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Psychiatrists won't seem to help much, most of them are even surprised that I'm still with her. My anxiety is still here and I'm still doubtful about leaving her.
We’re not here to argue the minority. Man and women were made to procreate but we made the vessel of marriage because why?? It’s the best way to raise children into functional adults. Not for love or any of this other new age BS. If you’re having kids, your best odds for those children is to be MARRIED
I would stop saying you don't deserve her and exit that relationship, honestly. This all sounds a little crazy, I think you need to value yourself better. If she doesn't like you watching porn she could just mind her business and not ask about it. Don't let anyone make you think you gotta stop doing stuff you like for them. They ain't your real friend if it's like that.
Another thing is he hasn't blocked me on Playstation and he still has my number.
Thank you, I was expecting the replies to be giving out to me for explaining my situation so poorly lol. Do you think there’s any point in me trying to talk to her about it? She could easily lie about the whole situation and say whatever suits her best. But I’m also hoping I’m wrong about this whole situation and she’s telling the truth.
He’s a POS. Very full of himself. He needs someone to bring him down a couple of notches.
What's your relationship like with his mom? You mentioned that she's saying she didn't know about your dinner but you seem sure that he told her.
Is there a chance that she feels possessive of him and/or threatened by you and that she's trying to prove something by making him go to her thing instead of yours? I have a very involved relationship with my mom but if she tried to “make me” miss standing plans with my girlfriend I'd tell her to kick rocks.
Compliance. He wants you to jump when he says jump and never question him. It allows him to get whatever he wants
Idk could grant some perspective
I am so sorry for your loss. As a paramedic I know the risks that come with doing this, the long term, and short term issues. Thank you for your knowledge, I just don’t know if love is worth the self mutilation and the risks that it poses…. I’m not sure if religion is worth the long term effects
Look at the step by step he goes to to end uo having sex with his colleague. It is NOT accidental.
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If she doesn't know she deserves to. If she does then telling is pointless and only creating drama for yourself.
“This is the first time he’s lied.”
Based on what?
Fair lol, I will miss him tho.
Show him these comments. So he can get his head out her ass.
You took it upon yourself to text her child and her coworker without her permission, dumping your private life on them to try to get her back, and you don't understand why she's pissed?
She's said she's done, and she obviously means it. You NEVER drag a child into your personal shit with the child's parent. You've done yourself absolutely no favors by repeatedly ignoring her answer and reaching out after she's made herself clear.
Coming from a woman old enough to be your mom who has been a long relationship that started this way:
Get the fuck out because it starts this way and gets worse. You are your own person. He doesn't get to dictate this. It will snowball. Please either stand your ground or get out of the relationship.
This is just such a huge red flag so early in the relationship.
Parents come over unexpectedly–put on coats or gather your things as you answer the door–“sorry, mom and dad we were just leaving for a day at friends house, you should have called.” Then leave and hide out at friends or go shopping. If they have to drive an hour only to have to drive back, maybe they'll get the message. If they call and you don't want company, it's “sorry, we have plans, how about next Sunday for lunch” or similar.
25m here who’s had to take care of his 23f disabled sister. you need a new girlfriend
Yea, like he’s some prize to be trapped ?
OP is the real prize and he fucked around and found out.
The fact is you’ve mentioned it multiple times and he continues to disregard your wishes. At the end of the day, he needs to decide if his desire to have a 3 sum or intimacies with other couples is worth sacrificing your relationship for. You can’t make him respect your wishes, but eventually he’s gonna realize you’re serious and decide to either shelf the fantasy or date someone who’s more compatible sexually with his desires.
Is is a monthly service fee, or it's a monthly instalment from a payment plan?
You’re absolutely right and that’s a issue I tend to have a lot . Understanding that I can’t control every situation and trying to fix it will fuck me up
I’m not dismissing it, I just dont need it right now im not gonna make a whole post apologizing for looking through my boyfriends phone, I stated it at the beginning that should be enough. I also only looked through his phone because of previous red flags. Im not saying its right but again I did it. Also I said that because the messages didnt go farther I can live with it, it doesnt mean I dont have a problem with it. I even stated im clearly hurt by the messages. Him messaging someone else sexually is a violation to our relationship. How would you feel if you looked at your SO phone and seen them messaging that they want someone else’s private parts? Again I know I shouldn’t have looked through the phone, but thats also a no-no
As for the porn itself. If you think the issue is the porn he watches you’re missing the point of the post. I literally dont care about his porn. My questions on this port are: Im wondering if this is a a small taboo type porn hes watching just to get off, or if this could be something that he genuinely wants to pursue as that could be problematic in our relationship as im not into that. Im asking as im baffled because he expresses exact opposite to these interests? Im asking if I bring it up, or bury it in the back of my mind?
If you arent going to answer any of my actual questions and only going to shit on the fact I looked into my boyfriends phone gtfo the post:) you’re not being helpful.
If you cancel the gym membership then you won't have to worry about bumping into each other since she can't afford to go on her own.
Just block and don't send her anymore messagings, this asshole will try and triangulate any response you give as a means of lying to others and saying that you're an abuser.
Dude you're done. That's the best and healthiest thing. She definitely cheated and lied. Don't do shit for her. Block her. Do what you want. She will come back, don't let her.
She is going to file for stalking and get a restraining order if you try again. Stop paying her gym membership and stop contacting her, at all.
You can look for therapy where you pay based on a sliding scale. You have to give it time. It's not an instant fix. It can take months or years to make progress.
This is one of those that feels a little bit above reddit's paygrade. This feels like a qualified therapist with a speciality in gender dysphoria issue tbh.
What about if you masturbate and he uses his hand on himself while watching you? That could start opening some doors/ideas. Is he embarrassed to do it in front of you? Has he ever?
His apology was a recovery program box-ticking exercise. He showed that he has not changed when he let his true feelings out at the funeral when you didn't want to speak to him. I agree with your husband – put him firmly back where he belongs, in the past. And see if your employer can arrange to have his email blocked so he can't harass you at work.
40, absolutely agree with this approach. It gets the point across clearly while also not being excessive.
OP, I know this is stereotypical (middle-aged dude dispensing aged wisdom to the yoots), but you're young and figuring things out. People in your age cohort (including you) are going to do stupid thoughtless shit that hurts people because you are literally learning how to be thoughtful, and that takes a lot of practice. These lessons suck, but we will learn from them and grow.
And so yes, advocate for yourself and demand better – but also extend a little bit of empathy, because this person is also figuring themselves out, and fucking up is part of that process. You are totally justified in drawing a line here, and you should, but sometimes I see advice that is a sort of aggressive assertion, and I would steer away from that sort of thing here.
I need a shower.
If you two fight all the time it's understandable why she wouldn't want to see you. What's not understandable is why you both keep pretending you're in a relationship. This sounds like more torture than it's worth.
A lot of woman have hidden kinks. I would use this time to see if you can find out more from her. Ask her what her kinks are and see if you can participate in them with her. Role play.
Then you really and truly fucked up. You demolished any chance you had by overreacting to something that wasn't even a deal breaker. You've made it clear that you'll fly off the handle and resort to immediately fighting dirty when things don't go your way. No sane woman would ever trust you again after that.
Sorry, but reflect on this during your next relationship, because this one is done. Try to become a better person for the next one.
Op is screwed.
Why are you choosing to move back? Didn't you say that you wanted to live in a safer place?
Your gf may be using the cat adoption as an excuse. It seems like she no longer wants to move with you. Since she broke up with you, I suggest that you stop cancelling things and begin living a new life.
Maybe tell her about the cool benefits of strength training at the gym? I’m an average sized woman and I can still shift 160 pounds when I need to, and 400 if I have some help. Also she might feel less restless if she goes and does that