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Maybe not jail time but I don't know why you were downvoted, you're not wrong. I just said the same thing basically. If the tables were turned, they would be calling him an attempted rapist and telling her to leave him.
It's okay for her to pressure him though because apparently men can't be victims. He's probably fed up with her shit. He's probably tired of her trying to manipulate him.
I understand that people cry when they're stressed out but some people do this to manipulate the other person into giving them what they want. I can't say whether or not she was actually doing that but if the tables were turned, they would be telling her to get the hell out because he's abusive.
Why is it that she said nothing wrong with her statement because she's a woman? I can guarantee you that if he had said that, they would all be calling him an abuser and telling her to leave.
100% this has moved to the court realm. It seems like she's thinking you owe alimony plus child support. Not a lawyer/solicitor but I think you need a legal agreement or at least mediation.
Having kids together doesn't make you a family. You already have 3 kids between you, that should be plenty. This has nothing to do with the ex. He's done having kids, and that's probably a good thing if his kids have special needs, as that's likely to be expensive. The age gap is an issue, but I don't understand why you're desperate to have more kids at your young age. It's like you think you need to combine your genes to make the relationship legitimate, and that's really disturbing.
Why you take it to a sexual place? It’s his dad, there’s nothing sexual there, there’s just messing around…
I don’t know, to me it doesn’t seem much, but I spent the majority of my life in team sports settings (locker rooms, showers, training camps) so nothing seems weird to me. I’ve seen people put their dicks on someone else’s phone while the person was talking to their girlfriend, seen guys pee on others while in the shower if the other person was not paying attention, seen people pee on someone else’s bed and what not…these are just mild examples :))))
If she wants to pull my kid doesn't see your mom, then you tell her the same.
She needs to look at the issue here and it sounds like GF likes to be the toxic one. Her family doesn't like you and you don't hold her or you child from them, she needs to see the whole picture.
Also, her and your mom need to talk, not good for GF to just cut out your mom and at the same time not defend you to her family. You are fine with her taking the kids to her family, she needs to do the same.
I came home early from work the other day and he was on the phone with his relative and he told her that he was going out to dinner someplace with his co-worker
This is super sus. You sure he isn't cheating on you?
He could have a legitimate reason to be acting like that…
Sure, he does. He's cheating on you. You say you've been together for 1 year… I'm curious exactly how much of that was long distance? I mean, even if you had physically been together for a year, I still don't think that's long enough to marry someone. Especially since you were LDR for some time… you barely even know this man.
I want to, but she is not in a state now. She is very devastated about the miscarriage, but yes, I know that I don't have any future with her. I'm not in love with her and even if I take full responsibility for what I did I still resent her a bit. I have problems trusting her and I can't touch her without feeling sick. Something that has been a problem in our relationship because she's been wanting to sleep with me and I just can't do it most of the times.
You just take it one day at a time, and there's not much else you can do except try to find yourself again. I understand the feeling of being lost without them. Unfortunately, you just live. The fortunate part is that you get to live!. Try new things. Go hit happy hour and meet people. I never thought I'd like to go paddle boarding, but I do. You are not the same person a year from now, and that's what you gotta focus on.
When my ex ended things, I felt alone. Lost. I'd lost my best friend. I had other friends and family, but I only wanted her and our family back together. It took me a long time to understand that she'd might never come back. It's been over a year now, and I still miss her every day. She will forever be the love of my life, and no matter how long it's been, I will always want her. The only way I managed to keep going was to build myself to be the better she would want in the future if there was one. Now, I still do the same. Just less so. The memories hurt still, but sometimes, it's good to still live! in them.
My favorite was the guy who described his girlfriend as chubby and average.
He couldn't find anyone willing. Meanwhile, she's getting a lot of attention. He ran into her on the street on a date with a body builder type making out. He was only one of her suitors.
I know there is no excuse. That’s why I said it in my post. You’re right, you can only imagine. I wish he had slapped me back to maybe snap me out of my rage. And I would’ve deserved that. And again. I did say I was going to work on handling my emotions better. Also if you read I said we did break up so yes it is a relationship that has already ended.
Well, it just sounds like he literally doesn't have the time for a relationship and is prioritizing the things that are most important for his future. I know it sucks that you're not one of the priorities but he's making an adult decision to better himself. That doesn't mean that you'll never exist in that world. Just not right now. It seems like even if you were closer, he still wouldn't have the time or effort available to make you a priority.
Wait… so you weren’t even close enough to these people that you considered yourself “dating” them, they’re just flings… but your bf is so bothered by that you cut them out of your life without question?? Girl. The red flags. How weird and controlling.
Honestly man, your wife sounds like a piece of shit.
You didn’t do anything wrong. You’re doing everything in your power to make this right and do the right thing by everyone.
She feels insecure because you have another child out there and now she wants to pack up and move as far away so she can act like your other child doesn’t exist.
You’ve seen her true colors. Take everything she’s offering and divorce her. There’s a better woman out there for you who will admire the integrity you’ve shown. Focus on your relationship with all of your children and let your wife run.
Maybe not jail time but I don't know why you were downvoted, you're not wrong. I just said the same thing basically. If the tables were turned, they would be calling him an attempted rapist and telling her to leave him.
It's okay for her to pressure him though because apparently men can't be victims. He's probably fed up with her shit. He's probably tired of her trying to manipulate him.
I understand that people cry when they're stressed out but some people do this to manipulate the other person into giving them what they want. I can't say whether or not she was actually doing that but if the tables were turned, they would be telling her to get the hell out because he's abusive.
Why is it that she said nothing wrong with her statement because she's a woman? I can guarantee you that if he had said that, they would all be calling him an abuser and telling her to leave.
Relax with him look up romantic relaxing things if he’s not a social person don’t take him do something for him at home
It's not cheating if your partner gave you permission to do it. She just changed her mind, which is fine, but that's a different conversation.
100% this has moved to the court realm. It seems like she's thinking you owe alimony plus child support. Not a lawyer/solicitor but I think you need a legal agreement or at least mediation.
Having kids together doesn't make you a family. You already have 3 kids between you, that should be plenty. This has nothing to do with the ex. He's done having kids, and that's probably a good thing if his kids have special needs, as that's likely to be expensive. The age gap is an issue, but I don't understand why you're desperate to have more kids at your young age. It's like you think you need to combine your genes to make the relationship legitimate, and that's really disturbing.
I wouldn't want to be looking over my shoulder every time I needed medicine, or to give my kid medicine, or telling me they're taking their own stuff.
Was the stupid game… OP sharing a moment of vulnerability with her partner?
You’re asking someone with an illogical belief to be logical (the wife), it doesn’t work like that?
Why you take it to a sexual place? It’s his dad, there’s nothing sexual there, there’s just messing around…
I don’t know, to me it doesn’t seem much, but I spent the majority of my life in team sports settings (locker rooms, showers, training camps) so nothing seems weird to me. I’ve seen people put their dicks on someone else’s phone while the person was talking to their girlfriend, seen guys pee on others while in the shower if the other person was not paying attention, seen people pee on someone else’s bed and what not…these are just mild examples :))))
If he wanted to, he would. He's had more than ample time.
Make of this what you will.
That’s the correct answer.
If she wants to pull my kid doesn't see your mom, then you tell her the same.
She needs to look at the issue here and it sounds like GF likes to be the toxic one. Her family doesn't like you and you don't hold her or you child from them, she needs to see the whole picture.
Also, her and your mom need to talk, not good for GF to just cut out your mom and at the same time not defend you to her family. You are fine with her taking the kids to her family, she needs to do the same.
What? Never heard of this.
I came home early from work the other day and he was on the phone with his relative and he told her that he was going out to dinner someplace with his co-worker
This is super sus. You sure he isn't cheating on you?
He could have a legitimate reason to be acting like that…
Sure, he does. He's cheating on you. You say you've been together for 1 year… I'm curious exactly how much of that was long distance? I mean, even if you had physically been together for a year, I still don't think that's long enough to marry someone. Especially since you were LDR for some time… you barely even know this man.
Yeah man they definitely had sex.
I want to, but she is not in a state now. She is very devastated about the miscarriage, but yes, I know that I don't have any future with her. I'm not in love with her and even if I take full responsibility for what I did I still resent her a bit. I have problems trusting her and I can't touch her without feeling sick. Something that has been a problem in our relationship because she's been wanting to sleep with me and I just can't do it most of the times.
You just take it one day at a time, and there's not much else you can do except try to find yourself again. I understand the feeling of being lost without them. Unfortunately, you just live. The fortunate part is that you get to live!. Try new things. Go hit happy hour and meet people. I never thought I'd like to go paddle boarding, but I do. You are not the same person a year from now, and that's what you gotta focus on.
When my ex ended things, I felt alone. Lost. I'd lost my best friend. I had other friends and family, but I only wanted her and our family back together. It took me a long time to understand that she'd might never come back. It's been over a year now, and I still miss her every day. She will forever be the love of my life, and no matter how long it's been, I will always want her. The only way I managed to keep going was to build myself to be the better she would want in the future if there was one. Now, I still do the same. Just less so. The memories hurt still, but sometimes, it's good to still live! in them.
There are quite a few of those.
My favorite was the guy who described his girlfriend as chubby and average.
He couldn't find anyone willing. Meanwhile, she's getting a lot of attention. He ran into her on the street on a date with a body builder type making out. He was only one of her suitors.
So, he wanted to shut it down.
I know there is no excuse. That’s why I said it in my post. You’re right, you can only imagine. I wish he had slapped me back to maybe snap me out of my rage. And I would’ve deserved that. And again. I did say I was going to work on handling my emotions better. Also if you read I said we did break up so yes it is a relationship that has already ended.
Oh I get you. Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll definitely consider it
Well, it just sounds like he literally doesn't have the time for a relationship and is prioritizing the things that are most important for his future. I know it sucks that you're not one of the priorities but he's making an adult decision to better himself. That doesn't mean that you'll never exist in that world. Just not right now. It seems like even if you were closer, he still wouldn't have the time or effort available to make you a priority.
Your dad probably wants the best for you
I've left I've gotten into a college too
It’s your honeymoon. Hang in for the rest of the trip and talk when you get back. Obviously a honeymoon is going to be more sex than usual.
Wait… so you weren’t even close enough to these people that you considered yourself “dating” them, they’re just flings… but your bf is so bothered by that you cut them out of your life without question?? Girl. The red flags. How weird and controlling.
Honestly man, your wife sounds like a piece of shit.
You didn’t do anything wrong. You’re doing everything in your power to make this right and do the right thing by everyone.
She feels insecure because you have another child out there and now she wants to pack up and move as far away so she can act like your other child doesn’t exist.
You’ve seen her true colors. Take everything she’s offering and divorce her. There’s a better woman out there for you who will admire the integrity you’ve shown. Focus on your relationship with all of your children and let your wife run.