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Date: October 19, 2022
Oh okay i understand that she might not know shes doing it.
You’ll never get it back. Congrats, and remember genuine “guy friends” don’t exist.
I get the feeling that you thinks that choosing to say those things and saying them in that way is supposed to minimize conflict but it would be absolutely maddening.
Sometimes people interrupt. Sometimes if you're up their nose they snap at you. That is really just part of the deal if you want to be among other humans.
I would NOT want her as my therapist
i agree that the way i act is my responsibility but also i have certain reactions because i have been in situations that were traumatic and because of that i can act in heightened ways. that is what a trigger is. i can own the fact that i treated my friend in a cruel way without blaming myself for the emotional abuse i endured. she is completely entitled to remove herself from the conversation and i respected that, i did not contact her from the last date on the screenshots onwards except to reschedule our call the first time and then today when we were supposed to have our second call. her wanting space makes sense, but we had arranged to talk and that’s what frustrated me today. i have given her space.
addressing your point about asking my therapist about the narcissistic abuse in my messages and not being entitled to your time: i understand your point but also you responded to my post in an advice sub, it’s not that weird of me to ask for advice. of course i will ask my therapist.
gee, really makes you wonder why no one his age is dating him.
No, they are still connected.
WHy do you feel like the relationship is over?
He’s an idiot. Break up with him and move on.
I mean, they may have partners who are totally cool with this, or may not want partners? Not everyone wants an SO.
Exactly this.
OP. Contact her family and explain the situation. That you fear she is unsafe and they need to go to her immediately.
It says a lot about your character that you are so concerned for your friend. However you are not equipped to deal with this. She needs professional help. Contact her family, tell them this is urgent and you're concerned for her safety.
Families will do that in ways nobody can see.
I know super short
Yawn.
So I think first, you have to assess your own feelings about how serious this issue is. And also give yourself some grace about your “ultimatum” because you were rightfully mad that he hid something and lied to you about it. You can decide you want to walk back what you said, but that doesn't mean what you said was awful, and it certainly wasn't “abusive.”
Just from this situation, what your husband did was wrong and hurtful. You two were invited together, he decided he didn't want you to go, which of course hurts your feelings. He had a chance to at least be honest “I would like to go to this without you because of X” and while that might hurt your feelings, at least it is in the spirit of open communication.
Next, he spent a month making plans behind your back, and to me, that is lying. And it isn't one lie, it is a bunch of small lies over a period of time, which is way worse than one big lie. So he broke your trust, and if he has done anything like this before, that means he has broken your trust multiple times AND has not changed his behavior.
So now we have a partner who lies, says he is trying to be open and improve the relationship, while still doing the same stuff that led to you two having issues in the first place. Sure, he may have issues with you as well, but that doesn't matter in this situation, because HE is the one acting poorly, even as he says he will change.
You are in a place where you both should be trying your hardest in the relationship, and he is still showing up this way. That to me would be a dealbreaker. And then, he is trying to fully manipulate you by saying what you said is “abusive” because that changes the narrative. Now it is about YOU overreacting/being harsh, instead of it being about him repeating bad behavior and breaking your trust.
You are too young for this shit. He is showing to you very clearly he will not change, so keep the ultimatum and move on with your life.
Don't let that doormat drag you down with him and you…you are so wrong for dating a guy who is constantly thinking of his ex, you need some serious self respect, he is not worth it, no one is worth that
I still love this person and miss the happy memories we had tight. I don't know if I can let go…
OP, here’s something you’re going to have to figure out: is it a dealbreaker that your wife’s physical attraction to you is conditional? She could have been more tactful about things, but she wasn’t, and this is clearly weighing on you. Personally, I think some couple’s counseling (and possibly some therapy) needs to happen.
Exactly how you explained it right here.
If they can't understand why. You can tell them that they don't have to bring their dog over if they don't like the rule.
That's incredibly courageous of you. Yes, you're right. You deserve much better and you will certainly find one. For now you'd be in depression like everyone in your situation. But rest assured it will ease with time, and eventually you'll be nothing but thankful for your decision. Also you truly mentally evolve with every relationship. For now, stay with someone as much as you can, like friends or family. Or reddit–people are always here with you when you need it.
Yeah, that speaks to a huge difference in communication. I wouldn’t stand someone dangling a seemingly crucial information in front of me. In this case the area for interpretation is huge, from: your dad commit a hit and run to: your dad farted really awfully for 3 hours.
One thing organized religion did nice is this: speak now or forever hold your peace. She’s trying to vent and put the burden on you without actually including you and I would be pissed.
It sounds like you're the third wheel in your relationship. Do not apologize. Start setting boundaries.
Bro she's injured, tf do you expect to happen? She just magically becomes not injured? This can be a thing that takes over a year to recover fully from.