Does he ever spend time away? 2500 is a weekend with an escort. 1000 is 8-12 hours. 500 being a couple hours. At least for any escort. But leaving a money trail for such activities is fucking dumb. Maybe he’s a sugar daddy
“Being in a dark place” is a pitiful excuse to put your hands on a woman. Domestic abusers typically don't stop, but there is always a honeymoon phase in new relationships. Maybe he has changed, but I wouldn't be around long enough to find out if that's true or not.
It's not private information. Believe it or not, women share stories like this for safety reasons. She also isn't obliged to keep a secret to protect you, if she feels like she needs to talk about it. You creeped her out and betrayed her trust as a friend, and she very likely wants to talk to her friends about it to process, and she's entitled to do that. She doesn't owe you silence.
Insecure men swear they know how women act or why we do the things we do. He is so incredibly wrong about this. Just because some women seek attention and validation does not mean all do. Some men seek the exact same things. Even when I was single and not seeking a partner m, focusing on parenting my children – I still went to the gym, got my lashes done, did my nails. Why? Not for a man, because when I looked in the mirror I looked at my damn self and wanted to look nice lol. He has some real growth to do
This is so sad
Seen this already dude
Does he ever spend time away? 2500 is a weekend with an escort. 1000 is 8-12 hours. 500 being a couple hours. At least for any escort. But leaving a money trail for such activities is fucking dumb. Maybe he’s a sugar daddy
You sound like the most irritating person to date.
“Being in a dark place” is a pitiful excuse to put your hands on a woman. Domestic abusers typically don't stop, but there is always a honeymoon phase in new relationships. Maybe he has changed, but I wouldn't be around long enough to find out if that's true or not.
It's not private information. Believe it or not, women share stories like this for safety reasons. She also isn't obliged to keep a secret to protect you, if she feels like she needs to talk about it. You creeped her out and betrayed her trust as a friend, and she very likely wants to talk to her friends about it to process, and she's entitled to do that. She doesn't owe you silence.
I would send him a thank you note after he broke up with you.
Insecure men swear they know how women act or why we do the things we do. He is so incredibly wrong about this. Just because some women seek attention and validation does not mean all do. Some men seek the exact same things. Even when I was single and not seeking a partner m, focusing on parenting my children – I still went to the gym, got my lashes done, did my nails. Why? Not for a man, because when I looked in the mirror I looked at my damn self and wanted to look nice lol. He has some real growth to do