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You get that it's a night for the kids but still think he's gonna bang his ex? You obviously don't trust your dude. And if you can't trust him to keep his pants on for one night, what does that say about your relationship?
I can tell you it doesn't. My ex used to do it to me and it gets old quick. It's like, would you just shut the fuck up already? I told you no. Why is it okay for her to keep pressuring him just because she's a woman? If he was saying this to her, they would be telling her to leave him because he's abusive in droves.
Same. Husband and I both have very dark hair. I also have dark eyes and a natural tan. One of our kids is blonde, blue-eyed, and gets a sunburn if she walks past a window. But she’s 100% ours (and looks like a random cousin, so the genes are in there somewhere).
if he won't listen to you about other ways to show affection that don't bother you, leave him. it's only been 7 months, not a huge loss compared to being constantly sexually harassed by your partner.
If he loves you he should realize that finishing high school is far more important. A person who loves you cares for your future.
I am in a LDR with my bf. He lives in a different country too. He actively insisted on me finishing college and finding a stable income before moving countries.
Be grateful that you are single. Get some therapy for you to help you and realize that you have dodged a bullet and aren't going to raise another man's child. Stay strong and stay away from her and don't be friends with her, showed you what kind of person she is. I would also wager that she will be a single mom soon after and they will cheat on each other . Keep walking and don't look back and start living your life and do what you want to do ! Good luck
Get the abortion and call your local Domestic Abuse Hotline. I don't know where you online, but if you have a Planned Parenthood, they function on a sliding scale. Plus, you are still within the 11 week time frame to get the abortion pills. They are much cheaper. Don't delay.
I was immediately told that they weren’t allowed to come over and needed to have consent before inviting people. Fair enough
What awful things has your friend done to T? If nothing then T is completely out of line and it's absolutely not fair enough. You're allowed to have friends over. It's only an issue if it's properly disruptive. Definitely good to give housemates a heads up but you shouldn't need permission to have a friend pop over for a chat. It's not a big deal and their unreasonable response shouldn't need validating, because it's unreasonable. A heads up is fair and fine, but consent for a mate to pop over? Nah.
And then it gets worse, fucking in a shared space when the other housemate (you) is there. They have a bedroom. That's messed up. Fingering when you're in the same room… holy crabsticks. The line of reasonable behaviour hasn't just been crossed, it's been lapped several times. Not sure what the house/flat layout is like but what if you wanted a glass of water or something from the lounge? Don't fuck in shared spaces is pretty simple.
How to approach? Very hot to say as T's “consent to guests” things is wildly unreasonable so a fair chance it's not going to be the most pleasant conversation.
Probably don't worry so much about what is and isn't hypocritical but how much of the situation is just bollocks. Shared space fucking? Bollocks, stop it. Needing consent to have a mate pop over? Bollocks, stop it. Lay down what is reasonable and start afresh if you can. If you can't, then maybe look at alternative accomodation or housemates, because that's a lot to just have to online with.
Yup and look at most of his comments. People are down voting this fuck out of him. People really cater and defend women in majority of the scenario's that play out here
I feel you man. It’s really really very hot to pull away, I’ve been there. Spending time away with some family will really help you clear things up and figure out what to do next. “I just don’t want to online like this anymore” that one hit home with me because that’s how I felt with my ex. While I miss her, breaking up with her has been the best thing I’ve done for my mental health ever.
If you feel yourself drowning, being pulled further under by her negativity, don’t feel guilty to cut that weight loose and focus on healing yourself. I found if I didn’t, I just became a worse, more miserable version of myself.
I don't want sympathy, I just wanted to tell this story because telling that to anyone is very very hot, and I don't know who to tell. I understand I'm being a piece of shit, I apologized to her about calling her shallow, and honestly if she rejects me and has a good relationship with this I would be happy, honestly not immediately it would take time. I'm just overwhelmed with thoughts, because I know I kinda reaped what I sow.
Then in that case it may just be something psychological like another person said, or he may be scared that you can think he is a cheater and thats why he is so persistent on it, we dont know him so we cant tell
This is sad but the fact is that whilst you had a perfect relationship, clearly she didn't. At 27 she's grown and changed from the 20 year old who began the relationship so it's really not a surprise.
Get her to pay you back however you have too. Get her to admit to it over texts and keep that as evidence and dump her once it’s paid back. There’s no coming back from that kind of thing in my opinion.
A man will treat you how he feels about you. I don't think this is just about sex. He sounds selfish, and I have no doubt he would cheat given the chance. He goes on hook up sites! And you seem to just skip over that.
You get that it's a night for the kids but still think he's gonna bang his ex? You obviously don't trust your dude. And if you can't trust him to keep his pants on for one night, what does that say about your relationship?
Have you considered maybe I’ve been cheated on in the past and now don’t find it ok for another man to put HIS BALLS IN MY GIRLFRIENDS FACE?
I can tell you it doesn't. My ex used to do it to me and it gets old quick. It's like, would you just shut the fuck up already? I told you no. Why is it okay for her to keep pressuring him just because she's a woman? If he was saying this to her, they would be telling her to leave him because he's abusive in droves.
you should surprise her with flowers
More than 10 years with my husband and I've never considered cheating or wanted to.
I've thought someone was cute but nothing is worth breaking up my happy home.
Are you expecting her to quit her job? You weren’t together, she did nothing wrong.
It’s usually not a good idea to date coworkers
Lol not even, there were at least 200 there. I just meant 50 of the other guests were other friends of ours.
Same. Husband and I both have very dark hair. I also have dark eyes and a natural tan. One of our kids is blonde, blue-eyed, and gets a sunburn if she walks past a window. But she’s 100% ours (and looks like a random cousin, so the genes are in there somewhere).
Agree with the yellow flags! If you’re not feeling it, then you’re not feeling it. You’ve been on one date. You don’t have any obligations.
if he won't listen to you about other ways to show affection that don't bother you, leave him. it's only been 7 months, not a huge loss compared to being constantly sexually harassed by your partner.
You need to break up with her and be clear this is the reason. This is abuse and assault. Sorry this happened to you.
If he loves you he should realize that finishing high school is far more important. A person who loves you cares for your future.
I am in a LDR with my bf. He lives in a different country too. He actively insisted on me finishing college and finding a stable income before moving countries.
1 year way too soon, should be more like 5
Be grateful that you are single. Get some therapy for you to help you and realize that you have dodged a bullet and aren't going to raise another man's child. Stay strong and stay away from her and don't be friends with her, showed you what kind of person she is. I would also wager that she will be a single mom soon after and they will cheat on each other . Keep walking and don't look back and start living your life and do what you want to do ! Good luck
Get the abortion and call your local Domestic Abuse Hotline. I don't know where you online, but if you have a Planned Parenthood, they function on a sliding scale. Plus, you are still within the 11 week time frame to get the abortion pills. They are much cheaper. Don't delay.
Oh I meant it sarcastically. Sorry it didn't read that way
I was immediately told that they weren’t allowed to come over and needed to have consent before inviting people. Fair enough
What awful things has your friend done to T? If nothing then T is completely out of line and it's absolutely not fair enough. You're allowed to have friends over. It's only an issue if it's properly disruptive. Definitely good to give housemates a heads up but you shouldn't need permission to have a friend pop over for a chat. It's not a big deal and their unreasonable response shouldn't need validating, because it's unreasonable. A heads up is fair and fine, but consent for a mate to pop over? Nah.
And then it gets worse, fucking in a shared space when the other housemate (you) is there. They have a bedroom. That's messed up. Fingering when you're in the same room… holy crabsticks. The line of reasonable behaviour hasn't just been crossed, it's been lapped several times. Not sure what the house/flat layout is like but what if you wanted a glass of water or something from the lounge? Don't fuck in shared spaces is pretty simple.
How to approach? Very hot to say as T's “consent to guests” things is wildly unreasonable so a fair chance it's not going to be the most pleasant conversation.
Probably don't worry so much about what is and isn't hypocritical but how much of the situation is just bollocks. Shared space fucking? Bollocks, stop it. Needing consent to have a mate pop over? Bollocks, stop it. Lay down what is reasonable and start afresh if you can. If you can't, then maybe look at alternative accomodation or housemates, because that's a lot to just have to online with.
Yup and look at most of his comments. People are down voting this fuck out of him. People really cater and defend women in majority of the scenario's that play out here
I feel you man. It’s really really very hot to pull away, I’ve been there. Spending time away with some family will really help you clear things up and figure out what to do next. “I just don’t want to online like this anymore” that one hit home with me because that’s how I felt with my ex. While I miss her, breaking up with her has been the best thing I’ve done for my mental health ever.
If you feel yourself drowning, being pulled further under by her negativity, don’t feel guilty to cut that weight loose and focus on healing yourself. I found if I didn’t, I just became a worse, more miserable version of myself.
I don't want sympathy, I just wanted to tell this story because telling that to anyone is very very hot, and I don't know who to tell. I understand I'm being a piece of shit, I apologized to her about calling her shallow, and honestly if she rejects me and has a good relationship with this I would be happy, honestly not immediately it would take time. I'm just overwhelmed with thoughts, because I know I kinda reaped what I sow.
Then in that case it may just be something psychological like another person said, or he may be scared that you can think he is a cheater and thats why he is so persistent on it, we dont know him so we cant tell
Why not give it a shot? You never know
This is sad but the fact is that whilst you had a perfect relationship, clearly she didn't. At 27 she's grown and changed from the 20 year old who began the relationship so it's really not a surprise.
Get her to pay you back however you have too. Get her to admit to it over texts and keep that as evidence and dump her once it’s paid back. There’s no coming back from that kind of thing in my opinion.
Dude… That should destroy your trust for a millennium, I mean wtf is her excuse?
Yes!!!! Yes you can!!! She can go eat a bag of d!ck$!!!!
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A man will treat you how he feels about you. I don't think this is just about sex. He sounds selfish, and I have no doubt he would cheat given the chance. He goes on hook up sites! And you seem to just skip over that.
Block her. Simple.
Addicts are often coached to stop hanging around people who continue to use their substance(s) of choice. There’s a good reason for that.