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Date: October 20, 2022
Does she drink alcohol? Have you asked her the reasons why she prevents you from taking alcohol??
By my math, you were 27 and pursuing an 18 year old. Don't you think that's creepy? I'm 27, and 18 year olds feel like kids. The thought of dating someone under rh age of, like, 23 is just gross. They're kids. They don't have the same life experiences that you do. No 27 year old has any business with an 18 year old. You groomed this poor kid, whether you see it or not.
I know ?
No, i mean this sounds like my relationship (im the guy).
Real sex isn't like porn. Porn studies have “fluffers” that give guys blow jobs so that anytime their penis is in a shot, its fully erect. They don't show that they stopped the camera and someone sucks off the guy to get him ready.
In real life when you go down on a woman (or she sits on your face), you get focused on the task, sometimes your jaw ends up hurting, or whatever, its not always easy to maintain an erection. You delivering pleasure is mentally pleasing but sometimes that's not enough and you have to get physical too.
Speak with her and explain that. Maybe she can help out with her hand or mouth next time
And this is why I will forever never understand people's decisions to do these types of things… They almost always end up backfiring.
What you need to do is decide who you want to be with. If it is this woman, then you need to break up with your girlfriend. If it is your girlfriend, then you need to cut all contact with this other woman.
I've done the things you listed and still have insomnia. The only thing that helps me is over the counter sleep pills. You can't help someone who doesn't help themselves. It is 100% my responsibility to handle my anxiety and depression. I have to make the effort to do the things that keep me from falling in to the pit of darkness. It is not my husband's responsibility to constantly pull me out of it deadweight and all.
At the end of the day, she is an adult and you are not responsible for her physical or mental health nor for keeping a roof over her head.
Frankly, you’ve enabled her. If she didn’t have you as a safety net, she’d have had to address her issues and keep a job. If you held her to account at any point along the way letting her know this was not acceptable, she may have sought some help.
At this point, you’re resentful and miserable and need to get out.
Talk to an attorney. Consult a therapist for yourself too. I’m in the US so don’t know what social services are available where you guys live or what the rules around alimony are but I’m sure that an attorney could help with that.
I completely understand the advice on ending the relationship, because from an outside perspective it can seem very toxic. My girlfriend suffers from various mental illnesses like BPD, Severe anxiety, Depression, that have been VERY debilitating. I would blame these external factors for a huge majority of our fights, but I accepted her for who she was at the beginning of the relationship and couldn’t end things with a good conscious because of what she can’t control. I could write a book based on these problems alone, but we always made it through them when I was fully attracted to her. My problem though, Is that now that I don’t particularly find her attractive, it’s like I can’t put in 110% effort to be there for her in every situation like I used to be. The changes in her personality, and drastic changes in her appearance make it feel like I’m dating a completely different woman. If she does something that is not okay, the old me would want to talk it out but nowadays, it just makes me 10x more frustrated/upset. I feel like I’m going through a breakup while still in the relationship haha
She’s a disgusting person
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So whenever we watch a tv show and there’s a character being unfaithful, he will immediately turn it off or skip over it.
He says that cheating makes him angry and that it should be a punishable crime.
He also says that entertainment and media try to normalise infidelity by making it seem “sexy”.
I’m worried about his views.
Update:
Thank you all for your brutal honesty. And to clarify, no, I have not cheated on him nor do I plan to.
I’m sorry that I didn’t include that he was previously cheated on in the post, but hey ho.
I had asked this question because I love my boyfriend and hate seeing how much this affects him.
A bunch of you suggested therapy to help him get passed his past experiences, and that was a lightbulb moment for me.
So about 15 monkeys ago, I sat him down and asked if he would give therapy a try.
He said he will “think about it”, so that’s at least something!
I’ve dated a very insane narc before and his behavior was so different that sometimes I don’t think he is even capable of purposely maliciously doing it, that he is just genuinely emotionally immature.
Regardless I’m getting very tired of it and want to leave. I moved across the country, gave up my job, and my savings for this.
Never again.
Stop acting good and actually be a good person lol
This!
Don't pick this hill to die on. If he has made the decision to override you, he'll be responsible for the outcome.
I thought the same about the future scenario also. Yeah, I’m annoyed at myself for raising my voice. It came shortly after a minor argument so I was little tense