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Birth Date: 2001-08-17
Body Type: bodyTypeAthletic
Ethnicity: ethnicityAsian
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture: subcultureStudent
Date: October 16, 2022
As a female, I think she’s at a different life stage at you.
I was flattered when significantly older men wanted to date me when I was younger, but now I find it skeevy.
“Hey, I felt you were a bit flirty trying so insistently to get that coworker to dance. For later I would like if you didnt focus so much on a female coworker to show off skills that can be considered sensual”.
You don't necessarily have to address that he's lacking certain mental faculties. You just have to really, really go to town about his social awkwardness, though. He has to be able to see that it's off putting and too much. Get him to work on that, and things might improve for him.
we love eachother differently
You might not be compatible. That is ok. Neither of you are in the wrong – that's life and dating sometimes!
I know it feels that he is everything right now, but you are young. If this ends, you will be ok! You will love again and you will love someone who wants to have sex with you and with whom you feel that connection again.
Does she see that it’s a problem and is she willing to work on it? Will she go to AA or therapy on her own? At the end of the day you can’t try harder if she’s not going to try to remedy her relationship with alcohol. My ex was the same way when he drank. I wish I had left sooner then I did but I was convinced he’d wake up one day and change. If you want to give her another chance to change that’s up to you. If you’re done that’s completely okay too.
I felt that I had to be open and honest
You’ve learned something valuable.
Stay away from men with no self confidence.
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That may not even be the point.
Though French people look friendly and hospitable on the outside they can hide a xenophobic inside sometimes.
(My son is half a Frenchie, I have grown up in the south of France… I do know what I am talking about!)
He has just seen his paternal family (3 cousins, 2 uncles and 2 aunts) once in his entire 27 years. Because…. I am German.
Him having married “a foreigner” may have been an issue already. And children from another man may feel to him like the straw that breaks the donkeys back.
But… you went into that. Now find a way. You owe that to your children.
Either you stay at home and he goes alone. Lies for lies just make him tell, gramma is unwell and can't be left home alone.
Or you take the kids along and set records straight.
I had hoped you would actually pose an argument to my theory. This whole thing started with my argument stating “At age 30 you shouldn't be putting labels on people to explain why Alt guys won't date you.” It spun until some fun banter and most people actually gave perspective. You just came in and said “Clearly you can't accept when your wrong” and then never posed an argument why. I was trying to usher a fun attitude in hopes you would pose a counter argument but it was just insult jabs like “clearly based on one post I know exactly who you are” like a typical lazy live commenter. I guess we can agree to disagree. You'll respond to this because I know your the type that can't help themselves but get the last word in so go ahead I'll give it to you and we can never speak again.
Hopefully that was the final incident that made him an ex…
I was okay with it. Until I saw how she reacted to something less significant than sleeping with someone in that manner. It’s making me overthink because if she’s reacting that way, then her core beliefs are that doing so is wrong. But she still did it anyways.
Mate you’re going to supporting a kid you had no hand in making. This is not ok. They’ve baby trapped you. Get out while you can
Other than that, when people clown on insecurities, they forget that they have been lucky. You almost read atleast once in a week or sometimes more than once, how the girl got together or the boy got together with their “best friend”.
That shitty feeling of being there just turns a guy/girl off.
Thats a boundary and cool if it does not match. People will insult but it is good.
Judgement is always done and better that people who have same ideas collide for a happy relationship, than going onto clown on why do you not date this girl with guy bf.That burns a lot.
I don’t think there’s really any right answer, but if you’ve only been feeling these emotions for the past week maybe let them solidify a bit first. There’s no rush. Young relationships can be fickle (but obviously you know your feelings a lot better than some stranger on the internet.
One tip: I recommend not saying it for the first time after sex, I’ve made that mistake a couple times and it’s always more awkward than you expect.
Best of luck.
I suspect his has FeElInGs about being supported by a girlfriend. They should be feelings of gratitude, but he’s decided otherwise. He can go couch surf then.
Yeah most people don’t do that any more.
People are romanticizing and justifying physical assault and it’s scary.
Have you asked him why he just doesn't do things that he sees needs to be done and waits for you to tell him?
It could be something that to him is just not “normal” in that he has grown up in an environment where these things were always left up to his mother (not unusual).
Another way to approach this could be the “collaborative” approach. In that it could be something simple like “oh, can you give me a hand with this” and you complete a task together.
Or have you done that already?
Intentionally inflicting emotional damage to her will leave lasting harm with her. Tell her the truth, be short and be kind as possible without giving her false hope.
Your plan is how people wind up damaged and injuring future partners. Be an adult and face the conversation.