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Date: December 8, 2022
Has he mistreated you or your children? I’d be abusive? If not, I think you’re being unfair and cruel to him.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a mental health disorder. There can be toxic traits, but that is true of any other mental health disorder like depression or bipolar. It’s treatable with therapy, particularly cognitive behavioural therapy.
An inflated sense of ego is often the worst trait, as it inhibits the sufferer from seeking help. It sounds like your husband is seeking help so his symptoms can’t be as bad as most. I think the fact that he’s seeking help and self aware speaks volumes.
Taking your explicit pics or videos without your consent is a intrusion of your privacy and violation of your trust.
You have placed trust on him to open about your past sexual assault. Knowing it fully well he chose to operate an unthoughtful pervert. He doesn't respect you or your boundaries.
Coming back to your sexual trauma are in therapy. If you could afford or parents could please see a therapist.
Your trust is broken and it'd extremely difficult to trust him from here on. You deserve better, you deserve a compassionate human being who you could open upto and trust. He's not that guy.
It really feels to me like you’re her backup boyfriend. If she can’t have her ex, maybe you’ll do.
If you were the one she wanted, she’d be ready for the relationship now. Her saying “down the road” seems to be code for “once I’m sure I can’t get my ex back and he’s moved on”.
You deserve to be the star of the relationship and not a backup dancer. Let her go explore her feelings and you go find someone who wants to be your one and only.
Put it this way. If you knew 6 years ago, would you have stayed? The answer is most probably no.
So by telling you now, she just robbed 6 years of your life. You could have moved on, found a different partner, who knows but that's an opportunity that's now been lost. She robbed that opportunity for you to decide 6 years ago if you wanted to still be with her or move on. To me, that is what is most unforgiveable – the loss of your own agency.
A few things here – being verbally abused is not a sign of a healthy relationship. Being an emotional punching bag is not a sign of a healthy relationship. Being expected to be your partners therapist and not being able to discuss things in a mature manner is not a sign of a healthy relationship.
As far as intimacy, if you want intimacy in a relationship, then bust out of this one and find a relationship wherein it's present. Your partner obviously doesn't give a shit about it.
There aren't a lot of details but it doesn't sound like you're happy here. Find your happiness.
Why would you be? Honestly.
i may not have a ton to offer, here. i'm younger than both subjects of the post, i'm already married, and we're collectively about as poor as anyone else in the dumbfuck US lmao…. but…. as with OP, i and my partner make tons of stupid jokes to each other. not mean ones by any standard, just… idk, dark jokes? exaggerated jokes..??
so many people in the comments are TIED UP by OP's sense of humor but i find it extremely normal and even kinda funny? maybe that's just my personality..? literally today my husband of several years shared how much he's gotten through life insurance and joked that i should murder him. i laughed! it tickled me. when i flirt with him, i joke about skinning him and wearing him around the house. like… OP sounds so tame and silly and not serious? maybe i'm in some kind of specific group of person, but i feel like everyone including OP's partner is taking everything waaayyy overboard.
also, to be fair, it's been eight fucking months? like, is it really that serious? can nobody just be silly? i have such a naked time understanding this when compared to my own relationship – we've been together almost 14yrs and married almost 10, and joke with each other constantly about shit like this. maybe OP and his girlf aren't compatible? idk. OP, sorry about your troubles! maybe take it easy on the silliness and have a bigger, deeper conversation about your guys' feelings and fears and concerns.