I'm all about second changes, but in this case, you should have left him when he cheated. Firstly, if he was really remorseful about what had happened he would be doing anything he could to win back your trust, including staying away from those websites. The fact that he did it so begrudgingly, only worrying about his feelings, tells you a lot about him. Him making it sound like you are the problem is gaslighting. He is making it clear in his words and actions that you will never be his priority. The relationship is not good for your mental health. Do yourself a favor and find somebody who will love and cherish you the way you deserve.
It’s not a dumb idea, but just tell her you won’t get your money involved
I think I may have fallen in love with my fwb/situationship but I don't deserve him and I'm afraid I won't make him happy someday.
I didn't really understand this part. Could you explain why you think you won't make him happy? Or don't deserve him?
Oh stop already. She’s gained the weight of a small child. Nothing wrong if he doesn’t like how she looks.
Yes, especially because you have teenagers in the house who are obviously going to notice.
You’re getting downvoted for speaking facts. Typical
I see nothing wrong morally with this. He was honest. It's up to you if this is within your boundaries.
I'm all about second changes, but in this case, you should have left him when he cheated. Firstly, if he was really remorseful about what had happened he would be doing anything he could to win back your trust, including staying away from those websites. The fact that he did it so begrudgingly, only worrying about his feelings, tells you a lot about him. Him making it sound like you are the problem is gaslighting. He is making it clear in his words and actions that you will never be his priority. The relationship is not good for your mental health. Do yourself a favor and find somebody who will love and cherish you the way you deserve.