If there was a glitch with google, it would show her there more than once. To show her exactly at the suspected AP’s address, on just one occasion, is too suspicious.
No, DO NOT skip the interview. You will regret losing this opportunity a lot longer than you'd regret losing this relationship.
You need a partner capable of supporting you and your dream. You also need a partner you really want to be with, not one you feel obligated to be with because of “stats” about relationships. At three years you'd have a better idea of what you want and whether this woman is right for you. There's a reason you have doubts.
In the end, you are better off with your dream job and without a relationship that's weighing you down. Not the other way around.
It is completely illogical that your husband would put down an ultimatum on a friendship of yours. Especially one that you’ve had longer than you knew him. He’s telling you you don’t have a mind of your own and he doesn’t trust you.
I’ve had partners with douchebag friends, they could admit they were great friends but I never prevented my partners from hanging out with them. We talked about healthy boundaries that would limit my time around them.
Your husband is also completely oblivious that Sami is going above and beyond to save her marriage so this was not her choice.
You just broke up. Give it time.
If there was a glitch with google, it would show her there more than once. To show her exactly at the suspected AP’s address, on just one occasion, is too suspicious.
And not in a “I don’t give you permission” way which would be silly to say but in a “it will inevitably end like this” way
What is with the stalkers on this sub?
I was in the Army before that, so I've spent a lot of time with people in that age range. How about you?
No, DO NOT skip the interview. You will regret losing this opportunity a lot longer than you'd regret losing this relationship.
You need a partner capable of supporting you and your dream. You also need a partner you really want to be with, not one you feel obligated to be with because of “stats” about relationships. At three years you'd have a better idea of what you want and whether this woman is right for you. There's a reason you have doubts.
In the end, you are better off with your dream job and without a relationship that's weighing you down. Not the other way around.
It is completely illogical that your husband would put down an ultimatum on a friendship of yours. Especially one that you’ve had longer than you knew him. He’s telling you you don’t have a mind of your own and he doesn’t trust you.
I’ve had partners with douchebag friends, they could admit they were great friends but I never prevented my partners from hanging out with them. We talked about healthy boundaries that would limit my time around them.
Your husband is also completely oblivious that Sami is going above and beyond to save her marriage so this was not her choice.
The problem is I just have not found a good time for me to have this conversation with her
The longer you wait the worse it is