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Its definitely strange. Have a chat with your bf. Even if its nothing its good to clear the air.
If you make your choices based on fear of the unknown you will live! a very unfulfilling life.
You say she loves you. You haven't said you love her, and that's extremely telling, extremely important.
If you don't love her, and you stay with her out of fear of change or fear of hurting her, then you are ROBBING HER of the opportunity to find someone who DOES love her.
So it's not just your own years you're wasting.
I can tell you care about her and I can tell you're not a bad person. Look past your own fear, look past the immediate pain of breaking up and remember what you do owe to her: The act of respect of telling the truth.
This thread gets me a bit antsy.
Thank you. I'll look into couples therapy. At this point we both have individual therapists but that might help too
I don’t know where your self respect is but if my wife or girlfriend told me she had feelings for another guy that would be the end of the relationship.
I feel the same way, is that really the best quote she has on him being disrespectful?
In such a scenario where he has 100% custody forced on him, he can put the child up for adoption
Not excuses, context and examples of what went on. These are the things we fought about.
And I did account of my actions, which are easy to describe, so it takes less space. My actions/reactions were inexcusable (to me, anyway). I full on admit to the yelling and screaming I did, the verbalized suspicions and accusations, and it was wrong that I did that. I never should have behaved that way. Had I known then what I know now, I would have walked away from her when I got upset and not come back until I had adequately calmed down and could have discussed what went on with her calmly and rationally. Or maybe realized that we were two very different people (despite how things seemed when they were really good between us) and ended the relationship sooner rather than try to hold on and make it work for much longer than I should have.
When she did point out to me that I was being jealous, I tried not to be (at least, I tried not to verbalize it…it was hot not to be territorial). If she said I was being suspicious, I would often bite my lip and try not to ask too many questions or make comments about the stories she was telling me. Even when she disappeared and was NC for days (which was uncharacteristic of her leading up to disappearing like that) It was difficult for me to change while simultaneous dealing with being told (or witnessing) events that upset me, but I did my best, and managed to stay silent.
I am willing to answer any questions or give more examples if anyone is interested. I'd rather fix the issue than have it glossed over, ignored, or just be patted on the back and told it is no big deal, which is what I usually get. “You were young and didn't know better.” “Typical youthful relationship mistakes.” Mistakes that don't bear repeating (and from what I have been told, I have not been making the same mistakes). Or maybe the mistakes are already fixed.
How long will it take for the paperwork to be finished? Why couldn't he do the paperwork himself? He has no right to call you such terrible names. Yes you lied to him but the paperwork is being done and no reason for calling you names. He's being really mean to you.
First off stop having sex with her.
I can think of several ways to verify if she's actually pregnant. She's not going to like any of them because if she is pregnant she'll resent that you don't believe her and if she isn't pregnant then she'll continue to try and hide the truth. But:
Buy a pregnancy test, read the instructions to see conditions and timing, and then have her test with that while you're there. Since various websites sell fake positive tests you need to know it's a real test. Go to the doctor with her. Ask her to, in front of you, sign into her doctor's patient portal and show you the report from her last exam or test that shows she's pregnant. Every doctor I've seen over the past 10 years has a patient portal on their website where every patient can log into to see live listings of future appointments, report/summaries of past appointments, and copies of any lab tests the doctor ordered or performed. If she's actually seen a doctor about her pregnancy you can verify there if she'll show you.