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Date: October 22, 2022
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Thank you I've been really kicking myself for getting upset. We talk everyday so it's just strange he never mentioned anything
Delete the emails from the sent folder too!
You just had a baby. You don't have time for late- night drinking and partying anymore anyway. If he needs to use that as an excuse because he doesn't feel comfortable telling people he was assaulted, he has an easy out.
Than i recomend you to go on r/legaladvice and r/divorce, and regarding divorce, the house both of you lived is fully payed, mortgade or rented? After moving with you has you wife being a SAHW or she have a work? Does her salary is the same of your salary? Have you buyed cars or any property since marrying her? Those property is ij yours or her name? If you have any type of joint acc with her you have to withdraw what have left and then end it.
Your ex who you have not heard from in 4. 5 years should stay in the past where he belongs. Why do you want to meet him at all? Personally, I would not even entertain it, but you are not me.
That's exactly how i read it.
He was sick, didn't feel like he could find anything better, she was completely into the relationship. Now that he's doing better he realizes he can find what he actually wants.
We’re getting serious now and looking at homes to purchase
Why are you so keen into rushing into buying a house together if you've never even lived together before? What happens if things turn sour when you finally close the gap?
It makes our long distance relationship really hot, but I can’t break the tradition, I’d be breaking my relationship with my parents who I love so much, and they wouldn’t be in my life anymore, or my kids etc…
You could break the tradition if you wanted to. It's your life, and if your parents only love you under certain conditions…..it will be really tough for you.
Again, so what happens if your relationship with your partner turns sour after marriage? what if it turns abusive? Will they forbid you from getting a divorce?
When one person is always the one who has to compromise, that builds resentment. It's not too much to ask his sisters to be more flexible, even if they have kids. His sisters are just selfish, entitled assholes.
I keep it easy: I ask the girl what she finds sexy and do exactly that.
He's an asshole. I get he'd prefer if you gave him BJs, but I also understand your POV. If BJs are a need for him that badly, he should have just broken up with you. It's fine to be sexually incompatible, but it's not ok to demand your partner do something because you want it.
Totally in agreement here. Several people have pointed out that it's kind of ridiculous for this to just now be a problem after 15 years together.
If everyone was previously cool with her partner not coming to events, then we can reasonably infer that for whatever reason, people weren't getting along and the neutral action was to not have him around.
This has just recently become a bigger issue because the op feels the inclusion of her sister's boyfriend makes their relationships unequal, but why wasn't it a problem beforehand? Wasn't everyone okay with the space?
It sounds like this is a simple matter of testing the waters by asking family if her husband can come along and if met with resistance, to challenge the reasoning and use this as a bridge towards having everyone sit down for an adult discussion.
Personally speaking, if I had a kid with a partner I didnt like I wouldn't be going out of my way to bring them everywhere either. Holidays are kind of a given but only if this person isn't an outright asshole.
If the op wants to have her husband feel more welcome, she needs to resolve whatever rift there is between him and her parents. If there is no rift, they just need to showcase interest since it's apparently been lacking for over a decade until someone else got a noticeable amount of attention.
That shit with his friends is grotesque. You have every right to leave and it's a justification I think even he'll accept one day. He doesn't have your back.
Sami will need support from her best friend once she finally realizes Tom is a scumbag and leaves him.
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She sexually assaulted you behind your back. GTFO before what she is doing works. Save the evidence you have that she did this to you. This is evil and beyond.
Your post history is concerning. Are you sure you are mentally healthy enough for a relationship?
If the genders were flipped people would be so quick to call OPs gf a cheater.
Your boyfriend is emotionally cheating. Its not appropriate to remain friends with this person and he can't even give you a legit reason as to why he can't limit the time he spends with her.
If she's a good person and actually just wants to be friends with your boyfriend, she will be perfectly understanding. Your boyfriend is not being forthcoming with you.
At the end of the day, it's your comfort in the relationship versus his anxiety over losing this female friend, and he's choosing the latter.
It sounds like you love him a lot, but you're spiraling emotionally.
Please please please get professional help. Actively turning things down that you know you want and are good for you out of an irrational fear and copious amounts of anxiety is going to wreck your life. I think therapy is your best option.
I just keep wondering if he wanted kids or if she pushed having children on him. He may not want to have sex out of fear of her getting pregnant again. I’d be curious if he didn’t want to sleep with her before they had kids. Sounds like both of them are just surviving at this point and that isn’t going to change if they are unwilling to use resources available to them like medication for their child.
With more context, I understand your situation more, so thank you and sorry for assuming!
I definitely think an open convo would be the best decision to make. Just a reminder: your boundaries are worth standing up for, you’re not asking for much and it’s not a toxic expectation. Please don’t ever feel as if you’re over reacting with things like this, I understand why you’d feel upset.
Good luck with this all and I hope it turns out well 🙂
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
You dessrve better.
Bruh…he’s 18 and it’s only been 3 weeks. Cut him some slack and just guide him, work with him. Help him help you. Wanting to throw in the towel this quick says a lot more about you than him. You can break up with someone for any reason but it sounds like you have a pretty good dude.
What does moving out “to find herself” really mean? Because I immediately think of that meaning she wants to explore other people and experience different things. And she can’t really do that if you’re still living together. I’m guessing, since you guys got together at such a young age, she probably didn’t have to opportunity to do this beforehand.
Selling your house really drives in the point of you guys likely not making it. Not only is she separating herself from you, by moving out, but also trying to get rid of the one big thing you built together. Housing has gone up so much in most places. I don’t think it’s wise to leave the housing market because it’ll be harder to get back in. See if you can buy her out, that way you still have your home, even if she leaves.
She’s almost 30…at this point, she knows her limits unless she’s an alcoholic and uses this social outing as an excuse to get blitzed. It’s not very believable that she was too sick to text you, or too sick to have read your text.
If she was that hammered, I’d also be worried that she’s not very safe getting that drunk at a club.
Either way, these are red flags. Stay alert. She’ll probably go through a 2-4 week cooling off period where she’s on best behavior. After that, if something’s up, she’ll probably resume her sketch behavior.
You obviously know her best, but you’re also likely to give her the benefit of the doubt when the appearance is that she was intentionally quiet and unavailable. She’s happy to “own up” to her bad behavior of not calling when she should have if it means she doesn’t have to own up to the real bad behavior. I hope we are wrong though.
Good luck!
I don't think you are compatible. You are too emotiona for her and she doesn't know how to handle it.l