time.
You literally just posted this!
I'm sorry, that's not what I meant or wanted to imply. Didn't want to sound rude. Text based communication is sometimes confusing, I also should've been more clear in previous comments and should've replied to you in a different way. I also have been confused on a few occasions (and I'm always grateful to people who point out where is my error). That resulted me acting like a dum dum. Lol
Consider getting a therapist to help you navigate your self doubt and feelings. You deserve to be happy and on-line life.
The think that makes the most difference isn't something you can do. It's what he's doing. With ADHD, you have to set systems in place for yourself to counteract forgetfulness. Personally I use sticky notes everywhere on everything. Note apps don't help me, I need ink on paper. Is he seeing a therapist? Is he medicated? ADHD has a high comorbidity with depression, so it needs to be actively managed and cared for. If he has untreated, unmedicated, no systems in place ADHD he's probably not gonna have a good time.
Maybe he should actually talk with her then? It's hand holding ffs
He told me they were separated
Is she muslim?
You have no objection to him staying at your home??? WTF??
Girl, you need to grow a spine and create some boundaries.