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Well you're just going to have to settle with losing your family then, cause you don't seem like you care enough to even attempt to fix this.
Honestly, you need to set boundaries.
“Your music is disrupting me to the point where I can't sleep, study, or relax. I don't object to you listening to music, but I on-line and pay rent here too, and I deserve the right to have quiet hours. You need to respect my needs and not play music loudly between the hours of [times when you are home and need quiet- at minimum, 8 pm to 8 am.].”
If he refuses, you may need to decide- can you on-line with this forever, or is it time for an ultimatum? If so, you need to say “okay. I understand that you are not willing to show me this basic respect and consideration. In light of that, we clearly aren't compatible to on-line together. Are you willing to stop playing music during these hours for a couple weeks while I find other housing?”
Or, if he isn't on the lease and you are, tell him he will need to find other housing.
This should either a) make him understand this isn't a joke, you are seriously in need of change and b) if he really doesn't care about you enough to stop playing music to keep you, you just learned a really important lesson.
That is an egregious and sexist statement. It may be true in this case, but there is no need to generalise like that. If any male made a generalising statement like that about women they would be torn to shreds.
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To be fair, the guy moved in with her after only two months and had nothing. He says he isn't working. I don't believe it is a partnership.
Man this one is rough you should consider yourself lucky if your next gift from him isn’t divorce papers.
That’s not holding out hope.
Literally telling him to reach out if he’s back and interested. Is definitely not holding out hope. Especially if he says nothing
Geez.
please don't get married you're only teenagers. it may seem like he's the one but always put your own life as first priority before any relationship
I might sound a bit heartless but as a man I’d say you don’t owe him a damn thing. Everything that he’s done is made irrelevant due to the fact that he’s cheating on you. The girl even called the hospital asking about him lol. You sound like you have a heart of gold OP don’t waste it on this clown. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
Perhaps it’s time to separate finances and just give her a weekly “allowance”
You pay all the bills and put money away in savings. She can spend her allowance on whatever she wants. It will remove the stress of you worrying about what she is spending her money on.
Thank you for the feedback. I know I probably should tell her before our second date but the real concern is how :/ any suggestions?
This sounds a bit familiar. Look up anxious and avoidant attachment types. Maybe you're usually a little anxious, but have never been with an avoidant type like your current bf. The emotional rollercoaster of kind of being together, but constantly being rejected is making your emotions run really, really high. It might feel like super intense love, but in reality it's just that your constantly stressed so your emotions are running wolf in general – your love isn't necessarily abnormally strong.
Ask yourself – what is this bf doing differently than your previous ones? My guess is that his behavior is playing a large role in how you react. Yes, you can get therapy (you should anyhow), but this doesn't mean you should neglect your core needs that currently aren't being met. He just doesn't sound like THE guy for you.
Small clarification from OP's scattered comments:
OP's friend is also a victim. Her friend's bf spiked her friend too – she only found out after the fact and warned OP after. OP's ex and friend's ex are filthy degenerates. It makes it more sickening that they both planned it together ?
And he’s said he will meet the care needs of his daughter including shared custody. Still not obligated to subsidise the child’s mother’s lifestyle.
I shared a bed with my dad last month when we were visiting my grandmother. Anybody who thinks anything sexual happens when two relatives share a bed has some serious issues of their own to work out.
She would not the first patient forced into treatment who has said this. They are trained to deal with these issues. This may be her only chance.
They are using you to support themselves and their baby. You are money to them and nothing more. Yes, it is abusive. Your friends are right. They are in a relationship. You are legally married to her and nothing more. If the three of you were really in a poly relationship, you would have been consulted – you were not. Leave, divorce her, and let them deal with it, and get some therapy for your self-esteem issues. You deserve so much better.
Except it's his house. Good luck with that. Her cat doesn't get along with his and is apparently starting it. Does he not have the right to ensure his pets are safe too?
Bad advice. He said she can’t have friends that are men.