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That's what I felt. Like…I know what gaslighting feels like…and this is it!
Hard no for me. Very different life stages, power dynamics, 19 is closer to childhood in my opinion, and I'm 33. It makes me wonder why he doesn't date women his age – younger women can be easier to manipulate. Not saying that is his reason. Jsut saying that personally it would be way too much of a red flag.
So here's the thing if you suspect your partner cheating, you need proof before you accuse. Once you accuse someone, you ruin the relationship because you can just say you were kidding. Seeing a provocative pose can mean a few things….was it a pic with just underwear? Was it a full on hard? Was it clothed just in a sexual manner? Either way, if it crosses a boundary in your relationship, that's valid to confront her on. Since it was snap, I hope you took a pic because snapchat is the cheating app, all that shit disappears.
If you have a gut feeling she actually had sex, then you need hot proof before you accuse otherwise it's just going to be denial. The fact that she's lying is already a major sign she knows what she's doing isn't ok with you so that's enough to put her on blast …but again, you need proof. It's going to be a violation of trust, but have to go through her phone. Just like accusing, once you do it, you can't take it back. The signs of infidelity are there, so if you find anything you need to take pics so you can show her. If you find nothing, then you need to take a completely different approach about boundaries and what is and isn't acceptable with past relationships/flings.
I will say though, being friends with past ex's is something that is very common. I'm still friends with a few women I've hooked up with but they and I have a very strict understanding when any one of us gets in a relationship
Seems to me like you are getting advice … that you don’t like.
‘Ex has police visit for wellness check after failed attempt at manipulating ex gf.’
Don't over think it. The most I'd reply is ' hope you feel better soon, if you need my notes just let me know'. S
Get out
Being mad whenever I we talk about those people
he said yes but it broke in this context and he basically will leave if I have 100 baby frogs !!!
Please, don’t buy it, especially if she’s been having body issues. It will make things so much worse. Also, buying lingerie can easily appear as if you are buying a gift more for “yourself” than for her.
IF you know her size and her fabric tastes, some kind of sensual but subtle sleepwear might be okay. Something that feels beautiful and comfortable without being “sexy lingerie” – a silky pretty nightgown and robe would be my thing, but maybe some cute pajamas in a fabric she likes might work.
You’ll pay for the kitchen and he’ll dump you. DO NOT PAY FOR IT.
Ask for a meeting and insist on it. I believe when everything seems to come crashing down, their's still hope.
The ignorance in this comment is actually insane ? I might not even have ADHD, but to the people taht suffer from it you should be ashamed of urself
Also, that's a good idea trying to record at least audio for concrete proofs. Thanks!
As someone who isn't religious I'd like to try and provide some perspective. I personally think you should wait until your children can have a say in it and here's why:
First of all, too many kids have religion forced upon them and don't actually get to decide if they believe in it or not. I strongly urge not to get them baptized because I think that's a choice that as a parent you shouldn't be making on behalf of your child. If they want to later on, absolutely support that decision but don't force your opinions to play into their lives.
Secondly, waiting until you can educate them about all the religions would be a really good experience and influence and it would help them see multiple perspectives in life and show that there is no right and wrong in terms of religion, something I believe that is demonstrated all too often. With more education about Jewish people, roman Catholics, and people who don't associate with a religion like agnostic or atheists I think you're really doing a favour in allowing them a decision in life.
That's my two cents. Hope it helps.
I recently heard that for women it’s usually pretty simple to tell if a guy likes you. If he likes you, you’ll know. If he doesn’t, you’ll feel confused. Seems pretty accurate in this situation.
Why do you need to message him at all? What is the context between the two of you right now, all we know is that you went out and didn’t click.
You were a back up plan. Now you are taking that away.
Ghost her.
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Well I have no way of knowing why (probably scared because girl he was cheating with didnt know so if you got her socials you may message her that he cheated on you with her) but I would say better for you, take this chance and move on from him completely
Well this is what happens when you take back a cheater.
You’re 19. This shit is only going to get worse. You have your whole life ahead of you and you deserve to be with someone who isn’t going to throw shit at you, much less someone who needs explained to them like a child why it’s not acceptable to throw large and heavy objects at your partner. Please leave this guy while it’s still relatively easy. Some people are calling this a red flag but I would argue this IS abuse. Don’t wait for it to get worse.
Of course know your rights but nothing against texting
It does sound like a red flag if he is asking for your number.
He probably will, boys love their penises and really want you to love them too. I know it's hard but try to relax and remember you need to have fun too. It's not only about him and his enjoyment.
I completely agree, these comments are insane. I feel bad for OP. I don’t think most of these people are parents lol.
Then why not still get to know me? It’s not like we can’t be friends.
And it’s got to be that. It’s always that. Have you seen people telling me to lower my standards or be alone forever?
Online by the sword…
I mean, she can just google it. Mood swings and depression are known side effects of the contraception implant. The issue of blaming hormones for emotionality is a Really sensitive one for a lot of women, so you need to approach this issue with caution. I would say you could just not bring it up at all, but clearly these increasing fights are causing problems in your relationship, so it would be helpful to both of you to determine the cause.
…Try to see this from your friends and family's perspective. If a friend came to you and told you they were in a situation similar to that (and your current relationship didn't exist), how would you have responded. There may be a good answer for this, or she may be exactly what she looks like. The no job thing bothers me more than the kids. A hard-working woman trying to provide for her kids is one thing, relying on everyone except herself is a big NO for me.
Well you got what most of us expected. You emotionally cheated and ended up as the AP of a serial cheater. I am glad the Ex girlfriend is now free to meet and be somebody whom will value her and be faithful. The thing with relationships short or long term that they needed investment from both partners and it seems with your 10 relationship that when the time came to put in the investment you decided to go out all that investment elsewhere.
I wound step away from this other person and spend some time working out whom you are. You gave only done relationships now do you and focus on you and who you want to be. Cheating is a choice and you chose that path and it ended in you hurting badly the one person whom had you for 10 years and now you hurt yourself. To stop hurting chose something else.
What a stupid piece of shit. violent men don't deserve to on-line
Right then 🙂
Why not plan yourself a birthday dinner or something, and invite your friends? Then you will get birthday wishes and better friendships while doing fun things (and hopefully drinking free drinks)
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It's not lying bcz she never asked she said I should stay away from talking to her I've been just sending her money and checking on her for 2 mins I thought she'd be okay with it not be crazy
And yes it’s a huge parking lot, he usually would drop me off at the door to park his car and walk over I can send you a picture if you want since you seem very invested.
There are two possibilities that occur to me. They are mutually exclusive. Only one of these things can be true, but it's possible that neither is true. But here they are.
Possibly one – your friends are good people who love you, and are looking out for you, and something about your boyfriend is scaring them. Perhaps his behavior during the fight you mentioned raised their flags. In this case, they're hoping you will get a clue, and dump the loser so you can all resume your safe, happy lives.
Possibly two – your friends are jealous of your relationship, and are out to sabotage you because they're monsters.
I have no way of knowing whether either of these ideas are true. But I do know that people who fall in love with an abuser can be awfully stubborn about refusing to face the reality. And I also know that sometimes friends aren't really friends.
I grew up in a house where my great aunt would smoke a pack a day. House smelled awful. I canr give any advice besides never smoke again and deep clean everything cuz smoking is an awful habit/addiction and I can't deal with that
Thank you
He still wants to talk to me everyday, which makes me believe it isn't done
As an undergraduate preparing to study abroad, we were advised not to wear any jewelry. Was told that it identified us as Americans and made us targets for scams or worse. It didn't matter what country we were studying in.
Your partner is being selfish and self absorbed. What about the baby’s needs? Are they not the priority here. Why is your partner trying to elevate their own desires above that of the baby? You breastfeed because you are a woman, you produce milk. Your partner does not, nor can they. They are at best playing pretend and then gaslighting you into thinking you are transphobic. It has nothing to do with transphobia, it has everything to do with the baby’s need for milk being disregarded by your partner.
Your partner needs therapy, they are jealous of your ability to naturally be what they artificially aspire to create. Biology doesn’t work that way.
Naw, see the work of Dr. Helen Fisher on different ways we experience love, romantic love & sexuality. You can totally love somone and have a brief sexual thought about another — and brief sexual thoughts seem pretty common from my talks with other people. But perhaps this is not a kind thing to mention to a partner. After all, unless you have a kink around these things, most people don't really want to hear that their partner experiences sexual thoughts towards others?
I'm assuming you gave birth to your son? Personally I would feel that it's my job to breastfeed him. Your body grew him and your body is producing the milk to feed him. That's just me and how I would feel
There's no reason to hurt her when not feeling a spark is enough of a reason.
She said no.
Unless you are prepared to drop anal sex immediately and completely, you are incompatible.
You're misreading entirely
Pay attention
I understand better from Reddit now why the outcome was actually for the best… I hope this actually does mean therapy for him because I believe he really needs it.
I think that switching colleges will be major though—we go to a top 10 university, so going from that to CC feels like a big difference.
I do appreciate the advice on what to do if he contacts me ^ we’ve talked about it briefly and he said that he hates me for what I did, but still wishes me well for my future.
I don’t know, she said she wants to experienced other people and I have definitely seen that we just have very different life goals, we have talked about our future and what we want and they are just drastically different so I feel that its the right thing to do.
It’s only been two months so I would give it a bit more time. Perhaps she’s trying to figure out her feelings.
Also this is quite normal in a lot of relationships. As the man chase the woman for a long period of time, even when they are exclusive.
Have you had a conversation with her about your feelings? If you tell her what you like or what to do I bet she will try
You spelt Ex BF wrong.
That’s not a joke, that is close to abuse.
End it, block him on everything
Anyone consider he was hacked? Scammers everywhere these days.
You should find someone that’s also A-sexual and does not want to explore feelings intimately. Don’t torture any other men until you know he has 0 sex drive too. You sound like you didn’t consider his wants or feelings and you were happy we gave up trying to do nice things to build intimacy with you. You should probably stick to having just friends tbh
I get the feeling he assumed they were solid on the kids front, despite only having one conversation about it very early in the relationship. He checked that box very early on, so 5 years later when he realizes that box was never checked… blamed it on her lying/manipulating rather than on himself for not making sure that box was filled in.
The only people that should understandably be blocked are people you dated previously.
I “implied” exactly what I said and nothing more. I choose my words carefully. Don't ascribe comments to me that I didn't make. You clearly have reading comprehension and communication problems.
OP, if she is deleting messages and won't tell you what they discuss and having him over while you're gone, she is not being upfront and honest. Period.
Why are you even dating the dude honestly? The D that good or something?
Yeah. Super cruel. It might survive on the built up relationship to date and blaming alcohol but it probably shouldn’t.
I got the HPV vaccine and had a Pap smear at the start of the year before his affair started which was clean.
No, she does not want any form of counseling. I am trying to find a good balance of giving her space to process and letting her know that nothing has changed for me. I have told her a million times that I love her and do not want anything to change. I wish I had magic words to make her understand.
I agree that she sounds like a pain in the ass… But Canadians of Chinese descent are often people that left China because the CCP sucks. They're not Chinese Canadians really, they're Canadians- and while I'm from the US, my best friend from college is one of those people and says that the racism against them is getting really bad in Vancouver right now. It's possible the GF in this story is fed up with all the bullshit and not super rational anymore. I don't have any specific advice here, but consider if it's possible that she's having a really bad couple of years vis a vis race relations- they aren't entirely good for Chinese people in the US and Canada at the moment.
As someone Asian American, she sounds cringe as hell. Like yeah there’s a lot of problems with Asian women being a fetish and the lack of POC in movies or shows made before but it sounds exhausting having to argue that all the time. The whole Panda Express this is crazy too because I too will eat there because why not. For her to be on such a high horse about it, feels super snotty. Also how the heck was she pronouncing pho? The audacity of her to be arrogant about something she has no claim to especially if she wasn’t even saying it right to begin with. It’s like saying your an expert in soccer because you used to play football. Like it doesn’t totally make sense.