Give him 1 more day to learn and respect your boundaries but if he still doesn't do that then you've gotta end it because you're about to have a baby and you'd need someone who respects boundaries, for your sake and especially the kid's.
That's just it. They do have an absolute say. He can choose to agree to what I request to marry me or choose to not and keep his name. Just like if u want to drive a car. You are required to get a license and insurance. Don't aquire those, you don't drive. But is all your choice!! Everyone has a choice here.
Tell him to sit down and do it then. Can he do it? Is he faster at it than you? Of course not. How “hard” someone physically exerts themselves to work is irrelevant. It’s about the TIME is takes. And he should get more free time tha you.
So he moved into your place and started making demands about the way he wants things, huh?Since he moved in not long ago, you might consider moving him right back out before he roots too deeply. “Yeah this living together thing isn’t working for me. I don’t like what it’s doing to our relationship or my mental peace and free time. I’m going to need you to move out.”
It's interesting that while the post gives the impression that your wife left you to figure out how to make her feel loved, your comments suggest that she has already told you multiple times about your constant lack of attention to her and the need to be right. You don't listen to her. That's your main problem. There's no way she didn't complain a million times before she filed for divorce. You're giving this impression to make yourself look better. Also the people who think they're very smart because they're 'logical', usually tend to be arrogant, overbearing and disrespectful to anyone who disagrees with them. Emotions are not logical. Not everything can be gauged with the sort of 'logic' that you love to impose on people who're tired of your petty arguments and your absolute refusal to listen to them and understand their points of view.
You get out of this relationship. That’s what you do.
Give him 1 more day to learn and respect your boundaries but if he still doesn't do that then you've gotta end it because you're about to have a baby and you'd need someone who respects boundaries, for your sake and especially the kid's.
That's just it. They do have an absolute say. He can choose to agree to what I request to marry me or choose to not and keep his name. Just like if u want to drive a car. You are required to get a license and insurance. Don't aquire those, you don't drive. But is all your choice!! Everyone has a choice here.
What does she do for work?
If it's not 25k steps doing warehouse stocking what would it prove? You check her phone records?
Big number of texts and calls to the same number?
Google maps isn't wrong. You aren't digging enough.
my work isn’t as hot as his
Tell him to sit down and do it then. Can he do it? Is he faster at it than you? Of course not. How “hard” someone physically exerts themselves to work is irrelevant. It’s about the TIME is takes. And he should get more free time tha you.
So he moved into your place and started making demands about the way he wants things, huh?Since he moved in not long ago, you might consider moving him right back out before he roots too deeply. “Yeah this living together thing isn’t working for me. I don’t like what it’s doing to our relationship or my mental peace and free time. I’m going to need you to move out.”
Bud, this man raised you and always has been there for you. He might not be your biological father, but he damn well is your dad.
It's interesting that while the post gives the impression that your wife left you to figure out how to make her feel loved, your comments suggest that she has already told you multiple times about your constant lack of attention to her and the need to be right. You don't listen to her. That's your main problem. There's no way she didn't complain a million times before she filed for divorce. You're giving this impression to make yourself look better. Also the people who think they're very smart because they're 'logical', usually tend to be arrogant, overbearing and disrespectful to anyone who disagrees with them. Emotions are not logical. Not everything can be gauged with the sort of 'logic' that you love to impose on people who're tired of your petty arguments and your absolute refusal to listen to them and understand their points of view.