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Date: October 28, 2022
Translation she has some side dudes she ia cheating with.
I just realized everything nice I've ever done was subconscious manipulation. Enlightening.
She never had the intention of telling the wife, she told me that she was going to wait patiently until he divorced the wife. And also in our country, male cheating is considered okay while the female cheating is frowned upon, in that regard, I wouldn't necessarily say that she's going to cheat too. But then again, you never know.
Omg??? And he assumed I was going to say yes to an engagement and magically change my mind. What do you mean I assumed? Assumed what? As you said “a relationship is a two way street”, I told him my plans, goals, and boundaries. I am always open to hearing his. HE AGREED to waiting!!! I did not assume because he did agree to waiting a few years!
We do live together since 7 years ago. To do this I have to migrate to another country and bring her along as there was no future in our country. That's why I paid the English lessons as well.
We break up a few times regarding this topic and she said she will do something etc. so I keep waiting but I finally broke, I believe.
It is just so very hot because she is so attentive and takes care of me and vice versa but it's just so hurtful and makes me feel like a failure that didn't manage to make her do better for herself and in the general scheme of things to our relationship.
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You seem very quick to leave this relationship. It sounds like at every misstep you threaten to leave.
That is not a good way of handling issues at all. You both need marriage counseling to gain some perspective and proper communication techniques.
This marriage seems like it could be a very strong successful union of you both learn to communicate a lot better.
It's over. You accept that, you move on, you don't contact her again. You are not owed an explanation or closure. If you have to interact with her professionally, you keep things strictly professional.
People who leave relationships in this way do so because they are AFRAID of their partner. Whether you've physically abused her or not, she was AFRAID of you and what you would do when she left. It seems to me that you need to seriously examine your behaviors within the relationship and reflect on what may have made her feel this way towards you. The fact that police were called due to a fight would tend to support this as well.
Did you combine custody and guardian to make custodian?
Because he wants you to feel responsible. He wants you to feel bad about yourself. He wants you to feel shitty. Because your feelings are not of value to him at all.
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There is a possibility that he was raped but at least from the history related to OP doesn't looks like it, I agree having a nude time to undestand when it passed from “we need to talk about you being rude to customers” to ” let's keep drinking both of us alone at your place”, there are a lot of gaps in the history to know the whole truth. If he was abused he has to go to the police and press charges.
Well, that's not true. My parents have assimilated to their culture as well. My parents, for exame, never ever celebrate Thanksgiving. We threw them a huge thanksgiving dinner and my FIL didn't even end up coming because he and my MIL got in an argument so she came alone. There's other things too. I'm pointing out one specific traditional expectation here so it's not fair for you to assume my parents expect them to assimilate to everything. This specific tradition they feel strongly about. Not that I agree or disagree but you're seeing them as being controlling in every case and they're not at all.
The family would probably talk if they found out. And we don’t know if her sister will say anything.
More difficult when the unfavored party is a lawyer. Yes, you shouldn’t have yourself as a client, but as a theoretically savvy attorney, a court will look less favorably on OP waiving her right to independent counsel than they would if she was in any other profession.
End things. He wants to shame you for how you dress and get you to agree to flirt with other girls. It will lead to cheating and you can be sure it will the fault of the length of your dress or something.
Dump him, that kind of behaviour is icky.
> word a controversial take you had more tactfully
This is exactly what I did before our first kiss. Weeks later, she pulls up some pieces that I tell her I didn't obviously support and it's over.
Yup. Sounds sticky. At least you're aware of the details and potential for good or bad outcome.
I think because you know the risks involved, you're going to be careful where you step. The people who get really hurt are those who full steam ahead in these situations.
Logically, if you two were to take a shot at dating… letting it develop naturally is the best path to it. Of course that comes at a risk to you. Potentially developing feelings and having them rejected.
I guess you have to keep yourself in check on how much rope you want to give as time goes on. Are you capable of capping your feelings off? Letting a little develop so things can manifest. But capping it off so you're not hurt if things fail?
As for this:
Are relationships that really work only those that have clear intentions from the beginning?
I think people are capable of changing their minds once they experience someone they love being around.
Yeah… good luck with this. It sounds uhm, challenging to navigate for sure.
All I can recommend is to do your best in controlling your feelings. Keep yourself in that 'this is just for fun' mindset. Try to only develop deeper feelings when you know it's safe to do so. And of course, enjoy his company, that's what this is about.
Bang him and get it over with
Your gf is twisted. You’re a good brother. Find someone who has a heart.
Wow. He’s a total scumbag. You’re well shot and will eventually move on to something much better. Take comfort in the fact that the new baby momma is now stuck with him. Find it nude to believe she didn’t know about you. Take care.
Umm what?
I can’t see your comment, whoever replied, but it was about her, wanting to go to see her female friend at college over the weekend. I should’ve just said that I don’t feel comfortable it being a college dorm and on the weekend which means drunk guys. I do trust her it’s just overwhelming. She has seen this friend a lot in the past. And for some reason, we argued about it ended up in me shouting at her.
Yeeeeah it’s still totally possible they had an affair and she moved to be close to him. The genetic anomaly is enough to warrant more investigation. Don’t rug sweep this
This sounds toxic and abusive. You are actually with someone who probably does not love you at all and never will, he is using you and you are letting him. It is time to end it and move on.
Maya Angelou said: 'When people show you who they are, believe them'. This man has shown you who he is, deep in his heart and soul, he doesn't love you, that is who he is. He will not say he loves you, ever again, because he doesn't. Believe this because that's his truth.
He has told you he will leave you if you need him to love you – there you have it. He might miss you but he doesn't love you. Again, you could stand on your head for him and shout you love him till you're blue in the face, and he won't change his mind and love you. You can wait until eternity but he will not say: I love you. He's told you this, shown this is who he is, believe him. He won't say it. He doesn't love you.
He said it initially because: 1. he needed to hook you and reel you in. Or 2. because he used to love you, but doesn't anymore. One is manipulative, to get you to do what he wanted, which is not someone you want to be with. The second is sad, because your relationship is based on his being comfortable using you. It doesn't really matter which of the 2 options was the reason he said he loved you initially – because both result in a loveless relationship. This is not a relationship to be in.
Please do yourself a favour. Break up with him, block and unfollow him, don't communicate with him, no talking you into sex with hints of he will try to see if this relationship is worth 'wasting his time'. Stop. Just stop letting him use you and walk all over you.
You deserve love. You deserve someone who doesn't question if you just a waste of his time.
It's not the sex on the first date or whatever that's causing the issue, lots of successful relationships come from sex first, dates later.
It's the choice of people to go on those dates with in the first place. Making them wait a bit isn't going to change their entire personality.
But he’s willing to commit. What’s wrong with her?
Cheaters logic is so amusing, because it's so braindead.
I was wrong and so stupid. I want to fight for us. I offered couples therapy and that I go thru psychiatric ward treatments. A clean slate. I don’t want to be without him. I don’t know what to do.
Lol. Hopefully he stays firm in his decision and moves on from you.
Sounds more like a trap house
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Please hire an assailant on Craigslist to sock her in the face
I think what we're trying to ask is why is he not turned on?
I have an IUD and I have never once gaslighted my fiancé. So, if that’s what your hesitance is about, there ya go.