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We need more information. Why are you with an individual who doesn’t support you with rent, cheats on you, and is over 40 with no career? He will never be able to get you expensive gifts, are you okay with that?
You don't need to justify yourself. It sounds like you took all the advice on board and will be speaking to your girlfriend and the police, so well done for doing the right thing and no doubt it will be a tough conversation, but just let her know you're there for her and do everything you can to protect her by supporting the police filings.
Also, don't forget about the girlfriend who told you about the nudes as you said she sent you the photos back. This is proof that your phone was photographed and depending where you live that could be enough to take action, perhaps they can seize the technology (phone, laptop etc) to trace the photos and see if they were sent anywhere.
The main thing is that your girlfriend will need a lot of support from you. But you are doing the right things and you trusted your close friend, he is the one who took the photos and not you, so it's not fair for you to be strung up for that. It has happened now so all you can do is support your lovely lady and try to get some justice. Now you know those are not good friends, you can move on and find better ones 🙂
So you’re just in a relationship to get wifed up? Really look at your motive OP. Would you really go back to someone who didn’t take you seriously to get married?
The best way to help them fade is to help contextualize the good memories with all the bad ones that are also associated with her. Every time you drift to a happy moment, remind yourself of the shitty things that preceded/followed it. Because with relationships like that, happy memories are usually bookended by garbage – yeah, that hour might've been great, but that shit that happened in the car on the way there/back, the night that followed, etc. usually has a whole bunch of things that weren't worth that moment if you're really honest with yourself. At least that's how my crappy relationships shook out and I bet yours does too.
You're grieving and healing. Instead of trying to suppress or trying to forget the good things, put them in their proper context and treat this whole mess as a learning process. Use it to reinforce that even the biggest dumpster fire has cozy spots but that's not a reason to ignore the 3rd degree burns you sustained to find them. And give yourself the grace and time to feel bad for a bit – you'll work out of this in your own time and trying to force it to stop will only make it worse. Occupy your time so you're growing and not dwelling, but it's okay if your heart takes awhile to let go. You're human. It happens.
And google says that the pain in my chest may be a heart attack. Or its just i down cold french fries too fast and got instant heartburn. Google says a lot of things man.
You could be a side chick. If he likes you as much as you like him and you love close enough to be able to see each other regularly and he won't…. there's something going on. Either he's just crazy shy (unlikely since you've already met) or there's another reason why he can't or won't come meet with you.
I do not know if he is ok, I’m also quite an anxious person too, those thoughts have gone through my head too, especially seen as he ended our last phone call with. “I’ll speak to you later, I love you bye” so my brain has thought a million different things
Anyone can be a cum dumpster. Male. Female. Animal. An actual dumpster, filled with cum. I don't see how this is misogynistic. I am not racist. I do not hate women. Each to their own though. I am not going to hate on you for calling me a misogynist.
We bought the house here but have no support system at all. We had to literally throw a random neighbor down as an emergency contact. Its a small command with like 3 people in his office, and we on-line an hour from if work so it's not like they don't want to help, it's just not realistic. So I'd definitely have to move back home to my family if I were going to be single parenting.. which I can do I'd just need to find another job and everything.. I also already gave notice to this job and we had already started to buy the house in the new place so that is another huge stressor :/
We need more information. Why are you with an individual who doesn’t support you with rent, cheats on you, and is over 40 with no career? He will never be able to get you expensive gifts, are you okay with that?
The lying is already enough of a sign to cut him loose
You don't need to justify yourself. It sounds like you took all the advice on board and will be speaking to your girlfriend and the police, so well done for doing the right thing and no doubt it will be a tough conversation, but just let her know you're there for her and do everything you can to protect her by supporting the police filings.
Also, don't forget about the girlfriend who told you about the nudes as you said she sent you the photos back. This is proof that your phone was photographed and depending where you live that could be enough to take action, perhaps they can seize the technology (phone, laptop etc) to trace the photos and see if they were sent anywhere.
The main thing is that your girlfriend will need a lot of support from you. But you are doing the right things and you trusted your close friend, he is the one who took the photos and not you, so it's not fair for you to be strung up for that. It has happened now so all you can do is support your lovely lady and try to get some justice. Now you know those are not good friends, you can move on and find better ones 🙂
So you’re just in a relationship to get wifed up? Really look at your motive OP. Would you really go back to someone who didn’t take you seriously to get married?
Just be very careful and save any information you can ok?
The best way to help them fade is to help contextualize the good memories with all the bad ones that are also associated with her. Every time you drift to a happy moment, remind yourself of the shitty things that preceded/followed it. Because with relationships like that, happy memories are usually bookended by garbage – yeah, that hour might've been great, but that shit that happened in the car on the way there/back, the night that followed, etc. usually has a whole bunch of things that weren't worth that moment if you're really honest with yourself. At least that's how my crappy relationships shook out and I bet yours does too.
You're grieving and healing. Instead of trying to suppress or trying to forget the good things, put them in their proper context and treat this whole mess as a learning process. Use it to reinforce that even the biggest dumpster fire has cozy spots but that's not a reason to ignore the 3rd degree burns you sustained to find them. And give yourself the grace and time to feel bad for a bit – you'll work out of this in your own time and trying to force it to stop will only make it worse. Occupy your time so you're growing and not dwelling, but it's okay if your heart takes awhile to let go. You're human. It happens.
What everyone saying is true. Don’t forget about yourself and realize you deserve to be loved and cared for. I’m sorry this is happening.
Luckily, I live in a country where marriage/divorce/housing/criminal etc. is all private and not public info.
But I'm a teacher and most of my students have “stalked” me in-depth, as have previous dates.
What you think has nothing to do with what she does.
Its up to you but once you have doubts is naked to regain that trust.
when you only get bits of the truth, how do you know where it will take you.
Therapy should be looked at for you and the both of you if you plan to move forward .
No matter the road you take, I wish you well
And google says that the pain in my chest may be a heart attack. Or its just i down cold french fries too fast and got instant heartburn. Google says a lot of things man.
You could be a side chick. If he likes you as much as you like him and you love close enough to be able to see each other regularly and he won't…. there's something going on. Either he's just crazy shy (unlikely since you've already met) or there's another reason why he can't or won't come meet with you.
I do not know if he is ok, I’m also quite an anxious person too, those thoughts have gone through my head too, especially seen as he ended our last phone call with. “I’ll speak to you later, I love you bye” so my brain has thought a million different things
Anyone can be a cum dumpster. Male. Female. Animal. An actual dumpster, filled with cum. I don't see how this is misogynistic. I am not racist. I do not hate women. Each to their own though. I am not going to hate on you for calling me a misogynist.
We bought the house here but have no support system at all. We had to literally throw a random neighbor down as an emergency contact. Its a small command with like 3 people in his office, and we on-line an hour from if work so it's not like they don't want to help, it's just not realistic. So I'd definitely have to move back home to my family if I were going to be single parenting.. which I can do I'd just need to find another job and everything.. I also already gave notice to this job and we had already started to buy the house in the new place so that is another huge stressor :/