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Date: February 24, 2023
I text lots of people I'm not interested in marrying.
I haven't had an actual birthday celebration when I was 18. I don't really value those things and if I had to plan something for my partner I would probably just plan a nice dinner the day of or something.
It wouldn't even occur to me to spend the day before the birthday with my partner. Especially if she told me she didn't want to go out.
If you want to spend that time with him, you need to tell him to his face, preferably several days in advance to he can make plans or shuffle around existing ones. I don't think most people would go out of their way to spend the day before a birthday with their friends or significant others.
Is he though? Does loyalty mean accepting decisions made by the other that you deeply disagree with?
Copy what you wrote and read it to him at the next therapist appointment.
My guess is that he wants you to do it in person so he's got more control and will argue every point with you and invalidate your feelings. The therapist will prevent that.
No, he doesn’t want you to post his stuff on sm and you are the red flag ignoring his boundary just for clout. Also kinda pathetic how you’re acting
The reason is he is taking the first steps to control you. You must remain attractive to him at all times, or he will not treat you well. He does not like a certain hairstyle, so you can never wear it. If you do, you are “punished” with his rudeness.
It seems (and hopefully is) insignificant, but that is how this stuff starts. Are you ok being treated badly because of something as silly as a ponytail?
Big difference between a 36 yr old and a 18-20 year old. A fully developed brain for one
I sang a stupid song for him to make him laugh. My wife did not like that one bit. She threw a shitfit about how he was going to “imitate the wrong lyrics.” She did not stop talking about how I need to teach him only “the correct lyrics” to songs
That would make me want to blast Weird Al Yankovich records around her all day long. Seriously, she sounds like my abusive, hypercritical grandma, whom I went NC on as an adult. My question is has she always been like this or is it more recent? She prob won't listen to you but it sounds like she needs to see a doctor and a therapist because she must be miserable inside.
Oh HELL NO!!!! This is absolutely disgusting and disrespectful and NO woman or man is worth this level of disrespect and no good partner would allow their SO to be treated like an animal or worse.
Yes parents are important but culture or not, at some point you have to teach ppl how to treat you. GF needs to go find her Igbo man that her parents want her to marry because that's the only way they will respect her and her autonomy.
SO, I'm so sorry. How degrading. I hope you wake up from the fog and find a better GF and family. You're still young and plenty of good available women out there. Smh.
This is so disturbing.
Correct.
My wife was asking me if she could back out of doing a thing we were planning and I texted back “same as always, whatever makes you happiest” which I truly meant at face value: if it makes you happy the answer is always yes.
I was astounded to find her in tears later because her past relationships (and the fact that it was text) made her assume I was implying she only ever thought about herself.
I had to learn to be much more clear in my word choice.
you really messed up bad. you don't compare a person to their vile parent ever. now you know. i learned that the hot way too. you haven't figured out how over the line it was yet. you're too busy thinking about yourself to really look at it. she should not have brought it up when y'all were getting into bed – its an important discussion to have sober – but that didn't give you the right to go there. at all. people can change their minds. its ok. it happens. it doesn't mean you got manipulated. people grow up. why anyone would want to bring a child into this world at this time is beyond me but if you do and she doesn't its ok. don't talk her into it. don't think she'll just take to it or it will grow on her. accept how she feels and move forward. if kids are a dealbreaker for you find someone who wants them a lot and who is kind and just be so very grateful you found this out before you two brought a child into the world with a mother who would rather not be
It sounds like if he leaves, the trash will be taking itself out. I fall to see the downside of this.
We’ve gone out before he moved.
It’s weird though right? About what he said?
Lmao nah he's a coke head
Cheating is wrong regardless. End the marriage, go separate ways whatever, and do whatever tf you want but don't cheat.
I would never want to be friends with a cheater. They will throw anyone under the bus, they are cowards, lie, and are the most selfish people because they do not think of anyone but themselves.
I know how you feel and I'd be uncomfortable too.
I appreciate your insight but you are assuming many things that were not stated.
We don’t barely tolerate each other. We get along quite well and even own a business together. But when there is a disagreement because of something I feel/want/dislike, it cannot be resolved because he just digs in his heels and says I’m wrong. He also lied and gaslit me for the first half of our relationship and that is what we are working on in therapy. Therapy also takes time and yes, there are some improvements but i don’t see the effort being made.
I’m sure he is checked out. Me too, probably. None of that was the advice I was asking about. I’m sure there is a character limit and to explain our relationship history would well exceed it. All I wanted to know was how other families treat nieces and nephews and whether my experience was common or if I am overreacting.