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Date: October 10, 2022
Are you being this obtuse on purpose or what?
Masculinity is not defined by sexual attraction.
Absolutely break up. You have many reasons and you shouldn’t wait until after Christmas either. Why should you? Whether you’re there or not, it’s still his first Christmas without his dad. It’s not your job to be unhappy at the expense of someone else when you don’t have to be. It’s ok to let him go now.
You have been married 6 years, and your wife has been talking to this guy for 4 of them? And it's not as if she confessed and begged for your forgiveness. She has kept this hidden from you until you had too much evidence for her to deny it.
You say you and she want to make the marriage work, but even if you are willing to forgive her, how would you even begin to trust her? What is she doing now to earn back your trust?
People who stay together “for the sake of the kids” usually end up hating each other and the kids sense there is something wrong. This is not a happy life for any of the parties involved.
I wouldn’t make it up to someone who abused my pet. But you do you. A sincere apology always works wonders.
I've read your other posts about this guy. WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM?! Do you enjoy being treated like shit?
Bullet dodged for sure!
You're very welcome. I hope the best for you and your child. Cheaters are horrid. If you haven't yet there are some good books to read. One is, Leave a cheater, gain a Life. Also check out Chump lady.com.
Sounds responsible to me. What's the problem? You shouldn't really have one with it.
He “accepts your shortcomings” as if his rapey tendencies are shortcomings? Yeah nah. Leave his ass. No freaking way should you continue this relationship. Two days, two weeks, two years or two decades, this isn't something to accept and look past and move on from.
Ok so when did she last sit on your lap? And pls tel me u haven’t been in love with her for 5 years?
This is a lack of personal responsibility though, she’s 25 and didn’t plan for a thing then didn’t turn up to work
Treatment facility. Nobody at a facility of any sort knows better than you.
Leave. Run. Sprint and cut her off wth
Why?
I haven't told them they're wrong? I'm trying to tell them the whole story? I'm honestly trying to gather up the strength to distance myself, realising there's a strong trauma bond. It's not that easy though. No need to be rude.
This is going to seem oversimplified, but the only advice I can give is that you're 32, and it's not her business. If you're comfortable in the relationship, you're going to have to set the boundary that it's not up for discussion with her.
But now, its like I am wondering if she will just look down on me, and think she is settling. I don't want to waste time in a relationship that has an expiration date, at this point is it best to just call it quits?
This is what you need to be asking her.
Sure, maybe, but generally asking someone if they want to call things quits doesn't work.
She doesn't see it as an expiration date, it's more likely she sees it as, he needs to get a job to be more commensurate with hers by X date or she will probably reconsider the relationship. In the meantime she's gradually applying pressure for him to do so.
She maybe has thought about him not earning as much and now she's mentioning it. But… she hasn't yet put herself in the position of, OP will always earn 140k. This seems like a wait and see how I'll feel then thing.
The whole argument in her head I think will only be forced if she accepts that OP won't earn more. It's perhaps unrealistic, but the only way to force the decision.
As for your other points I entirely agree. Personally I think even forcing the decision on the principle above is forcing a decision based on earning. While I can understand this issue when someone won't work or look for a job, not in this case.
If OP lost his job and there was a downturn in the economy, would she stick by him. I kind of doubt it or even if he did, I think her view of him would be detrimental to his mental health and finding work again.
I believe OP has great self worth and this in itself is forcing him to ask these questions. Which he already knows the answer to. Respect doesn't really seem there and it shouldn't depend on an income level.
Learn how to fight, fight the problem not eachother
She is not doing him a service by having her own children that she elected to have, no.
You’ve been together 18 months and this happened during the first two and you’re still feeling so guilty? Nothing happened except you texted something stupid and immediately blocked the ex.
Would you want to know this if the roles were reversed? If a boyfriend told me that happened I’d honestly be worried there must be more to the story if he’s confessing a long time later. It would just cause me anxiety. If it’s as brief and simple as you say, I wouldn’t want to know if I were him.
When deciding to confess or not, you should make sure it’s really in his interest and not just your own.
If you’re searching for reasons to ignore/move past this, here they are:
She’s still young enough to perhaps not have the experience to realize it’s best to avoid even the appearance of impropriety. She may learn from the experience and give you and/or future partners fair warning.
Skiing/snowboarding, this is not unheard-of. Trips start, often because someone owns a cabin or is renting one, people join, people drop out. Mixed-gender groups can sleep on the floor together, share rooms, sometimes beds if people are cool.
On the other hand:
By 23 she should know what an LTR looks like and generally how to behave and have the self-awareness to know to treat her partner the way she wants to be treated. Swap the genders and tell me how this looks. Is she cool with you lying by omission about staying at a female friends place?
Why is she still going on the trip if skiing is cancelled? To a guy’s place she has been cagey about.
You said somewhere else that she’s aware you don’t get along with this guy. When she says “I knew you didn’t like him, so that’s why I didn’t tell you” — that’s all the more reason she should have told you, not an excuse.
She tells me she feels “disconnected” from me. I didn't feel this, so of course I became concerned and I sat down with her to try to get out of her why she felt that way.
She let him know there was a problem. He “tried to get out of her” why she felt disconnected.
She started crying and I was eventually able to get her to explain. What she said has been burned into my memory ever since. “I'm not attracted to you anymore. Your body changed.”
Then he pushed for more and she finally, seemingly reluctantly, told him what he wanted to know.
She didn't act shitty. He wanted to know. She told him. He can't handle it.
So, yeah, he fucked around and found out.
He's 33 damn years old and is all butthurt because he got fat, his wife lost attraction for him, and he made her explain what was up. What the hell did he think would happen?!?!?