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Date: November 19, 2022
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my long-time girlfriend just broke up with me because of her coworkers. They thought I'm not good enough and out of her league.
Thanks for the messages and comments. It has been an emotionally draining few days. On Friday I cleared all my voice-mail and texts. I ended up with 61 missed calls(4 from the police) 14 voicemails, and 417 text messages.
I sent a generalized message to those who reached out stating that I was okay and safe. As well as need time and space while I work out some personal issues.
I picked up the ring since it was already paid for. Then put it in the box I made for it.
I did go to her parents house. As soon as I pulled up Kate opened the door and ran out. She had been crying. Went to give me a hug I accepted but it wasn't how I usually hug. She then tried to kiss me I moved my head and backed up.
We went in and sat down. We sat for about 10 minutes not saying anything. She started crying and said she was sorry.
I just responded with okay.
I asked her what she told everyone. She said the truth. I asked her why the cops were called to check on me. She explained that she didn't call them. After our friends found out they tried reaching out. After none of them had heard from me in over 24 hours they decided to call in the wellness check. Kate used the word catatonic to describe me while/after I walked away.
I took a bunch of the questions you guys posted.
I asked her why did she break up with me.
She didn't give me a straight answer. Something about people at work constantly talking bad about me. And playing on her insecurities.
I asked her why she kept letting that happen and not put a stop to it by setting clear boundaries. She said that she tried and it would work for a day but would go back the next.
I asked if she saw value in me as a person or in our relationship. She said that she does in both. I asked why would she break up over something a random stranger said about me. She said she was sorry and it was a dumb mistake. (Paraphrasing)
I asked how did they know about me or our relationship and how much did you/ they talked about me? The ladies at the salon overheard Kate talk to some of our friends or customers while she was working about me. Things we did like dates birthday parties etc.
Did she believe her coworkers were right? She said no. I then followed up with WHY? She said again she did not know.
I asked her if there was someone else. She immediately said no. She has never cheated or been tempted to. She offered me her phone which I declined.
I then told her how I felt. Sorry isn't enough. If she wants this relationship she needs to prove it to me. I didn't care that her coworkers kept talking about us. It's that you listened. It isn't what they said that hurts its the fact that you kept listening to it and repeated it back to me. She didn't try hot enough to stop them. It makes me feel like she had to feel the same way to an extent. That is what hurt and damaged the relationship. That her insecurities are what broke my trust. I will now always think that this might happen again. She will run off at the next opportunity.
She asked why I just talked away. I told her that at that moment. Just 2 sentences broke me and made me rethink my life up to that point and the future I was planning with us together. I was growing and making moves for that future. She started crying harder. I felt bad.
The next thing I did I regret. I asked her if she knew I was going to propose soon. She said no.
I pulled out and showed her the box. I made the box as well. It has two buttons one that says yes and one that says no. It has lights that say will you be my life partner? I set it on the table and pressed yes. the box opened and she started to cry even harder. The ring has both of our birthstones that form the shape of a completed heart with small diamonds surrounding it. Laser engraved initials and date of our anniversary. I had it made so that it could be added on to if/when we had kids.
Her parents were there but were more just to make sure things kept civil. Her mom was crying and her dad looked pissed but not at me. They both made comments about the ring/box.
I told her that the future I had planned was not going to happen anymore. We need to give each other space. At least 3 months of no communication. We need to take a step back and look at who we are and what we want moving forward. After that, we will see where we are at. But this is on my terms and timeline.
I can't return the ring so I don't know what to do with it. Might end up just giving it to her if things don't work out. After 3 months or longer.
She said that most of our shared friends told her off and blocked her. Her parents are pissed and her little sister hasn't talked to her since the first night.
I said I'm sorry but actions have consequences. I wished her the best. Thanked her parents for all they have done for me and hugged them. I knocked on her little sister's door(I have known her all of her life). Thanked her as well. Hugged her and left. I have 4 months left on my lease. I'm thinking of possibly moving when it expires.
Tonight I'm hanging out with a good friend Mr. Jonny Walker (just for tonight). I will get my life going again tomorrow.
I don't know if there will be another update or not.
It wasn't bothering you enough to stop though.
I think you need to do some soul searching about why you are okay with being so disrespectful to yourself and others. Don't reach back out to him. If you find the opportunity to tell her, you should, if only because who knows who else he's dipping his wick in.
So… he has a friend? I don’t get your problem.
Bypassing the age gap ?♀️?♀️ what do you mean by living in an environment unfit for kids??? You need to explain that one. This is a reason why the relationship won’t work long term. He’s wanting more kids, are you prepared to do this at age 22 when you say you’re bad with kids etc. save yourself the heartbreak and end it.
I don’t think anyone was expecting him to jump for joy. Expecting him to not make her feel gross about something that is completely natural is not unreasonable. He asked to see her vagina. Sometimes blood comes out of vaginas. If you’re that disgusted by it, stop asking to see them lest your poor baby eyes see what women see every month for a good portion of their lives.
Like Jesus.
Do I make stupid fight out of nothing? He shouldn't have done it in the first place if it was going to be a stupid fight. Does your husband lie to avoid your anger after doing something behind your back?