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Hi im rose, ‘s friend mia 🙂, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 24, 2022
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Is it his breath… behind the ears or inn the ears?.. hair?
We were just friends for the first 5 Years. We were live friends actually whom met through a video game. We both had someone for most of the friendship. Then when I was 25 I was broken up with and so was he.. We moved from there. It's not like that at all. We just happened to really like each other after a while of being single and talking.
I got 6 downvotes and one comment saying”you do understand!” but that's why am I here asking–And some of your comments. Every time I clarify a point it's just a downvote or some castigating comment.
I came here for different points-of-view, but people are getting hung up on my choice of words. What is the use of this subreddit if respondents only chastise people for lack of understanding?
as a man, i am afraid of this woman
If you give her this gift she will respect you even less and treat you even worse. She is sending huge signals that she sees you as disposable. It's only a matter of time before she moves on.
Move on first. Break up with her and let her chase you, but don't let her catch you. Don't give her the satisfaction of being able to have you at her beck and call. Sorry to say she's unworthy of your attentions and the sooner you lose her the better.
Tell him. If I were your husband I would want to know to confront my mom. That’s not an acceptable way to speak about your DIL. Ever.
Question: was this a planned pregnancy?
When I was 23, I was married and got pregnant unplanned a year later. I found out at about 8 weeks and quit my job immediately. I hadn’t planned on having kids. I had a lot to process and think about that I could not handle having a job. I slept for 10 hours a day. The job I had at the time involved a lot of “taking clients out for drinks” and I felt I was not the best person for that job. I eventually went to work after my Son was born. Maybe give her a time limit on how long she can be unemployed.., see what she says..
Omfg , if she gonna do that you need to keep her in check , you expect me to pay everything then I'm expecting this from your side. Sounds reasonable right?
Didn’t realize you could have story notifications, just really started getting into IG. Thanks for the input.
Why do you keep having babies with a man who doesn’t trust you?
9.5? Damn
Okay plenty of foreplay, lube? And go slow.
And as always: use protection!!
At this point, if you don’t leave her you might as well open the relationship up for both of you, I mean what does she have to do for you to finally realise you are being walked all over, if one of your kids came to you and told you this was happening to them, what advice would you give them?
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Yes exactly thankfully my cat apparently scratched her so good boy lol I’m headed home so I’m gonna do some more investigating. I just feel like all the trust we had is kinda gone.
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I’ve been dating my GF for about 10 years now. We met in high school and I can’t imagine being with anyone else – I’m deeply in love and happy with my life. I have no doubts that my GF is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with.
With that being said, I’ve never seen a reason to get married. There are obviously expectations from our families and society for us to get married before having kids, buying a house, etc. but I feel strongly about not getting married. I’ve brought this up to my GF for the past several years but I think she’s waiting for me to “come around” but I’m not sure that day will ever come. I struggle with satisfying her wants (to get married) and my wants. If it ever came down to her giving me an ultimatum, which I’m not sure will happen, how do I handle that?
Also, both of our families are traditional but also have shown to be malleable, how do I express my thoughts and concerns with marriage without coming off as a jerk?
Tldr; how do I communicate that I don’t want to get married to my SO and our families?
Your wife is scummy
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I would feel so sick to my stomach that there is a lot of unknown here. He’s not being 100% truthful and that is definitely not good. My only advice is to sit down for a second and seriously think about this. If he cheated on you, are you strong enough to leave? If he refuses to give any explanation other than “I don’t know, what do you want me to say”, are you going to just let it go? And if you are willing to let this go…are you also willing to have the doubt in the back of your mind every day for the rest of your relationship? What happens when he stays out later than he says, will you be worried about cheating? What happens if you find another condom wrapper, will you believe that he “doesn’t know where it came from?” These are all really naked questions you have to ask yourself. I’m wishing the best for you, whatever that looks like.
Oh my god stop texting your ex wtf is wrong with you
I’m very glad you talked to him. A good rule of thumb is if you are too embarrassed to talk to your partner about sex, you are not at the point in your relationship to actually have the sex.
Also, if you have any suspicion about having sex, it’s always a good idea to be prepared. You don’t want to end up pregnant until you are prepared to deal with that. Yes, I know you can likely get an abortion but that is still a stressful thing that you really don’t need in your life. Prevention is best. Keep in mind that I personally have three children- and only planned one of them. I was no “spring chicken” when I had my last happy surprise. I was 34!
I know…I’m Mom-ing you, but that’s what I do. You did a good job handling things the way you have. Here’s wishing you a good, positive…um…date? I hope everything goes well, and remember it’s always ok to say no. It’s ok to say yes, too! Be careful, be safe and choose your partners carefully.❤️
Your wife is straight up fatphobic and always has been. I suspect this is the real reason why her relationship with your mom has been chilly, not because of a small age difference. She is using her dad dad as excuse. She will probably give any child of yours an eating disorder, especially if it is a girl.
You're way too old to be acting like that, you're not a teenager even if you are dating one.
She showed a lot of maturity, considering she's only 19. I'd tell you to date someone your own age but it's clear why you're having to date teenagers.
Agreed. He’s probably processing everything in anger. Not logic. I feel bad for the young man that just had his entire perception of parents marriage thrown away.
I’m 16 and my casual friends (basically just acquaintances) treat me better than this on a good day. My best friends help me tidy my own room and do my chores with me when they come over, and i’d do the same for them.
For your husband to not bother helping is a major red flag. I can’t imagine being with someone like this.
My dad was like this with my mum, they recently got divorced because he got worse and was becoming verbally and emotionally abusive. That’s not to say your husband is or will be the same, but it’s definitely not a good trait.
I’d suggest asking him to stay with a friend or family member for a few days, explain how you’re feeling and why. Be sure to articulate that you do deserve better, and that just because he’s your husband, it doesn’t mean he can stop putting effort into you and your relationship.
Also the lack of effort (if we’re being honest here, neglect) towards your child is concerning and definitely grounds for divorce. If you cant leave your husband and the father of your child alone with full confidence the child will be taken care of and happy, you probably shouldn’t be with him.
You got married too young
“Should I go with him or let him go alone? 🙂 What would you do?”
I'm not one for Karma, but since your pain in the ass dad now has cancer up the ass, it may make me believe in serendipity.
If you can imagine treating your own kid the way your dad treated you, I say go. If you can't imagine hitting your kid in the head just because you're a little frustrated, do anything else and try not to think about it too much. Watching a shitty movie you've seen 10 times before seems like a better use of your time.
My advice is no. Don't do it you already trauma bonded don't get yourself further backwards in progress. Yeah it's sad, but you aren't in this person's life nor owe them anything.
Do the 180
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I mean, I personally wouldn't want to date someone who believes that I and/or others don't deserve bodily autonomy and equal rights.
If you have a truly open and honest conversation about what you both believe, you likely won't be attracted to her anymore. She knows that and that's why she refuses to talk about it. Some people make that work and just ignore the moral differences throughout their entire relationship. I personally am of the opinion that if I can't be honest with a partner about what I believe then that's not a good relationship.
In the end, it's up to you how strongly you align with your morals.
She cheated. She's feeling out your response and making up ways to spin this.
Sit her down and ask for every single detail. Ask to see her phone. Go through everything you can find. Be prepared for more minimizing lies and excuses.
The question becomes this: who exactly did she cheat with? A random? A coworker or business partner? An old flame? Then, it's a matter of whether it was the first time, and is she going to see that person again.
He wants a submissive trad wife. Do not compromise your personality for this man who is obviously so insecure that his own wife is intimidating to him.
Throw the whole man out.
Do not go back to your country alone. You most likely won’t make it back. It’s also not safe for your husband to go. Stop pushing him into a potentially dangerous situation. It’s not fair.
It sounds a lot like he is disrespectful and lacks actual understanding of relationship boundaries vs being abused.
He thinks not being allowed to ogle women on IG is abuse. He literally implied you're like his ex because his behavior grossed you out.
That's the bar. Let me ogle women or you are controlling.
Miss, please date someone your age. I don't say this to denigrate you, but because it's evident you didn't walk into this with your eyes open, or a clear warning. Im going to give you that warning now.
If an older man who dates notably younger women isn't a model boyfriend, you need to be running.
The majority of men who date younger women do so either to manipulate them to be the girlfriend THEY want them to be, or are too immature or poorly grounded for women their age.
That's the long and short of it. You aren't the miracle exception and good sense is already telling you to run, but your legs aren't moving.
There are older men who are good partners and have good reasons not to have people already fighting like wolverines over them.
You didnt find one.
You guys are in your 30s…
Accountable is what I did was wrong, I'm sorry I will go.
Accountable is not, but she's done worse to me, but she didn't respect my boundaries, but she touched feet with another dude, and I didn't.
You are doing the latter
You are shit talking this girl into the ground to hold onto that you didn't do something as bad as she did, so she shouldn't break up with you because it was only once.
Tbh. I CANNOT see why you are fighting so naked to be right in this situation she doesn't even sound that great
She should break up with you for the shit you've said here alone.
That's great advice, thank you. I agree it gets confusing and splitting this up makes it easier to discuss.
Men gossip more than women? Any evidence to back that up? Cause it sounds like crap