I (30f) don’t want to be an emotionally supportive wife to a husband (43m). What is incorrect with me?

So basically the title..

I' m inside a good, steady and relationship with my husband. We have been together for 10 years, married designed for 6. We have fun with each other, go out, have common passions, enjoy talking to each other all day and are close – plus everything is great in the bed room.

I' m, however , a bit unhappy. My husband is unemployed again, he is stressed out and doesn' t just want any job (money is just not an issue – we on-line in Europe and have unemployment payment). He wants a job that makes him feel highly valued and is within his field. I do understand that, but him being unemployed makes him unhappy. And he needs myself to be emotionally supportive on top of doing everything at home. My hubby doesn' t have the power to cook, wash clothing, clean up, vacuuming or anything, because he is stressed out from being fired and becoming unemployed.

I got a new work a few months ago. I' ve arrive through the glass ceiling and I' m now the particular boss of 4 workers, and doing what I have always wanted. And I make a lot of money. But it is nude. I work late hours, and am want to prove my worth. I' m tired once i get home, and then I have to thoroughly clean the house, and cook. I am unable to keep up with watching the fabric and vacuuming. Or I possibly could, if I didn' t need to be supportive and listen to their problems, his new ways of dealing with stress, his dissatisfaction with the unemployment system as well as the political system in general. I actually do agree with him. But I simply feel like he is

talking with me not to me. I actually do understand that he needs to vent out. But I feel that when We are home, he takes up the time so I can' big t keep the house in order.

Furthermore I want to go out with my friends several days a week. I do need to have several fun and blow off a few steam, and go to the theatre, out to eat or to a bar or club.

Here is what I don' to understand. Why don' t I want to be supportive? The reason why do I care more about clean cloth, and vacuuming than about my husband, who clearly needs my support?

Precisely why do I want to go out with my buddies and leave my husband in your own home, instead of taking him out there, when he clearly needs something fun to brighten him up? Why don' t I want to support the person I love?

I have tried speaking with him about him taking on my time, but then he just asks me " Why don' t you need to spend time with me? " which is what I don' t understand. Why don' t I actually?