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Date: October 23, 2022
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that's exactly their plan. he needs women to believe this because if they have no standards and settle, only then will men like him find a partner. this logic is meant to scare women into settling for men like him. it's honestly just tragic. can you imagine priding yourself on the fact that the way you attract women is by scaring them into settling for you? yikes.
In your post history, youre looking for a sugardaddy, why are you sending a 21yrold money and nudes?
If you feel like you have to hide the fact that you’re taking birth control from your spouse because he’ll REFUSE to wear a condom then the bigger issue here is that he’s an asshole who you don’t seem to have any trust in. Many, many couples double up on birth control—and frankly they SHOULD, especially if you know for a fact that an unexpected pregnancy would cause you a lot of turmoil and heartache, regardless of whether or not you continue the pregnancy (if you even live somewhere where abortions are affordable and easily accessible). I think you should be honest about the fact that you have a lot of anxiety regarding pregnancy and that you want to use bc as well as condoms. if he refuses to wear a condom because he doesn’t care about your emotional and physical welfare, then refuse to have sex with him. and then reconsider why you’re even married to him.
But she did have an obligation to tell you that you wouldn't be included. She may not be able to control the (what seems, based solely on your description) childish butt-hurt of her friend, but she IS responsible for just leaving you with your ass in the breeze. Realistically, it's her choosing to diss and dismiss you and I'd call bullshit on her explaining it away as something she'd be completely understanding about in a reversed situation. She'd be lighting up your phone, social media, calling your relatives, etc and be so far up your ass that you'd think you were getting a colonoscopy.
Tell him he needs to make a choice and either way he's paying for his kid.
Well definitely your goals are different right now. There are 22 year olds that want to get married and have babies. But you’re more education bound which is great. It’s just different. Also, don’t let your parents pick your mate. They won’t pick some of you’re gonna love they’re gonna pick somebody they will love. And frankly six years isn’t that big of a deal. I think the life stage is more of the issue. You’ll figure it out though.
She lied from day 1.
No adult uses less phone at relatives. It's an excuse people very often use to make sure the person they say this lie to doesn't text them. Ik because even I do it.
She doesn't want you to bother her. As simple and bluntly as that.
She's not into you. And now she is making excuse after excuse to avoid feeling bad about it. She doesn't want to deal with these difficult feelings of coming clean to you so she's making excuses and buying time.
Most probably it was a high of few weeks and she doesn't feel anything for you. Just a crush which is now over. So be like an adult, confront her, and move on. Such things happen. She's not a villain to loose feelings. She's a human who's making mistakes.
You deserve better than this, so calmly, take the L and move on.
Such experiences are what develops your maturity.
And next time before right into dating and committing, have a little courtship period where you get to know each other.
You’re both too young and inexperienced to be taken seriously
You’re too young in general and he’s too young for you. Perhaps listening to the two people who know you better than anyone else, your tendencies for decision making and are the experienced ones in life over you
AKA show some respect
You've posted this 6 times in the last 2 hours. Stop it.
You cannot leave us hanging. What was the tattoo?
A journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step.
I never said it would lead to infidelity. I drive for work. I were a seat belt every day as I drive. I never planned to be in an accident, but I have been in several (some big, some tiny).
Affairs do not “just happen”. Certain activities have a higher chance of leading to affairs. Yes, a personal trainer is less risky than going clubbing till 2AM each night. However, his concerns are not crazy. It is uncomfortable for him, in the same way it would be uncomfortable if she was staying late at work frequently with one male coworker/boss.
Don't go down that road. It's not as safe as you think.
I mean, he can’t even stop himself from jerking off in the bathroom at work. There’s no situation in which that’s ok. It’s not even about the porn usage.
I think these posting are all very strange. If they are true – you behave in a very codependent way. For starter your boyfriend sound very callous and controlling. The first rule is that forcing yourself on anybody is a big no no.
So even if he is fun and charming – the fact that he is a sexual predator should be the BIGGEST RED flag you could find. Sorry about being direct – if this will not get you to react – ask for support from a professional therapist at your school or through your medical services and talk with them. See what they are saying. Of cause the risk is always that they say “but you did not say NO”. That is “old fashioned thinking”. The fact that people do not say no – is a bad excuse. Usually people will signal that they are not cooperating and if people discard these signals that shows they are predators by heart. So start preparing to get out of this relationship. Sorry about it!
Secondly – your friend sounds she has some serious issues. Indeed it sounds like she has female autism (very much different from male autism). There is something seriously wrong. I would nearly have said hand your bf over to her and be done with it. Still I would never suggest to let a girl over to a sexual predator – so do not do that. It sounds like she has (among other things) a complex towards not having a boyfriend. Maybe if you split up – this “need” might lessen.
Regarding yourself. You need to take a VERY sharp look at yourself. You seems having a high degree of codependency towards your friends and bf. Look at your self very seriously and figure out why you are running around with people that physically and emotionally are behaving seriously badly towards you!
It sound to me that you are a seriously good person – so get support!! Please!
I'd just explain to anyone that asks that unless they're willing to pay for the whole wedding, you and your partner are going to wait until the both of you are financially able to.
Yea you have waited long enough. Just tell him it’s time to meet or move on. Doesn’t even have to be a date, just meet somewhere on campus in the middle of the day like two normal people. If you can’t find 15 minutes on the calendar then forget it. If he’s hesitant then forget it. Just be positive and enthusiastic.
People believing this is fake are clearly from western cultures and are oblivious to how prevalent arranged marriages and stories similar to this are I totally believe you, as I know how many girls are affected by such situations world wide.
You might not realize it because you’ve been so sheltered your whole life, but you’ve been through a lot of trauma that no human deserves. Your upbringing in a male dominated culture caused trauma. Your parents forcing you into marriage and having kids caused trauma. Due to your conditioning since birth, you don’t even realize how everyone has wronged you your entire life. The body keeps score though and it does affect sex. Google “vaginismus.” It’s all emotional. You can look up pelvic floor therapy which can help sex not hurt as much but first, I believe, you’ll need to tackle all of the emotional trauma you’ve been through and start healing that first.
Now that you’re in Canada and getting an education, I hope you will see how you’ve been wronged and I hope you’ll get confidence and strength to see all that you deserve. You first need to realize your WORTH. Your society and your parents have failed you and it’s the case in sooo many cultures and it makes me so angry.
Your husband has also been through trauma I believe. Sex is taboo in your culture and society thinks of sex as “shame shame” but then that same society forces marriage and demands children immediately. This is fucked up and results in zero sex education. Men become sex addicts who hire and exploit women. Women become terrified of sex and feel the shame, so of course it results in physical pain! It’s alll so backwards.
My worry is that your husband will become addicted to the adrenaline that comes with hiring escorts. You need to have a serious thought about Sexual transmitted diseases and all the infections he could be bringing home to you!
I personally think you both need a lot of years of therapy. You didn’t like your therapist because she painted your husband as an abuser. In the western sense, you’ve been abused SO MUCH! By so many people. And I’m so sorry that you don’t even realize it ? You deserve soo much more. Please you and your husband seek out a therapist who has a background in your same culture! Only then they will understand the entire picture and be able to help you understand your abuse while also acknowledging and truly knowing your upbringing and how it’s influenced so much of you.
Tell your husband your feelings. If he says he wants to have a love marriage with you too, then ask him to stop having sex with escorts immediately.
Do NOT have sex with your husband until he goes to the doctor and has full STD testing done to make sure he is clean and doesn’t spread anything to you which could truly affect your health. You need to be healthy for yourself and for your sons.
Hire a therapist with similar cultural background as you and start going by yourself and also as a couple.
Best of luck to you. Girl, please discover your worth. ❤️