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Date: November 16, 2022
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It doesn't sound like you and K have an exclusive relationship, having only been on one date and never having scheduled another. Are you in regular communication with her?
If so, just say “Hi, K, it has been really nice getting to know you, but I dont feel that we have the right chemistry to move forward. Wishing you much happiness in your future. OP”
If not, just let the communications trail off naturally.
You don’t have to be in any relationship that you don’t want to be, for any longer than you want.
A significant other, the right one for you, should make you feel safe, confident, and appreciated. Statistically the chances of you “ending up with” the person you’re dating at 21 is very slim.
Is she committed to counseling, or has she admitted she has an issue and needs to change? If not – this will only get worse, and sometimes people need real consequences to grow; aka maybe if she loses someone she cares about she’ll take her self development more seriously.
You’re young, and sometimes it’s better to flip the next coin than to drag yourself through unsuccessfully trying to fix someone who doesn’t think they need to change.
Are familiar with what specific rights I have? I'd not it's no worries
No. stay out of her life.
You haven’t given any examples about this, so it’s almost impossible to give advice. I guess talk to him about it?
It's not your job to make your family appreciate you both and understand you should both be a priority.
I don't suppose your graduation date was clear and open with your Brother knowing this so they could've maybe…..not had the wedding on the same date?
Folks can't get to both. It just won't happen.
Both events only happen once – both are special days.
You are entitled to celebrate your day and if possible, join the Wedding later in the day.
Frankly I see no way that, assuming these aren't at wildly different locations that are far apart, both couldn't happen in the same day? Unless all the wedding planning is completed and there's no way to move things around a bit, I'm sure a compromise is possible.
If not? Well, you do you. If you go along with it, just bear in mind you'll never get to Graduate and celebrate it like everyone else has again – unless you're OK with that? Seems to me you'd want to, right?
I'd honestly call the family at large a bunch of mild asshats for making you always a second-class citizen in your own damn family and not trying to help you both celebrate your special days…..but then that's me.