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Hey there, I’m new around, give me a warm welcome and get me nude toady!
Date: November 14, 2022
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Hey there, I’m new around, give me a warm welcome and get me nude toady!
You got this.
And guess what if it goes south, you’re divorced so you more than likely have learned your worth in your past marriage. So keep that energy here, stand by your convictions and express your feelings in a respectful yet assertive way!
Tell him to go fuck himself. You cat is much more valuable than that douche.
Oh btw he did record me and other situations. He also avoided the question a lot which made me feel less trust on him:/
Yeah… Do you think that everyone will eventually find someone great? Im a bit tired of all this complicated relationships Whats your experience?
Ten minutes?
She certainly sounds selfish a d disrespectful to you. She knows your love for her is real. But just remember she is just using you now to give her validation to screw other guys. Just go NC with her
This gives me the fucking ick for your boyfriend and it should give you the ick too. ?
Man, you spend a lot of time thinking about sucking dick and getting fucked.
Sounds like a bunch of excuses and that's a gross ass comment but congrats on showing how disgusting you are
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(Also her ex is a high ranking guy at my company)
Don't get involved!! FFS!
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Do it. It’s incredibly eyes opening to some couples. And he needs a wake up call.
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Bf don’t know shit
This sounds like the drivel my 21 year old ex (I was 22 at the time) would put in his “novel”. To date still the most shit writing I have ever read and I am a moderate reader (50-100 books a year as per my good reads)
That is a good idea. Don't forget, if she is ace, she might have forced herself to appear like she has a higher libido because she thought that was what is normal, the same way gay people can have many hetero relationships before even they know they're gay
Also her being ace doesn't have to end the relationship like a lot of commenters are saying. As someone who has dated an ace person, it is something that can be worked around, but again, wait until therapy to know for sure
If he is not legally allowed to purchase a gun and you do it for him, then you can be charged with any crimes he commits using your gun. Don't be stupid.
Sounds like a date to me and that he's into you.
If you aren't into him, you can get your own room and be clear and direct that you just want to keep things professional
This sounds like a business deal instead of a relationship. Break up with this guy and find someone who loves you for you, not the amount of money you earn!
Why are you with this piece of literal human shit? He told you he wanted to fuck his ex to spite you.
He likely is fucking people other than you.
Yes, this is unhealthy. It's perfectly fine to miss your partner and want to spend more time with them. It's not fine to start crying because they're taking a bit long to reply to a message.
Pick up a hobby, work out, spend time with your friends, get stuck into a book or TV show. Things that help you get through the time without missing him.
what part of what i said was paranoia? In all the relationships i've been in i've never been worried unless i was given a reason to. Ive never see any of my gfs being touchy feely with other guys nor have i been touchy feely with other girls because it's just an accepted norm by people in relationships. It's having boundaries and being exclusive to your partner. I do nothing more than hug my female friends. I don't hold their waist. I think it's hilarious how people consider boundaries jealousy.
Thank you for sharing. Your story is relatable and funny.
OP I would try to secretly find out what you can before talking to him at all. If you just point blank ask him, he’ll just keep giving you the excuses he’s been giving you for 2 years. The PI idea is a good one. Or even having a friend try to find out what they can might work also. See if there even is anything to gather before having a talk with him. Because if you do find any evidence of another relationship, when he tries to lie you’ll have proof it it. What he’s telling you isn’t adding up. And it’s always a HUGE problem when someone doesn’t want to introduce you to ANYONE in their lives for that long. Good luck.
That's my point, I genuinely don't know how to feel about it, whether I should talk to him about this (I have never, not a single time touched his phone or any means of communication he has and its extremely unlike me, I went to see his emails and only checked 3 keywords, hoping to see something positive or nothing)
If he was the kind of guy that was willing to listen to your perspective and change his mind he wouldn’t get that pissed every time you bring up the subject. That’s just not how it works. The problem isn’t how you explain it, it’s that he isn’t interested in considering your pov. He’s the problem.
And NOW he is refusing to wear a condom, because she still wants to have sex with a man she doesn't trust.
Maybe they're having protected sex and “what happens happens” and now she wants to avoid a pregnancy when she's unsure of still being with him or not. But still wanna have sex. or feels pressured to.
I mean maybe if you polled men on attractiveness 21-25 is your “peak”. But hopefully he’s with for better reasons than that you’re at your physical peak
Hell yes. Do what's best for everyone and serve your husband papers, he'll thank you later in life OP.
Maybe you should start by making up your mind about whether you're 27 or 29 first…
Tell husband to pick a lane. She makes upset and that should be enough to get rid of her. Update please.
We've offered but he says one of his jobs is just too far away from us. We told him to quit and find another job, but since that one is the higher paying of the two, he says he's gotta build the experience to get a job in the same field before quitting.
He already told you how he feels about holidays. If that’s a dealbreaker, then he’s not the one for you
She’s tripping, they are good asf gifts! also $600 for perfume??? only way I’d pay that is if it makes me hallucinate every time I wear it ?
Nobody is talking about exclusivity or relationship rules or how society views them in this thread.
You said people who are against having sex with multiple partners in the same day without disclosure are conservative and expect women to be virginal.
I’m saying that’s a stupid comment.
The guy is willing to avoid any physical intimacy for 7 months because of a string? He's either lying about the reason or he seriously needs therapy. I promise you theres no way he can feel it unless he's searching for it with his finger. I say that as a man who has been with a few partners who have had IUDs. He understand that it's just a string, and not anything that can poke him, right?
It took my GF 1.5 years to say “I love you”.
We've been together for 5 now and set our engagement.
If there is something to address here, I don't think the “I love you” should be it.
Its should be this:
Every time I bring it up he goes quiet
Any time there is a serious conversation he puts up a wall. That is creating a road block for communication.
Seeing how you two have been together for over a year, you should be able to have serious conversations without much issue.
Really… if you two break up, it won't be because he hasn't said “I love you”… its going to because he cannot effectively communicate his side to you. That is the dysfunction in the relationship here.
Is this a joke. He sounds like a self sabotaging L. Find a supportive partner.
Yes. Throw away the six years.
Once you are rehabbed from the relationship you'll laugh at yourself for ever considering it a possibility to give her a second chance.
I just don't see why it's worth pursuing anything with her.
She has maintained contact with the guy while starting things with you. That's a pretty concerning situation. She's doing what feels good to her, not what will help create the best relationship with you. Stay away from partners like that because it won't end well.
Not that easy to just up an leave when you’re pregnant and have a toddler running around. Also OP is very young so probably doesn’t have a degree or financial means to do so. Which ofc is exactly why her shit husband gets away with what he does.
Eh you weren't in a relationship back then yet.
Although it's not nice of her to do so, I can understand why she'd lie. She's probably happy right now and afraid to jeopardize what you guys have. From your reqction she's right to be afraid.
Is it wrong for you to be hurt? No. What you feel is valid.
But you also have to think wether what she did is worth leaving her or not.
The problem here is communication. The lack of communication in a LDR can drastically increase anxiety and worry in a relationship.
She seems very defensive about the situation. But I don't know her. You need to have anin person chat about the anxiety and insecurity that you are feeling. That it can easily be solved by better communication. If she ignores or belittles your feelings, you may have a bigger problem.
Good luck
You referred to him as emotionally abusive and a terrible partner and bad father in other posts. why in the world do you want to stay with him?
Dump him. Break ups such so much for everyone. That is no reason to stay with an asshole bf who allows another woman to throw herself at him.
Congratulations!!
Ending a relationship can often be painful, even when we know that it’s the right thing to do. Let yourself feel what you feel and remind yourself of the reason you broke up.
So no missing reasons??? You have yet to explain why she would hide a child from you for 10+ years but are trying to paint yourself as a loving husband and father. Women don't hide kids from great guys, we hide them from men we're afraid of leaving our kids alone with.