100% agree with WinterFront1431. OP I am so sorry for you that they even had the audacity to even think this was ok. You're a strong woman for not kicking both their asses by now.
I hope there’s an adult you can confide in, and seek help. Its not just sex that’s the problem here. You’ve been groomed and are now in his control (I can’t comment on whether this was by his design, but that’s usually the case).
You need to find a way out. Start planning, start saving.
See, that's the thing. Like, there's only two scenarios that make any sense to me. Either the sister was scheming for OP's husband and finally made her move, or they got far too comfortable because they've been carrying on for at least a bit now. Nothing else makes sense to me.
For them to both get so out of it they start making out without realizing what is happening? Not buying it. And if that is what happened, I'm confident the sister would have at least tried to defend herself.
Is it possible this is entirely on the sister? And the husband really was being honest? Sure.
Do I feel it's far more likely that they're having an affair? Absolutely.
Hey, you'll be okay. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone that loves and respects you.
Spend some time with your friends and family, keep yourself busy.
Did he start listening to Andrew Taint
She sounds anxious/depressed or just burnt out in general. She must get some time and you must talk to her about this
Thank you for your reply
Honestly that really depends on you because it's different for everyone. But 18 isn't really it for most people
100% agree with WinterFront1431. OP I am so sorry for you that they even had the audacity to even think this was ok. You're a strong woman for not kicking both their asses by now.
Oh no, that just makes it worse..
I hope there’s an adult you can confide in, and seek help. Its not just sex that’s the problem here. You’ve been groomed and are now in his control (I can’t comment on whether this was by his design, but that’s usually the case).
You need to find a way out. Start planning, start saving.
See, that's the thing. Like, there's only two scenarios that make any sense to me. Either the sister was scheming for OP's husband and finally made her move, or they got far too comfortable because they've been carrying on for at least a bit now. Nothing else makes sense to me.
For them to both get so out of it they start making out without realizing what is happening? Not buying it. And if that is what happened, I'm confident the sister would have at least tried to defend herself.
Is it possible this is entirely on the sister? And the husband really was being honest? Sure.
Do I feel it's far more likely that they're having an affair? Absolutely.
yea totally lost the suspension of disbelief there.
this is so not worth it
its been a year Ld
find someone who is attracted to you
“Kate wasn't the classic beauty”. Sounds like she wasn't your first choice either. Sounds like she's extremely honest. That can have downsides
Graduate! Join your family afterwards (in a gown and cap please!). Be you, do happy.
Get a lawyer and file for full custody.