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Date: November 14, 2022
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Wants full custody, hey? The gloves are off! Lawyer up and go get him!
Have a conversation with his mom about what your concerns are, and how his being out may change things. If you are close enough with her to discuss him- and you all value the relationship you child has with grandma- then work together to keep that relationship. If there is not a custody agreement- you'll want to have that in place before he's out.
But talk to grandma. She sounds like a good person, and will hopefully be able to keep in mind that the needs of your child are what comes first.
Stop! This is emotional abuse. Start glancing at your male friends asses and openly ask your boyfriend how big he thinks his friend's dick is
When your boyfriend inevitably snaps get straight to the point. Why does he get to pretend to cheat on you when you can't.
If you want to really scar your boyfriend to life randomly ask him if you were thinking of other men during sex with him would he want you to tell him?
That ego will come crumbling down.
Well we've known each other for like 5 months. Just not romantically, and I haven't messaged her since last Summer.
Bottom line : Get rid of the alcoholic boyfriend .
How does he afford the place where you are both living?
So she lied to you, in the hopes that you would either not check, or agree and not care.
Dump her, and let her get the attention she wants from random men.
You've been together 4 months, there is ZERO good reason for you to have met his kid, let alone for the nearly 40 yr old to be getting his baby to call the 24 yr old he's dating mama.
Seriously, why on earth would a decent parent introduce you yet, let alone encourage the mama? He wants a nanny he can have sex with.
You should see the red flags. Responsible, decent parents don't introduce kids to their partners until 6 months bare minimum, and the kids therapists I know recommend at least 10 to 12 months minimum. Take a step back and then nope right out of there.
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Block that friend. Cut off all contact. She’s a vile person. She knew that text would destroy you and likely your relationship. She was jealous and resentful, but that’s no excuse.
Consider couple’s counseling.
Continue therapy. Discuss what your goals are here. It’s been a year. For both of you, it’s time to start making decisions on which path you want your relationship to go.
Consider a sex therapist. Having someone guide you back to intimacy after this trauma may help both you.
Because if he used a crushes’ picture to masturbate that makes me feel insecure? And makes me feel like he is gross for invading someone’s privacy. But if it’s to me, I don’t mind.
Did you read the post?
I said I caught something on him that would make anyone look bad but he claims he knows it looks bad but he swears it’s just a coincidence.
MY ISSUE is that if it’s just a coincidence and he didn’t actually do anything (cheat) why is he trying his best to comfort me/be more affectionate and even leave his nightshift work which he isn’t meant to just to go buy me food that I said I craved a couple of days ago and “surprise me” with it.
I’m confused because I know sometimes people who cheat feel guilty and would do anything for the person out of guilt but at the same time it could also be he’s just feeling guilty that he’s put me in such a position that has made me feel the way I feel and possibly have some trust issues u til we have properly move on from it.
You made no mistake. Your GF has issues, and you're now having to deal with them. I hate to advise that everybody get therapy, but this just might be such a case.
You say “it wasn't romantic,” but it definitely was. Romantic, intimate, sexual. There is absolutely no salvation with this guy. Please, have some respect for yourself. You deserve better. Lose this dude.
Think about how much time you've invested into this post about something pretty meaningless and unproductive
Tell him how uncomfortable it makes you and bring up the possibility of him not telling her these ideas anymore and perhaps cutting contact with her. If he wants you to feel comfortable sharing your life with him, he ought to comply.
I have a very high sex drive and this still sounds crazy to me. I am totally on board to have sex every day, but not only sex every day. That's not normal. Couples talk about things. Everything. He has issues and it's almost scary.
I don't want to get married again either, I see no need for it, but I absolutely want to fall in love again. I've already fallen in lust once and it was amazing. Don't say no to what might be ahead. You deserve to be loved as a person and not just an object.
Well, don't hurt her then.
True but generally a stance on whether you want children is something I do at the start cuz why build up feelings if youre incompatible
Literally like if it wouldn't have mattered then why does it matter. Yeah it's wrong she lied but if she was being safe and using protection then it's not really his business as they had not communicated otherwise
You can't just administer a polygraph test, where do you get that from. If he wants to report her to the police they can handle any investigation otherwise he kind of needs to just move on. He can't do anything about the past and he needs to get away from her.
Thank you I appreciate it!
I think you made a smart desicion
Cats gonna cat, am I right?
Why isn’t your boyfriend getting rid of his problem cat?
When you moved in, he had one cat, but then he changed things up by bringing in two more. Did you both discuss that, or did he just do it?
It's also extremely true . When you have a business , the way you make money is by charging your customers as much as you can get away with in the free market ( thus they get f'ed ) , paying your staff as little as possible without losing your skilled labor to your competitors ( hence the workers get f'ed ) and try to avoid as many taxes as possible ( in which case the state is f'ed , although the morality of this is dubious , since the state is doing it's best to do the same to the business owners ) . Add to that the fact that outcompeting your competitors is needed in order to make money , but it can result to people losing their money and other people losing their jobs . You can be a successful businessman and you can be a moral one . I just don't think you can be both at the same time…