This is kind of a red flag. Does your boyfriend not want for you to meet his parents? Or he wants them to meet you, but his parents don’t want to meet you? Really, either way, it’s weird.
So true. I would really hate that. I don’t want to step on anyone’s toes. Just enjoyed the sex. I guess I just don’t know how to check the validity of the open marriage, you know?
I thought that neither my husband nor my best friend were worth me destroying my children's chance to a whole and safe home being a child of divorce myself.
This doesn't even make logical sense. Your mindset doesn't really make sense. It sounds like you don't actually want a marriage at this point, you just someone to provide financial support and to be able to have the status of not being divorced. Your kids are going to suffer. For your own sake, I hope your husband becomes unhappy enough to divorce you since it seems like you don't have the wisdom to do it yourself. This marriage is a trainwreck.
Your husband is an idiot for not using context clues and understanding that you were clearly not okay with this from the beginning. Obviously if you tell someone something and they leave crying, the answer is no. It sounds like he basically wanted you to pretend you were okay with it and you aren't pretending well enough for him.
Kate is a major snowflake. Yikes.
A mechanic doesn't look at a car on fire and say “I can fix this”. You can't fix her. Now fix yourself and seek counseling.
I have a good friend who's in a relationship like this. Awesome guy but is being totally used.
This is kind of a red flag. Does your boyfriend not want for you to meet his parents? Or he wants them to meet you, but his parents don’t want to meet you? Really, either way, it’s weird.
So true. I would really hate that. I don’t want to step on anyone’s toes. Just enjoyed the sex. I guess I just don’t know how to check the validity of the open marriage, you know?
I thought that neither my husband nor my best friend were worth me destroying my children's chance to a whole and safe home being a child of divorce myself.
This doesn't even make logical sense. Your mindset doesn't really make sense. It sounds like you don't actually want a marriage at this point, you just someone to provide financial support and to be able to have the status of not being divorced. Your kids are going to suffer. For your own sake, I hope your husband becomes unhappy enough to divorce you since it seems like you don't have the wisdom to do it yourself. This marriage is a trainwreck.
Your husband is an idiot for not using context clues and understanding that you were clearly not okay with this from the beginning. Obviously if you tell someone something and they leave crying, the answer is no. It sounds like he basically wanted you to pretend you were okay with it and you aren't pretending well enough for him.