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The fact that you had to leave to escape them tell me that it was overwhelming. That could induce the acceleration of your disease and stress. Leave the house and separated. When they come don’t cook. Tell them I cannot Iam not capable
You could keep a lavender sachet under your pillow. A bit old-fashioned but you could hold it gently to your nose and breathe in lavender. And if your roommate notices, you can truthfully say it’s so your bedlinen smells fresh. You could try a little eucalyptus oil on a little scent sachet as well – that smells fresh and medicinal. Or you could set up a little essential oil diffuser and add a couple of drops of lavender to it as needed. Get creative, find a scent you like and cultivate a habit without drawing attention to it.
You can’t mention this to your roommate without humiliating her. There’s no way she owes you an explanation regarding her bowel health or her diet. People fart, and they fart in their sleep sometimes. I imagine you do too, no one is immune to it.
Thats completely understandable and a smart decision. I do think the friends you speak of have a very immature take and you shouldn’t listen to that line of thinking. It takes a really narcissistic person to think that another person cannot have other things going on in their life preventing them from being in a good place for a relationship, with them. Thats simply untrue. It would be like saying at all costs (mental, financial, or otherwise) a person should be ready for a relationship with a person just because they care for them.
Look, I’m not calling your girlfriend a duck… but she waddles everywhere, she honks at strangers, and she only communicates via loud “QUACK QUACK QUACK” noises…
(OP, ever heard the idiom “if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck…” yeah. She be a racist.)
True, but at the end of the day, are people really surprised when this happens? This seems to be an extremely common theme among any open relationship I’ve seen.
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Again. That's immature and an entitled way to think about love. If love is equal to possession for you, you will never be happy.
The fact that you had to leave to escape them tell me that it was overwhelming. That could induce the acceleration of your disease and stress. Leave the house and separated. When they come don’t cook. Tell them I cannot Iam not capable
Your gf needs to check her own insecurities. That was a gross comment and she needs to grow up.
You could keep a lavender sachet under your pillow. A bit old-fashioned but you could hold it gently to your nose and breathe in lavender. And if your roommate notices, you can truthfully say it’s so your bedlinen smells fresh. You could try a little eucalyptus oil on a little scent sachet as well – that smells fresh and medicinal. Or you could set up a little essential oil diffuser and add a couple of drops of lavender to it as needed. Get creative, find a scent you like and cultivate a habit without drawing attention to it.
You can’t mention this to your roommate without humiliating her. There’s no way she owes you an explanation regarding her bowel health or her diet. People fart, and they fart in their sleep sometimes. I imagine you do too, no one is immune to it.
Thats completely understandable and a smart decision. I do think the friends you speak of have a very immature take and you shouldn’t listen to that line of thinking. It takes a really narcissistic person to think that another person cannot have other things going on in their life preventing them from being in a good place for a relationship, with them. Thats simply untrue. It would be like saying at all costs (mental, financial, or otherwise) a person should be ready for a relationship with a person just because they care for them.
Look, I’m not calling your girlfriend a duck… but she waddles everywhere, she honks at strangers, and she only communicates via loud “QUACK QUACK QUACK” noises…
(OP, ever heard the idiom “if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck…” yeah. She be a racist.)
True, but at the end of the day, are people really surprised when this happens? This seems to be an extremely common theme among any open relationship I’ve seen.