I don't think you are irrational for feeling like they are excluding you, because it seems like they are. How would you describe your relationship with them? Does your boyfriend know that you know? If so, what did he say?
I think the age gap is important here because it's likely the reason they aren't on the same page now. She is barely in her 20s and it's valid she isn't ready for a kid. He is almost 30, so probably feels a lot better about the timing. They should definitely have talked about this a lot more.
Im not arguing. I’m just talking about myself too.
I don't think you are irrational for feeling like they are excluding you, because it seems like they are. How would you describe your relationship with them? Does your boyfriend know that you know? If so, what did he say?
I think the age gap is important here because it's likely the reason they aren't on the same page now. She is barely in her 20s and it's valid she isn't ready for a kid. He is almost 30, so probably feels a lot better about the timing. They should definitely have talked about this a lot more.