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Date: October 25, 2022
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Sorry, forgot to add this in my original post. Not presenting myself as a stud or anything. I always paid a lot of attention to her pleasure too. I wanted her to enjoy it as much as I did and foreplay and oral on my side was a big part of the play whenever we did it. She said she was satisfied, claimed she climaxed whenever we did it, through penetration or oral. Sorry for TMI
May I suggest you become a member of r/survivinginfidelity. They may be able to offer you support in this scenario.
Sorry, OP. I'd confront him and start a separation. And prepare yourself for a million forms of gaslighting that it's “not what you think,” cause it is exactly what you think. Good luck.
You're hanging out with the person you most recently had sex with other than your husband. And on a regular basis. He has every right to ask you to stop going over there to hang out, and you are completely aware of why it is reasonable. Your friend could just as easily come over to your place, but instead you go over to where her brother will be as well and you do it knowing how it makes your boyfriend feel.
Summary, you do not care about how your boyfriend feels. You enjoy being around another man who gives you attention and validation as well, even if there's no sex involved. You boyfriend doesn't like that you do this, but you continue anyway. Thus, your feelings are more important than his.
Please search for the lemon clot essay and show it to him!
I'll take it as reinforcement from the universe! I was definitely disappointed & angry posting this originally, but I do still love her and admittedly have missed her- especially today as we had plans for today prior to the breakup, which is why this timing is funny.
But yes, to exactly your point, I've held onto some relationships longer than I should have. So it's good to have this reminder. Friends I've talked to about it have had a similar perspective.
I heard something really cool today, narcissist's prayer, ever heard of that?
“That didn't happen, if it did, it wasn't that bad, if it was, it wasn't a big deal, and if is, that's not my fault, and if it was, i didn't meant it, and if I did, then you deserved it.”
That was my issue, too.. if it is only about his personal discomfort with being nude, why did he tell his wife it was inappropriate for her to shower with their daughter.
Maybe he was just feeling unfairly attacked so he turned it around on her, idk.
Ok your boyfriend sounds pretty inconsiderate however I can also see why the compromising argument sounds logical to him (i.e. you asked for X, he offered 1/2 X, this is an effective compromise which you aren’t accepting).
I’d like to suggest explaining it to him in a different way: for you aftercare belongs in the same category as foreplay in that it’s a necessary ingredient in order for the sexual experience to be a positive one. It’s something you need him to do the way you like it (similar to no phones during foreplay) in order to feel good about having sex with him.
He’s viewing the 10 mins afterwards as “free time” while you’re viewing it as part of the sexual experience. He hasn’t grasped this yet.
Tbh, he's a douche but it's not like she can't get out of the relationship mess.
Ok
Run! Run long, run nude, run far, they key word here is to RUN! away from here.
You don't need her in your life, this girl will bring you nothing but drama and heartache. You can Fund a more chill girl that's a better fit for you.
If she's threatening self-harm maybe check you local emergency services for psychological crisis. They may be able to help her and you, or at least give her a place that's not in your home.
Human data really doesn't show that. Its a mice study. It means more study is warranted.
And with treatment your friend is likely to have very little life impact.
As an MD you are not educated enough to understand what is being put out there. And its way to complicated to get into on reddit. For instance somebody with right ear malformation at birth could very likely have other malformations throughout their bodies that contribute to their deaths. Asleep apnea also doesn't kill you directly as you have other receptors that kick in and you don't sleep well. It can contribute to long term brain damage and heart damage but that's not going to kill you in your sleep in a otherwise healthy person.
Leave it to your friends medical team. You friend Dr Google isn't helpful.
The great thing about friends is that you can define the terms of that relationship in any way you want. If you don't feel comfortable completely letting him go, you can just keep him at an arms distance. Maybe you just go out to parties with him but you don't spill your soul to him, that's okay. I personally wouldn't trust someone that says they just couldn't control themselves.
Don't tell a guy you'd win a fight for real while play fighting, pretty obvious what will happen
I was gonna say that they’re probably hers because I’m a woman and I deffo wear men’s boxers cause they’re so comfy.
But her response deffo makes her seem guilty
If someone tells you to stop contacting them – just stop. Contacting them to say “hi” after being told to stop is harassment.
I know how you can make this stop though. Want to know how?
Yeah the time home would set back her training a bit. I’d be concerned about why she didn’t talk to you during that time though.
she absolutely does know what she is doing. It's naive to think otherwise. You can give her a free pass if you want for this instance but if it were my husband, he wouldn't be out drinking without me any time soon.
Maybe not fit the bills, if she did it right those three different child support checks can be lucrative. Like five grand a month in Texas tax free. Lol.
You forgot to add she refuses therapy. Not even seeing there is a problem, is a problem.
4) he was varying on an emotional affair with another woman, managed to keep it totally hidden from op who didn’t suspect a thing….how would she ever trust home again?
If he wants to break up, I don’t even know what there is to discuss. He obviously is just looking for a way out where he doesn’t have to feel bad.
Worrying you are going to pass it to someone after finding out someone knowingly likely passed it to you is definitely a concern especially if people you care about have conditions that can make it extremely dangerous for them (my kids bus driver died because she caught Covid). It isn’t just a concern for the person themselves outside of the fact it sucks to have Covid even if you are mostly healthy. I would be mad too if someone had Covid and decided to possibly spread it to me because they wanted to hang out and not be sick at home. Frankly, that goes for any transmittable sickness.
have you ever heard of Stockholm syndrome?
Pull out and enjoy that condomless, baby-free, sex.
see you later boy
Look, here’s the thing: sometimes people need something fucked up. You can be too healthy for a person.
And I know it can feel like they’re a once in a lifetime kinda thing. Irreplaceable. And to be honest it’s possible they are. Or, at least, that you won’t find a replacement. But you deserve better than that shit. You deserve someone who doesn’t fuck around on you because they fucking care about how you are. Because they don’t want to hurt you. Because you’re they’re top priority.
And there’s no guarantee you’ll find that. But you have to just learn to accept that you aren’t going to accept less. And it might might mean you don’t have anyone, but that’s how standards work. That’s how being an adult work.
I won’t lie to you, being an adult can be a crap time. You just have to make the right calls and hope you get lucky with things so those calls reward you. But even if they don’t pay off they’re still the right call.
Drop this woman. Hold out for one who isn’t shitty to you. Hold out for someone whom you can trust. And if you don’t find one… Life sucks. I’m sorry. But it’s still the right choice.
He might not be ready to do that and therefore makes him incompatible for you. Seems you're more emotionally more mature then him
OK just my advise so worth about as much as the crazy guy yelling about something.
You need to tell him before doing anything. If he is supposedly sterile he could have just been saying that to avoid the emotions that come from trying and trying and each time a let down.
An abortion is emotional traumatic on both partners so make sure its what yall both want.
Personal experience, kids are the best and its great to have a mini person you get to watch grow up and teach how to do all the things you never got to learn and they are best way to change the world for the better. Families can make the world a better place and families need children.
Ya I used to be this guy. I'm 32 now, in a happy stable relationship with a girl I share common interests with.
The girl I had a crush on when I was 20 who I used to go to the club with and watch her leave with her abusive ex is now a single mother after having two kids with her drug dealer and marrying him.
She really has matured so much and I'm happy for her… but some people need to go on a journey that you don't want to join them on.
Ya I used to be this guy. I'm 32 now, in a happy stable relationship with a girl I share common interests with.
The girl I had a crush on when I was 20 who I used to go to the club with and watch her leave with her abusive ex is now a single mother after having two kids with her drug dealer and marrying him.
She really has matured so much and I'm happy for her… but some people need to go on a journey that you don't want to join them on.
„Ready”…. Well, that’s not his body
Er, Vatican Roulette, it's supported by the Pope.
So basically she’s still cheating, you’re just allowing it.
She’s not poly, she just has awful morals and no self-control.
And look up his phone/provider/settings to know where/how to delete from trash bins, clouds, account backups, etc.
My cousin did both these things at her wedding.
Boundaries are meant to be enforced. He’s crossed them and then some, why are you willing to be a placeholder?
No point
How is the joke demeaning though?
Not YOUR fault.
That weirdo is the problem.
Someone lunging at me would likely be thrown out first time he had a try at that.
Also: I would NEVER get into a car again with such an unsave driver.
Heck! NO!
He is manipulative, abusive and gaslights you into believing that YOU are the problem.
Where he not only is a walking problem. But a man sized ambulant red flag.
Run! Quick.
Not YOUR fault.
That weirdo is the problem.
Someone lunging at me would likely be thrown out first time he had a try at that.
Also: I would NEVER get into a car again with such an unsave driver.
Heck! NO!
He is manipulative, abusive and gaslights you into believing that YOU are the problem.
Where he not only is a walking problem. But a man sized ambulant red flag.
Run! Quick.
Not YOUR fault.
That weirdo is the problem.
Someone lunging at me would likely be thrown out first time he had a try at that.
Also: I would NEVER get into a car again with such an unsave driver.
Heck! NO!
He is manipulative, abusive and gaslights you into believing that YOU are the problem.
Where he not only is a walking problem. But a man sized ambulant red flag.
Run! Quick.