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Date: October 12, 2022
You are hurt because “Welp, she was the only one who would have me” is a hurtful response. You want to know he chose you and instead you got a response that implies you chose HIM and he just went along with it because he…thought he didn't have another option, I guess?
My ex-husband used to say things like this. Note he is my ex. Now this is a test I give partners. I ask explicitly what they like about me as a person, rather than what I do for them or the relationship. And I want specifics not bullshit generic compliments: there are millions of women who are “pretty” and “smart” and “nice.” I ask for specifics, give them time to come up with an answer and give them a few chances. (This is also a good test to see if they know THEMSELVES well enough to know who they are compatible with BTW.)
Most still can't do it. And so they get dumped and that's fine. I've spent a lot of time and energy becoming who I want to be and I want to be with someone who appreciates that. And being with someone who doesn't see me feels more lonely than being alone.
The question to ask is: if you asked your female friends why they love you, could they explain, in detail? I bet they can. And you can explain why you love them? So why expect less from your husband?
It wasn’t “changing her mind”, what it was is a predetermined decision which she made at the very least a day earlier and just didn’t bother telling me about it.
And obviously I have hobbies and other shit I can do, but if I had known that she’s going much earlier than anticipated I would’ve made plans with other friends which I can’t really do last second (don’t know how your friends are but mine prefer less spontaneous meeting)
It would totally depend on what the crime was.
Yeah based on what you posted, you’ve got between a shit show and no show of a chance of getting him to reconsider divorce.
In long distance small things like that go the long way.
Is it controlling? In itself, not really. If what you ask for is only information that this happening. It does not matter this is necessary, it is sth you apparently need and would not cost your gf much.
If you do talk again ask her if you are free to hang out with and invite girls without her knowledge. Do not let her gaslight you into this being sth different.
Personally I don't think you would be wrong not giving up this boundary.
You are definitely the backup plan. She needs 3 weeks to see if this other guy at work is going to work out. Sorry man.
So he is a great father? He's active, involved, financially present and emotionally available for them?
Your description made it sound like he's barely around.
My mother tells me that everyman is this way. But honestly I feel I deserve so much more, to be treated as if I'm heard at the very least. OR at least for someone not to be annoyed when I say I love you.