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Time to hav fun xx
Date: October 11, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
Time to hav fun xx
As someone who has struggled with self harming for over a decade, it’s not your responsibility if she does SH and you cannot control it. I understand your worries, but if she self harms because she can’t cope, there’s nothing you can do to help her. She needs professional help. And if she does self harm because of an issue related to your relationship that’s not on you. That’s just what he coping mechanism is, doesn’t mean it’s in any way your fault.
Therapy is the only thing that’s helped me.
No I totally blame myself. It’s just a really unhealthy personality trait I adopted from my insane mother, who just loves to pry and make people uncomfortable with far to personal questions.
Thanks. I do feel like me contacting him would be a regressive move. I made peace with the idea of not having him in my life in any capacity after the last time we exchanged texts. I felt sad about it but also 100% accepting that it was the right thing. I don’t want to go backwards.
So let me get this in order:
You met when you were barely an adult while he was approaching 40. He never lived on his own this whole time. He already has kids who he only sees 8 days out of a month and is now adding another one to this shit show. He is controlling. He calls you misogynistic terms. He is a liar. He literally told you to your face that he does not care about you.
What more do you need? Are you really this dense?
But why? What is inherently wrong with sharing a bed with sibling? Why would you be grossed out?
oh well, i don't blame him
i've know close friends who are personal trainer who fucks their female client
A couple weeks ago you asked why women have children with deadbeats and abusers. If you found out tomorrow that you were pregnant, you would be able to ask yourself that question.
Also ask yourself how moving out of your mother’s house into your own place would make it any less “boring” for him to be home all day. What can’t he do now that he could do when you lived separately?
Why is it your responsibility to find him a job? Does he not understand the connection between struggling on one income and not being able to afford your own place?
Do you give a shit about your kid? Or just asking what if her dad did it? Having no other talking points makes you look like a damn idiot. Which you are, so I shouldn’t be surprised. If you had considered this when her dad wanted more time with her you would maybe have a chance at an argument. You only considered because of a man. Without that man being in your life shed live with you. Therefore, you’re picking a man over your daughter. It’s not even a debatable point. That’s a fact. Man said he didn’t want to live! with you with her there. Now daughter isn’t going to be there because of man. See how that works? Not so very hot to understand. Read it a couple times if you need.
Thank you. I appreciate your comment. I am in a grieving state you are right.
Thanks guys, just to add we had a thing set up so that if we were to sell the house we would get our initial investments back then 50/50 everything on top
Or I know some STIs can remain dormant it may be a past sexual partner who recently tested positive it doesn't exactly mean she cheated
I would bet since she came back clean and nothing's changed that it's someone fucking with Op
Yes, but I don't want to do anything with her after she shouted at me and after her friends mocked me, which confirmed she'd told them about this. I want to forget everything and move on, but it's hot and I have this feeling it's all my fault.
Try just going “I hear you. I understand that this is a major issue for you. What can I do to help” and see how her reaction changes.