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Thank you. I'm doing my best to take his opinion into consideration and make the best decision for myself.
Put her in the car right now, drive her to the nearest ER, and tell them you need to use the Baker Act to help your wife. Your baby is not safe with her. Please OP.
You just said your are both moving to other cities. So, you wont be seeing her. You need to go NC and stick with it, if you truly want to move on.
I had a female house mate. We’re married with kids now. Lol.
I wasn’t being a smartass. I sincerely meant it.
You call the police and the mental health team. They are the best people to help her.
If she broke her leg would you drive over perform a medical operation on her leg alone then doing after care. No because you are not medically trained too emotionally involved to do what your sister needs medically.
You husband has told you he is tired of not being prioritized to you. Your repeated actions are causing the issues. You have to decide if you want to stay marriage if you do you need to ensure your sister gets the medical help she needs and start hearing your husband concerns.
You are not helping her you are enabling her to stop getting the help she needs.
Her friends and any people around her just do what she wants and she is like a princess in her own house and am like a normal boy. She just tells me sometimes she will get what she want, and says she is controlling me i can do whatever i want but when i do that, we start arguing
Exactly. At that point he made me feel like he was fully committed and was certain about our relationship. So of course I wanted to express my gratitude to him. I’m not upset about the money I spent, I just wanted to feel like there was some sort of effort made
He physically cheats. Ex wife emotionally cheats.
And his ex was 18 when he was 24.
I feel bad for the ex who got used twice by this guy.
thanks for the advice. yeah we became exclusive back in Oct. but the 2nd visit was cancelled because she got sick. she has a pto day in jan id love to see her then
I grew up my whole life with cats. But once I turned 23 I became allergic. I didn’t realize it until I got my own cat. My symptoms weren’t crazy but I took allergy meds for a little while before learning that it was possible that I could “get used to” my cat’s dander (or whatever it is that I’m allergic to) and so I kinda just waited it out and I no longer experience symptoms. I’m not sure if this is the same with dogs but if you plan on living together at some point then there could be a possibility that he could become used to the dog and no longer experience symptoms
You need to get rid of Daisy. She is an organic portal. You are giving her to much control over your life, example after she drops a bomb on your life she's got you begging to her. After you talk to her now you see that you are depressed. Yeah, whatever Daisy's problems are, are hers, get away or she will ruin you.
Keep trying, kiddo!
So it’s kind of a lose/ lose situation regardless of what we do, huh?
“…that my party is something they consider special…”
But apparently they don’t consider your friendship special.
Until you have a negative test then you can definitely say you don't have it
You know you made the right decision. Your ex was acting shady even if it was innocent then blindsided you with the open relationship. There were two ways for her to get what she wanted you chose the best option for you she is open to have as many relationships with as many people as she wants. She should bbc thanking you for giving her what she needed. Your ex failed the audition for long term s/o. You however are a bullet dodging genius!
She is cheating on you, period.
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I mean if you are only going to disappoint her just let her find someone that won’t. You say you love her but just want to stay a bf forever. I’m not saying you do, but from her perspective it might come off as commitment issues. You guys have been together a while, but marriage seems to “tie people down” so that’s where she might see the issue.
Why do you hate the idea of marriage so much if you truly love her. I know you mentioned society pressure, but I doubt it can be that bad to the point you refuse to marry the person you say you love.
Ten or eleven years, that’s just…
That’s not reasonable. I mean, so many thoughts. There are men everywhere. Why would you pick one you can’t be with? What’s your model for relationships in general, are your parents big role models for a healthy relationship?
You’re 24. Why do you think that in ten years from now, you won’t have met a man you like? Where do you on-line, SuckyMenonly Town? The likelihood of feeling this way in ten years is astronomically low.
LDRs can work, but here’s the thing: you guys don’t have an actual relationship yet. You started dating long distance, where most successful ldrs start out as people who’ve been together for a while. Are you aware that something like 80% of relationships end? So if you two were to see each other more often, let the honeymoon phase fade, have the usual imperfections in your life, argue, be loving, and go through that cycle many times, BEFORE long distance, you already know what you’re waiting for , and what to expect (mostly) when you reunite.
You don’t have that.
Your entire relationship is 99.9% curated. You can hide bad moods, a messy apartment, bad habits, all kinds of things, just by never bringing them in to the conversation. You can let uncomfortable topics slide without confrontation, just by not responding and changing the subject, or getting off the phone.
I knoooooowwww he’s the best gf ever and obviously he’s amazing and perfect, and you don’t want to think about it this way, but you have to. What if you two aren’t compatible? And I don’t mean “I’ll learn to on-line with a man who puts the TP on the hook the wrong way ‘round,” or even that he’s some kind of horrible controlling psychopath.
I mean what if he’s just a regular guy, but it’s not what you thought you were getting?
Do you know the statistics of people who meet in person years after they’ve started talking live! or the phone? Yes I understand that you’ll see each other once a year, but you didn’t know each other in person before you started dating. Most people aren’t what they seem wh n they’re filtered through a device.
What happens when eleven years pass, you move across the world to be with him, and living with him is just…meh?
How are you going to feel about those ten years? Are you going to accept a perfectly mediocre “meh” lifetime with him, because you don’t want to tell anyone that you wasted ten years by breaking up with him as soon as you moved in?
And forgive me, your relationship sounds lovely. I’m sure you’re both lovely. But what you don’t really know is whether you’re compatible. That isn’t only about liking the same things, or wanting to be together. It’s about the day-to-day grind of life, it’s about how you share physical space, it’s about how you communicate in person, it’s about how you both act and react to a thousand little things that life is going to throw at you, all day every day.
I don’t want to sound like I’m shitting on your perfect relationship. But you’re committing eleven years plus (including the move and then the not-insignificant amount of time it takes to establish yourself in a new country) to a relationship that has absolutely no boots on the ground. No practical history. No stressors. No real tangible situations where you can see red flags.
I mean ANYone could get along with someone else for ten years on the phone and maybe one visit per year. You might as well be on vacation and thinking you want to marry the concierge because he seems to care about you.
Maybe he is actually perfect for you. That is a long-ass time to wait for verification. Especially when there are men in plentiful supply, everywhere, who would be able to show you what life with them is like right now.
Good luck. And I mean that. I’m not being sarcastic and shitty, I hope you find everything you want in life, and I hope it all works out.
But the reasons you gave for thinking this can work, they’ve got more holes in them than the memory of a sieve. I feel kind of bad even calling you on it. But you should know that you don’t have to be afraid of finding men out there. There are good men, that’s not the only one you’ll ever know.
And girl, if your love was so perfect and beyond question, why are you asking strangers on the internet for validation? You would just know.
I don't understand. There are people who don't brush their tongue?
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It’s happened twice ever. I’m not saying it’s okay but I am saying that I’ve learned.
Yeah we're currently NC, I told him to not contact me for the next 3 months.
So sorry for the incorrect grammar, please don’t arrest me!
Kind of seems like maybe your emotionally volatile, wishy-washy, resentful wife should NOT get pregnant. Strikes me as a bad idea for some reason.
I’d give her a nice, heartfelt speech about how you love her and you love your kids and want to be the best dad and husband you can be, and that’s why you got the vasectomy. There are only 24 hours in a day and you can’t be present for an infinite amount of kids, etc etc…
so if it happened to your 18-year-old daughter you wouldn't encourage police involvement?
If it's four every ten minutes it's definitely a gastrointestinal issue. You can't fart on cue
It sounds like she didn't have much of a choice but to confess. She said others knew about it and she was probably worried it was going to get back to him anyway.
In 10 months, you and your ex will have moved on. You’re 21 for Christ’s sake! And if your ex starts to talk shit, ignore it. It was one drunken kiss. Go have some more.
Well she’s younger than you, so why should her credit be any better by that logic?
How old are all your children?
I always gotta consult my phone w my work schedule and any possible other plans before I agree to something else, date or not! my memory can suck and even if his wording wasn't off putting, I couldn't answer on the spot about a free day if it's more than a day or two in advance lol.
These engraveable words should be required at the planning stages of every single one of these events.
Right. We were both at work at when he called, but his job has more flexable time.
Right. We were both at work at when he called, but his job has more flexable time.
She is coming by today to pick up all her stuff from the apartment so ill se her again today.
This dude sounds like a fucking vagina who can't handle women. I'd recommend to him he gets his testicles out of his asshole and do what he thinks he's already doing and man up. Nothing LESS manly than this misogynist garbage. Good luck putting up with that shit.
Healthy relationships don’t look like this either. A good partner doesn’t call you names like this or try to make you smaller. I can’t imagine speaking to my spouse this way, let alone WHILE they were in the hospital.
I think you had it right the first time – if he thinks you ask for too much he’s free to find someone who will ask for less.
Well, being friends with a lot of women myself I understand what you are saying now. Yes, women do tend to “review” social interactions and say things like “I HAD SO MUCH FUN WITH EVERYONE TONIGHT!”
Guys usually don't do things like that. And commenting on your physical appearance would be especially weird. Because unlike women we usually don't look at things like makeup, shoes, hair, etc. We usually look at tits and butts.
So if a guy is going UR GIRL IS HOT! It means he was probably checking her out. Which results in conflict.
Just based on what you posted. This living with his parents will not be comfortable for you. Your bf does not seem to actually understand. If i were in your place i would not do this. In fact if my kids wanted me to on-line with them i would not either.
Stop initiating sex.
You need to accept that asking someone out requires a risk of possible rejection. YOu just go up to her, smiling, friendly, and confident (fake it if you have to), next time you see her and say, “Hey, we were in the same class last semester. I’ve seen you a couple times around campus lately and I’ve been meaning to come up and talk with you. I’m Manuel. Would you like to grab coffee with me sometime?”
If she says no, then you say, “No problem. Have a good day.”
If she seems reluctant, but still open to it, then you say, “Here’s my number. If you decide you’d like to hang out sometime, just text me. No pressure at all.”
If she says yes, but when you text her later she never replies, you can text her one more time a couple days later, but then don’t text her anymore unless she writes back to you.
Good luck. If it works out, great.
If it doesn’t work out, then it was good practice for the next time you’re interested in someone and want to talk to them. The way you get better at this sort of thing is simply to do it. Don’t feel bad if she says no—MOST people are not going to be interested in you, just like you’re not interested in most other people. It’s a number’s game. The more you do it, the better yo get and the more likely someone is to eventually say yes.
This is a pretty messed up view point imo. You already get paid for a job you've chosen to do, you're not entitled to the men there paying you more, giving you more attention and money or wanting more attention from you just because of your job. Not everyone goes to a strip club to a get a private, sexual and close 1 on 1 with another person. It is totally in her right to feel that was a crossed boundary.
Most women are unlikely to think this is a small thing, maybe look into why you don't or how you'd feel about your long term partner doing this to you. But even after that if you don't mind, that's your perogative. Not hers and not a majority opinion, and it doesn't have to be.
The idea you think he owes you more than he owes his own partner is mental.
Love doesn't pay the bills, do what's best for your future, try to help her get therapy if she not already in it
You're entitled to say no when you want.
Personally, based on the little info I know about your through this post, I would leave you.
You two are not compatible in a very important aspect of a relationship. Doesn't make you wrong. You're just wrong for him.
I also gotta say what the fuck kind of response is that from your family? Oh, you shouldn’t have picked a widow? You can’t help you fall in love with. But I agree with everybody here pick another day, but don’t call Valentine’s Day. Tell her “I picked today to celebrate our love, I’d like to do it every year, let’s call it love day or something.”
It's not working for you, you're clearly miserable, time to end it. Yeah it sucks, but do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life?
So you chose to stay with family that finds sexually abusing minors to be ok? Well then I know no one will want to be with you unless they a apart of that club as well. Hope you don’t have kids cause I worry what your going to do to them.
This is a horrible thing she did. She cheated on you and made up a terrible crime so you would be sorry for her and stay with her. She's also shitting on survivors. What a horrible human. If I was you, this realitionship would be over.
Simply put: your boyfriend is being unreasonable. Their bowel movements are not the litmus test for poops. You’re accommodating them the best you can, and that’s all that can be asked of you. Them shaming you for your bodily functions and calling you out of your name is unacceptable.
If they can’t deal with the knowledge that your body functions differently than theirs, that’s an issue they need to sit at their therapists feet to tackle. Not denigrate their partner.
He's being verbally abusive. Shit happens. You cleaned the toilet before he even saw it and he still called you a dirty, nasty, bitch. That's not okay. He needs help for his issues.
Why are you letting your dad dictate so much of your life? He sounds like a controlling bully and you'd probably benefit from allowing him less influence over you.
Regardless of whether he is emotionally abusing you or not, he is gaslighting you and being a worthless partner. Your life will improve dramatically when you dump him. Si his reaction to being told you feel emotionally abused is to check out of the relationship?
No, this guy doesn't give a shit about you or the relationship. Fuck that. You deserve better.