Okay, so I tried to ignore the age thing, and I couldn't. You were 16, and he was 24 when you started dating. Big Red Flag (golden rule -> Half your age + 7).
But, going past that (however difficult it may be), do not ignore this. Tell your predator boyfriend that his brother is trying to sneak his prey from him. If you don't tell him and his brother says you made a move on him instead, then you're the one who looks guilty, and beyond that, if he doesn't think you'll tell the creep might try something worse.
Somethings not right.. who wants to marry a man that they don’t even want to hug in public? It makes no sense. Somethings very fishy about this woman. I don’t trust her and if I was op I’d stop wasting my time with her.
Yep, I'd be pissed if I was paying 100% of the bills while my partner is taking a gap year (not even studying as an excuse for not working!) And I come home to dishes piled up and hair on the bathroom floor. The question then is – what are they even doing all day? I think that's what's eating the husband up, that they are breaking their back full time at work to support both of them, and OP just sits around the house all day and sometimes cleans, for a year.
i’m trying to join him but he seems to be doing it angrily now that i said i didn’t like it
Get that feminist bs outta here. Tell her to get her tubes tied if it’s so important to her.
Okay, so I tried to ignore the age thing, and I couldn't. You were 16, and he was 24 when you started dating. Big Red Flag (golden rule -> Half your age + 7).
But, going past that (however difficult it may be), do not ignore this. Tell your predator boyfriend that his brother is trying to sneak his prey from him. If you don't tell him and his brother says you made a move on him instead, then you're the one who looks guilty, and beyond that, if he doesn't think you'll tell the creep might try something worse.
Do her a favor and dump her.
Yep, how dare a woman be more than her looks!
Yeah, I briefly considered Ukraine and Russia and dismissed it for the same reason. China and Taiwan is a good guess, though.
Yes. I posted on a throw away just to come reveal my true identity here on my main.
You really are fond of stupid theories aren't you.
Somethings not right.. who wants to marry a man that they don’t even want to hug in public? It makes no sense. Somethings very fishy about this woman. I don’t trust her and if I was op I’d stop wasting my time with her.
Yep, I'd be pissed if I was paying 100% of the bills while my partner is taking a gap year (not even studying as an excuse for not working!) And I come home to dishes piled up and hair on the bathroom floor. The question then is – what are they even doing all day? I think that's what's eating the husband up, that they are breaking their back full time at work to support both of them, and OP just sits around the house all day and sometimes cleans, for a year.
Go to marriage counseling. Please do not open your relationship. Can you look for another position with less travel?
spot on.
Lol. Okay, y’all are right. Even for an obvious troll/idiot this is great.
No one is this delusional. Well, possibly young teenagers or basement dwellers. But no functional, capable adult.
Hey OP… we are waiting. What’s your next move/inspiration/insult/insight??