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Date: November 4, 2022
Because you’re attractive and rich, once that all fades well.. who knows how many women would let you bang them.
You do realize those pics are probably photoshopped to hell right? Women who post pics like that are selling a fantasy, not reality. You need to look up IG vs reality. People can make themselves look like anything.
I'm saying this as someone who is extremely insecure about their body, to the point where I am completely covered up even when walking around the house (I wear tights under my pajama shorts so no one can see anything): people do not see us the way we see ourselves.
We see something gross that needs to be covered up. They see something attractive/beautiful enough to be desired. Or maybe they see our flaws but they don't care. Maybe they think our flaws are attractive.
I know that's not helping the way you see yourself. It doesn't stop me from being self-conscious or paranoid about the way I look. But it does put things into perspective for me.
Just like you ignore/don't notice/are attracted to flaws in other people, they do the same to you. We are all flawed. No one has a perfect body, and having plastic surgery with the mindset you have now is going to be much more destructive than constructive for you.
okay so it sounds like you've both got some hang-ups about sex, likely bc of your culture/religion, and there's some medical aspects to the problem as well. Again, sex therapy would be ideal for you
End things now. If your goal is a long-term relationship with the person of your choice, he does not share that goal. It sounds like he accepts the life his family will impose on him, and he is just “having fun” until then. Unless you are ok with meaning nothing more to him than, ahem “practice” until his wedding day. If so, stay put and count the days. You sound like you want and need a lot more. There is no sense wasting time with someone who does not want the same things.
It's going to hurt, and I am sorry for that. But, you must be true to yourself. Good luck.
To address the men vs. women cheating… Biologically men and women are different. And from an evolutionary point of view, a man was out hunting for food and procreating with multiple women for survival reasons. And speaking from experience and the large amount of men and women I deal with on a daily basis, yes. When men cheat they’re not emotionally attached as when women cheat. Men cheat because they don’t have a large selection of women. And they want to sleep with other women for validation. To feel wanted/needed. Women on the other hand, have men flocking around them day and night. So when a woman cheats, shes mentally and emotionally ready to leave her current partner. And she’s choosy. So she’ll choose a man that she thinks is a better mate (most of the time she’s been lied to and regrets it later, then cheats again)
However cheating is cheating… Cheating requires a person to lie and manipulate their way through the relationship. Sounds to me like he wants to be Polyamorous but doesn’t have the guts to tell you about it. Because he knows you’d leave after you’ve made it absolutely clear that cheating is a BIG NO!
Sorry to say this, but whether you like it or not, he’s either already cheated or planning on cheating. And he’s already showing you red flags of an upcoming unhealthy relationship
Ah yeah you're right sorry?
Zero gifts for you? Sex once.
Why do you think you are dating?
Honestly, I would just tell her you are busy or sick for New Years and find a friend's place thatbyou can hang out at.
DO NOT BUY HER ONE MORE DAMN THING. DO NOT PAY FOR HER TO DO ANYTHING ON NEW YEARS.
I am kind of curious what she would do if you showed up for an event with her and then claimed that your wallet was missing. Maybe stolen. If you can pay using your phone then your phone goes missing…
If you already have plans for New Years try this. There is no downside. Maybe she will pay for the evening. If not, just don't buy anything. At all.
Exactly. Most of the time they’re weak and can’t move on
He’s been wanting to break up but doesn’t want to couch surf- sorry OP
Hah, maybe. They advertise it as a great thing on their website – “ONLY two hour time window” already, but who knows? Asking doesn't hurt. Thanks!
Got ya! I just texted her a few minutes ago and she truthfully explained that she has a habit of drawing within and limiting trust when something like this happens. She said she wishes she could remove the feeling but it's ingrained.
I'd like to add that couples therapy with a manipulator isn't a good idea as they'd use whatever is said in therapy against you
Cultural diff?
yes I left bc he disrespected me and I needed space bc I was upset . He should’ve realized that what he did was wrong and apologized. So how is this ridiculous?
You cannot marry a racist. If you did and had kids, what would he say about them? He's shown you his true colours. I'm Indian but born in the UK and my man is white. We are married and have a son. If he ever had acted like that during our engagement, I'd have left him.
Do not marry this idiot
Wait, I thought you migrated, and he stayed
Catfishing one of them? The fact you’ve said that makes me think you’ve been extremely immature in all instances here. You going through a bad time doesn’t justify your bad behaviour, either.
The fact catfishing has even came to your head is utterly mind boggling.
I’m done with her after these Responses. They cleared the fog
Just go to the library and do it from there. Completely anonymous, since libraries won't give info to the police.
Can I ask why you love him with all your heart??? Because it seems like this person has radically different values from you, and kind of doesn't respect that you're putting in hard work to have the career you want. That's not just a red flag, that's a reason to break up.
Honestly, your whole post kind of gives me a vibe of “we've continued in this relationship because nothing has really been that bad”, which is not at all the same thing as “we have had many difficult and important discussions about what we want out of life, and we are compatible and aligned on a deep level”.
Obviously I don't know the details of your relationship, but it kind of seems like everything has just been fine enough, you like each other enough to get along, you get along with each other's friends and family well enough, etc. But like… You don't commit to be with someone for the rest of your life because you can tolerate each other and there are no huge issues. Just based on the sheer volume of people in the world, you could probably have that relationship with literally hundreds if not thousands of people. The objective of finding someone you want to be with for the rest of your life shouldn't necessarily be settling for someone just because they're kind of a nice person and you kind of get along… And all of this is on top of the fact that you've known this person for literally a year, which is not a long time, and he is already being dismissive of your very hot work, career goals, and the future that you see for yourself. He pouts and tries to make you feel guilty when you push back. That's not the behavior of someone that you should spend the rest of your life with. You shouldn't have to try to convince someone that you deserve a career and that you don't want to just be a housewife.
It kind of feels like you set the bar ridiculously low for how you expect to be treated by a partner. I don't say that to be harsh, rather, I say it to point out that you deserve better and that you can almost certainly find someone who has a vision of the future that aligns with the future you want for yourself! Or at the very least, someone who has enough respect for you to have a real, in-depth conversation about your mutual goals and desires, who will listen to you and really try to understand your point of view, and not try to make you feel guilty for wanting the life you do or try to convince you to just go along with whatever they want.
One thing I haven't seen mentioned yet: you were apparently just having a heart to heart and then just stopped checking your phone? Like you didn't text him as you were getting dropped off, but also didn't check your phone while you were out afterwards? That seems odd in the aftermath of a serious conversation
Take a shower together so you can make sure it's clean?
Go to therapy and discuss why he is so insecure with you. It’s normal to have some insecurities, but this extent is majorly unhealthy and controlling. It’s very concerning that he wants to keep you home to prevent you from cheating.
You could put him through the wringer and ‘discuss’ . Think of twenty or 30 questions about the situation.
Then decide his answers are weak and sad and dump him anyway.
I was saying for the sake of argument, that you seem to imply, that I should spend a substantial amount of my time doing more of her share of household labor
What is her share of the household labor?
I mean yeah it could get worse over time, but what makes you say that? Isn’t it normal for men to sometimes not want it, just like women don’t always? I’m trying to learn ?
Yes, she's not the type to do counseling. She hates discussing her feelings with strangers.