So I’m f 23 and my boyfriend m 22 and I have been dating for over 9 months now and it has definitely become clear that I have the higher libido out of the two of us. There have been several times in which I try to initiate sex and he either outright says he’s not into it right now or will playfully change the subject. I’m always very respectful of his decision as I know that even though we used to have sex every day, usually multiple times a day, that isn’t sustainable and that totally okay. This morning though we had a bit of a role reversal and he was ready to go and I just wasn’t feeling it. Without just coming out and saying I wasn’t wanting to have sex right this instant, which he has done several times, I made it clear I wasn’t wanting to get anything started. He immediately was like okay let’s get up and go and was giving me a healthy amount of the cold shoulder and clipped responses. Idk what to do as I feel like confronting him will just make him defensive and turn it back on me. This is one of the first times I have ever turned down sex so I just don’t understand why he’s acting like this? It’s not like we go weeks or months at a time without getting it on.
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