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Date: November 6, 2022
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please for the love of god do not go on tinder. im a lesbian woman and too many profiles are straight couples looking for a third and it’s exhausting. look for app made for that type of thing i beg of u
Some people are really terrible at gift giving. My partner grew up in another culture where Christmas wasn't celebrated and birthdays for adults are not a big deal. I tried demonstrating how to give gifts by putting a lot of thought into his gifts. I got crickets. So I stopped giving him gifts for birthdays and Christmas. Lo and behold, he started giving me nice gifts after noticing that I wasn't giving him gifts anymore. Just drop the rope, don't buy him anything or take him out to dinner.
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This is so difficult and I feel for you. I can't speak for the “perfect recipe”, but from my end, I needed a mix of three types of time (if that makes sense).
Time alone to really feel and absorb what is happening. This is painful time. But I think without that, you just distract and never come to terms with it.
Active time, where I'm by myself, but not in my thoughts. That would be work, sports activities, etc. Things where it's you pushing yourself, not lost in thoughts, where you see how strong/independent you are and can be.
Social time, where I spent time with friends/family. Your support system is so incredibly important when going through such an event. Both to distract you, but also to remind you that people care about you. As an FYI, you may find you are surprised by the people who are there for you. They may not be the people you thought would be there.
Honestly, it's not easy. And some people just distract by staying active, being social and partying. I think it's best to give yourself time alone with your feelings, to grieve. Please remember that you're making the right choice and that after all this pain comes a much better phase in your life where you'll be with someone who is better for you. But you can't do that if you haven't moved on and healed.
All of that could be true, and none of that could be applicable. Just being Indian doesn't preclude self-aware, self-reliant and autonomous. Millions in India marry as they wish, many with their families fully agreeable
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She’s sounds quite controlling and there’s a problem with the power dynamic here is she’s handing out ultimatums like this. Tell her I don’t do ultimatums, she’s not gonna finish with over this
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First of all your friend is disgusting. “Guys don't date down” wtf does that even mean?? Is your friend saying you are less than this guy? That's he's better than you? Bc that is a wretched thing to say to someone you claim to care about.
Secondly, I hate when people say “they're out of my league.” People aren't competitively ranked ffs. Someone isn't better than you just bc they're more attractive than you or have more money than you. The worst people I personally know are the most physically attractive ones.
Third, if this guy isn't interested in you then just drop him. You're tormenting yourself for no reason. I wouldn't even say anything about it. I'd just ghost him. He probably wouldn't even notice.
Lastly, you seem really wounded so take some time out to get over the pain. I know unreciprocated feelings hurt. But from the way this post is worded it's prob for the best. You need to find someone who is as interested in you as you are in them, and who makes you feel good about yourself.
First of all, keep your finances 100% separate from her if you haven’t already.
If doesn’t sound like she even considers this to be a problem. Is she donating unhealthy amounts of money to them? Or is she only giving amounts she can genuinely afford without affecting her/your lifestyle?
Sorry I don’t have any real advice for you. I couldn’t handle being in a relationship with someone who did stuff like that, but also idk what you can do unless you’re willing to break up over this. If things are otherwise good, then hopefully this blows over in a day or two, and next time, you don’t give in to this sort of thing.
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I can’t possibly know what goes on behind closed doors, but in my experience I’m guessing there is more going on. A lot more. It wouldn’t surprise me if they had an affair. It all just stinks of it. Listen to your gut, she’s never going to admit anything anyway.
Updateme!
Worst… joke… ever for meeting the parents. Maybe he’s bothered about something else than your sexual position? Maybe your bf is obnoxious and your dad is still processing his inappropriateness??? Good lord.
It sounds like your girlfriend might have a binge eating disorder, or possibly a thyroid issue. The best thing to do is to have a talk, you know her better than any of us do.
You do understand that could be a huge risk to her a safety, right?
And i snooped because we were at the bar earlier that night and one of his friends came up to me and told me they used to have crushes on each other and make out and I had no idea about it and looked like a fool
His trauma doesn’t excuse him from giving you trauma. What he did to you is an absolute violation and it is unacceptable. If you were my daughter, I would tell you that you cannot fix him and he needs to help himself. Maybe this is harsh, but I would consider gently ending things so that he can work on himself via therapy.
Oh yeah 100%
I'm sorry dump this crazy bish
Yet you chose to have a baby with her ? this is your fault bro. You’re 31. Fucking act like it.
They're asking if you do foreplay and if your gf also has orgasms. “Were basically one for a moment” ok sure but does your girlfriend get off or are you just trying to put your dick in her?
It's not normal. Also he's doing you a huge favor by ending your relationship. Get yourself into some therapy to work on yourself and stay single for a while or you'll just continue to attract the same manipulative AH.
You’re a psychologist with a deep understanding of human emotions and yet you think she was on the right track confronting an anxious person winding up to panic by telling him basically to calm the fuck down because what he’s panicking about isn’t life or death. You’re either bad at your job or lying.
Well…many haven’t
You deserve so much better. And would you ever flirt with someone else when you love someone? You don't need someone to tell you, it is wrong. You know it is wrong to go after other people if you have someone.
With his “if there is no meaning…” he could also have meaningless sex with others, say hurtful things that “he didn't mean”… It is such an awful excuse.
Have you thought about going to therapy to work on your self-esteem and your experience with the last relationships? If you are in college, there are often counselors availible, so you don't need to pay for it.
You have the right to be treated right and with respect. Just because your last relationships were shit you shouldn't go with less.
Let me tell you something. No matter what you do this will always tarnish you to others. You are a horrible person an do hope that karma will get back at you
You're absolutely right about having it appraised since it could easily be that he thought it was real gold.
I'm a bit disappointed, though. Because I was looking forward to finding out why a priest should be involved in the whole ordeal.
My mind went to the ring being possesed and I really wanted to hear your reasoning behind that theory.
This OP ignore the pork comments ^
Oh it was you, yeah keep deleting. And get some fucking help.
Because if this happens with something as simple as a hobby, what happens with things later in life? If this isn’t addressed, it will get a lot worse.
You sound unhappy and you should probably break up with her.
That said, it takes more effort for women to have an orgasm than it does for men. If you’re having an orgasm from penetrative sex, but she is not (which is likely), you can’t say she isn’t doing anything for you.
Get out of this situation. That other girl is after your guy if something isn’t already going on. Her cold behaviour towards you makes that obvious. This guy doesn’t care about you at all. You are lucky he has shown his true nature before you got married. The truth is that he has probably always been like this but its only now you took off your love soaked rose tinted glasses for a minute and you noticed something blatantly obvious to the rest of the world.
Hunch of what? You have a hunch that you are unhappy in a sexless relationship? Move on and date someone sexually compatible and who is physically interested in you.
I think you can be perfectly capable of giving him important suggestions!
I'm also fairly inexperienced, especially in romance, but I would focus on three elements
First, sexual health, so of course protection, but you might also want to teach him what girl go through for the period, and how is it to take the hormonal pill, why girls might take it. Even if you didn't personally take it you still have more clues to understand it, and a lot of guys know very little about these things. You might also assert that high sexual activity doesn't necessarily relate with bad sexual health.
Second, emotional health in a relationship or friendship. Remind him that what he feels is important, and that he should be able to have safe discussion with his partners and mates, without getting attacked and judged. And also the reverse, that he should listen to others when they speak out their feelings, and of something bothers him he should address that in a healthy way, separately, not right away avoiding to face the others' feelings.
Third, reality of intercourse. Hetero sex doesn't have to be centered around penetration, which requires both wetness and stiffness. Rather, it's important to listen to the bodies and to communicate. There's not one standard way to have the best sex, and it's not important to have skills, rather it's important to take the needed time and be curious about what feels how. This of course is true also in gay sex i guess, but it's not my field.
Let him sleep with other people.
Just right after you re-introduce him to everyone but this time as your ex.
Come one, have some respect for yourself.
You're way too young to deal with this shit.
Well, it’s not like we’re acquaintances or people who barely know each other. I just feel that I mustn’t mean very much to this friend if they think it’s okay to ghost me on a birthday gift. I feel that if anyone is being insincere, it’s my friend.
Make sure your cat isn’t around when you break up with him.