Should she be obligated to go to events that are important to me?
No.
It's fine to want her there, it's fine to say “this is very important to me, I'd really value your support” and then drop it if she says no, it's fine to hope she would put up with a little boredom, but OBLIGATED? Nah.
You don't get to stamp your feet and say “As my girlfriend, you HAVE to do this for me.”
Out of interest, what did she do for the previous four years of this vital, can't-miss chip ceremony? And did you attend every year of your childhood, since it's been going on longer than you've been alive?
Lol damn. You went with that? Over her expressing to you that she’s “thinking she doesn’t want kids”? Let her run and watch how far she flies. Best for the both of you. Good luck.
I know when I'm bored, its because I'm being boring!
Should she be obligated to go to events that are important to me?
No.
It's fine to want her there, it's fine to say “this is very important to me, I'd really value your support” and then drop it if she says no, it's fine to hope she would put up with a little boredom, but OBLIGATED? Nah.
You don't get to stamp your feet and say “As my girlfriend, you HAVE to do this for me.”
Out of interest, what did she do for the previous four years of this vital, can't-miss chip ceremony? And did you attend every year of your childhood, since it's been going on longer than you've been alive?
Awww he wants his cake and to eat it too? Poor baby. They weren’t exclusive. She can do what she wants.
Girl, run. This guy is not good for you. You deserve so much better
Lol damn. You went with that? Over her expressing to you that she’s “thinking she doesn’t want kids”? Let her run and watch how far she flies. Best for the both of you. Good luck.
No way’ you invested way too much’