You're happy with how things are. You make the same amount of money as she does. That's not good enough for her and she wants you to be less content with your life so that she can achieve one of her life goals. So you are supposed to sacrifice your happiness and contentment to make quite a bit more money than she does to fulfill her life goal of owning a house?
Are you kidding? Because if you're considering marriage with a person you should be open with them. At the bare minimum mention you have problems with your family and that's why you don't want her to meet them.
You arne't a gf, you're an unpaid maid, tutor, and secretary for an ineffective person who doesn't respect you, your needs or contributions. There are no magic words to get him to understand. He understands that he has a sweet deal in you, and that he is willing to take up your life energy and possible prospects by being his mommy-maid. You shouldn't feel bad for being mad — that's your gut telling you that things aren't right. Listen to it.
I would never except cheating, but…
Sooooo you would except cheating?
You're happy with how things are. You make the same amount of money as she does. That's not good enough for her and she wants you to be less content with your life so that she can achieve one of her life goals. So you are supposed to sacrifice your happiness and contentment to make quite a bit more money than she does to fulfill her life goal of owning a house?
Are you kidding? Because if you're considering marriage with a person you should be open with them. At the bare minimum mention you have problems with your family and that's why you don't want her to meet them.
You arne't a gf, you're an unpaid maid, tutor, and secretary for an ineffective person who doesn't respect you, your needs or contributions. There are no magic words to get him to understand. He understands that he has a sweet deal in you, and that he is willing to take up your life energy and possible prospects by being his mommy-maid. You shouldn't feel bad for being mad — that's your gut telling you that things aren't right. Listen to it.