You don’t get to dictate the terms of the friendship. Some friends aren’t looking to have emotional conversations. That’s OK.
If you need that, that’s also fine. But it doesn’t mean this person is any less your friend. It just means that you may need a different friend to fill that role for you.
No – you need to set some firm boundaries right now. And he might hate them.
Look – I have been in your shoes. I've been absolutely rekt by abusive relationships. Take our advice seriously now, or remember it five years from now when you are picking up the pieces wondering how life went so drastically wrong.
We are being abrasive right now because you need it. Don't make the mistakes I did.
This is a badly written question, but I'll take my best stab at it. I'm also not a Christian (I think that's your religion) and I'm not sure how churches “work” in that religion. I don't know if it's difficult to change churches or go to multiple churches as well.
I think trust is lost between you and your partner. If you don't trust her because she cheated, then it's time to move on.
She may, of course, be continuing to cheat as well.
Been seeing one for a while over various issues. We've talked about that prior relationship before and some of what went on but the therapist never explicitly said to me they thought I was a narcissist.
Did she have any contact with a tractor?
You don’t get to dictate the terms of the friendship. Some friends aren’t looking to have emotional conversations. That’s OK.
If you need that, that’s also fine. But it doesn’t mean this person is any less your friend. It just means that you may need a different friend to fill that role for you.
Not real adults.
No – you need to set some firm boundaries right now. And he might hate them.
Look – I have been in your shoes. I've been absolutely rekt by abusive relationships. Take our advice seriously now, or remember it five years from now when you are picking up the pieces wondering how life went so drastically wrong.
We are being abrasive right now because you need it. Don't make the mistakes I did.
This is a badly written question, but I'll take my best stab at it. I'm also not a Christian (I think that's your religion) and I'm not sure how churches “work” in that religion. I don't know if it's difficult to change churches or go to multiple churches as well.
I think trust is lost between you and your partner. If you don't trust her because she cheated, then it's time to move on.
She may, of course, be continuing to cheat as well.
Been seeing one for a while over various issues. We've talked about that prior relationship before and some of what went on but the therapist never explicitly said to me they thought I was a narcissist.
“Fuck you bro! We done!”
If you ask for a date and this is your current chemistry, the date will be just as awkward.
You have some more ice-breaking to do, i.e. familiarize yourselves to each-other.
You have his social medias, right?
Start being forward about when he's going to gym. Establish a little more friendly chemistry. Once that is in place, request the date.
Damn. It makes sense now why she is acting like that.