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Date: November 19, 2022
Any reason to want to break up is an okay reason to break up. You are not married – there is no “process” of breaking up. Tell her directly that it’s over and there are no options to fix it. Then block her on everything.
It’s OK for someone to not want to have sex, but it’s also OK to find sex necessary in a relationship. It’s a disconnect just like if one person wanted to have kids and the other didn’t want them. If your description of your support is correct, it sounds like you have been making a lot of efforts in her favor that have now stagnated in their results. There is no shame in needing your sexual needs met and leaving someone who cannot meet those. It would be the same if you were having sex that was unsatisfying and left you feeling a way. You should be proud of yourself for taking the time to meet her at her limit and continuing to give her what she needs in the relationship, but you should not force yourself to keep going just because she feels bad, she feels helpless, she feels this or that. Consider the opposite: you also feel bad and helpless! You are also part of this relationship, your needs also matter, and you cannot be responsible for her sexuality or her feelings—not all the way. It sounds like you need to move on.
TLDR you can love someone without them being the right person for you. It sounds like she’s not the right person.
How did you know the Ex’s number? My spouse won’t even recognize his number from my phone bill.
Everyone is different, every relationship is different. Don't let comparison kill you or trick you into overthinking it.
Happiness is everything…if you're happy then be happy.
Comparison is the thiefe of joy and magazine articles are, well, magazine articles.
Love your life and enjoy being content with who you are as a couple.
My bet is he’s the one who caused all the trauma in all his past relationships. He’s lying to make himself look better and so h can get away with things.
You’ve seen him first hand at playing the victim when he’s was at fault, when he did something incredibly bad and what would be consider a criminal act.
There is no way to empeach him to suicide. You have no power. But hw obviously try to use his power on you. It is the most explicitly toxic relation you can have. Nothing is that easy to explain to outsider.
Consider it is your wrist that he slices.
Break away.
I know she would prefer private but I'm trying to show her how crazy she is to believe I'm embarrassed of her. Hot to see someone you love deal with the effects of mental abuse.
I used to think whatever. I watched the Ted Talk The Great Porn Experiment. Changed all my thinking.
So you didn't tell your husband you were meeting a stranger for drinks? Question is, if you trust him unconditionally, why didn't you tell him?
What were you looking to get out of this meeting with this stranger that you didn't want to tell your husband about (you mentioned that you were busy being in the moment, but that was only at the time of meeting the guy. You had already made plans with this guy, and not told your husband about those plans beforehand).
And you had no idea at the time about the charity organization thing at the time of meeting him?
You are absolutely NOT MATURE… For your age or otherwise
Everything else in our relationship is perfect, so it wouldn't make sense to me to give up this easy… I have a theory that she may be feeling embarrassed and doesn't know how to talk about it with me. We usually share everything with each other, so I really want her to feel comfortable enough to talk to me about whatever is on her mind. I love her and want to support her in any way I can, but I don't know how to do it if doesn't let me!
Pee is no game
She cannot just block him, they work together at the same department… She told me she would leave this job immediately if I wanted, but I don’t know if this would be a good solution. I would rather have her address the issue and fix it somehow…
This is t going to magically get better, you’ll have to grow a backbone and set some boundaries.
It sounds like this could be a very dangerous situation for grandma if you just bail. Wait until your husband gets there to make sure grandma is safe and then leave. Just walk away. Let the conversation build around why you should come back, instead of keeping it focused on the fact that you’re not happy. They all know you’re not happy, and they don’t care.
Have you actually sat him down and had a conversation about this?
Maybe see a therapist about this?
Why would she ever need to be “ready” to tell you what happened? I understand why you’re worried. It’s, as much as a lot of commenters would hate to address, suspicious. A person meets a younger group of friends, starts going out a bunch more to bars and drinking later then they ever have. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with going to the bars and drinking til late, but if it’s a sudden change and whenever you ask about it your partner gets defensive, and only tells you after the fact, it seems like she’s worried she could be doing something she knows you would not be happy to hear. That doesn’t mean she is, but your suspicion is not unwarranted.
Zero. Zero time.
Send that girl some links to counselors, and tell her to get a hobby.
What you’re going through is toxic and manipulative.
I edited the post for better clarity… sorry.
So I should hit her up one more time? Or not?
When? Couple days later or closer to the weekend?
Take these threats to a divorce lawyer. Get everything you can.
It was just a singular pan, it was my only piece of washing up I had. I get it's gross, but also, there have been dishes left out longer both before and since this whole thing (by the others), so housemates getting so arsey over it is a little hypocritical.
No, I'm not currently. I have been to the doctor two separate times and got antidepressants, but neither one I was given did anything. I have been considering going back to the doctor because of just how bad last Sunday was for me, tho
It's been a week and I didn't even do anything to him, tho. So I don't understand why he isn't talking to me.
Agreed. A very bizarre view of relationships in this post.
It’s not ironic that it’s coming out now, when it’s hot for you to leave. It’s deliberate.
Men who are abusive escalate when the woman is trapped. And yes, he’s being verbally and emotionally abusive.
He will act this way toward your child too. Just abusing mom is abusive to the child. Please love your child enough to protect them from life with an emotionally abusive father.
If your boss has nothing to complain about, neither does your mom. Time to start saving to move out.
I’ll try to online with it
Unfortunately, smokers don't understand the extent of their stink. That smell will linger for years, even after you quit, it is so deeply embedded in everything from your skin to clothes to your home it is just coated, you didn't mask anything. This is just a wait it out as she won't be able to help how her body reacts to those smells and secondhand smoke is also not good for the fetus. You should quit for your health but if you don't want to it is completely your choice and you should do what you want but if your wife needs you to stay away because of it you should respect that as that is her right.
Oh, but if a guy said it to a girl the comments would be way different.
Anyway, I'd be genuinely concerned if I was in your shoes OP. Just a heads up.
Why was your friend comfortable talking to you about her marriage bedroom and the fact that her marriage was sexless?
I don't know many people who would go out of their way to tell a potential partner that they've cheated in the past, even if you wish they would. The early stages of dating are all about presenting yourself in the best possible light. Nobody in their right mind is going to tell you, “I cheated on 3 of my exes, I only brush my teeth once a week, I have serious abandonment issues, and I'm really insecure and possessive.”
If this is a boundary for you and you find out later that he cheated on a past gf, then end the relationship. But don't fault him for not telling you things he knew would hurt his chances with you.
People will be telling you to break up because this is idiotic. You can’t have a personal trainer? Is this exclusively because of a male professional? Are you allowed to have male doctors? How about male pharmacists, lawyers, accountants, retail workers or maybe mechanics if your car breaks down?
Does this sound crazy? It should… because it is crazy. You choose the best person for the job. He’s limiting your life and how much of the world you can interact with due to his need for control. This is the slippery slope of abuse and so out of line. People will suggest you get out now because we’ve seen this before and how it could end.
What?
good assessment
good assessment
Yes but he's your ex so at this point it's just more reason to put him in the past learn from it and move on.
Tell all of his friends and family… actually get it on for first then put it on Facebook.
Dude… you’ve put into her head that she’s not enough. That you need more. And you wanted to sleep/date other people. I can assure you that’s all she thinks about day in and day out now. What you think would have been “fun” she equates as not measuring up to what you want/need. Your relationship dynamic changed that day and I’m an afraid it won’t ever go back to what it was before. You open ed a can of worms that will never be able to be closed again. Sometimes things really should be left to books and movies.
We've had lunch a few times, and had some very enjoyable conversations on lunch. It's those that have made me see her in the way do now, so I'll definitely be trying to have more lunches with her!
I'm all for calling out age gaps but 18 and 23 honestly is not that bad at all, they could have been at university/college together
Yeah, this man doesn’t respect you. I’m sorry, but this is classic “if you don’t give it to him, someone else will” manipulative bullshit. If he really truly respected you and your relationship, those words never would have crossed his lips.
You asked friends and family members to block an account and told them not to open any messages they receive. They already know exactly what's going on because like you said, it's an obvious catfish account.
They all know your boyfriend cheated on you and it's only a matter of time before they get his dickpics.
I feel horrible! Had no idea he was anything more than a fling at that time. It doesn't even matter that he is amazing in bed. All he heard was “small”
Because generally speaking, married men and women want to check with their spouse before making plans? If I say, sure, Ill go hang out tonight and then later find out my wife had a nice meal cooked, or wanting to go out, I would feel like shit. The “boss” thing is said mostly in jest.
Yeah, xgf is the worst. It must hurt. I bet she’ll realize her mistake but by then OP will be long gone!
This whole polyamorous thing is strange. Not the sexuality itself, necessarily, but this behaviour as displayed by her husband.
In what world, do you expect someone clearly monogamous to be fine knowing their partner wants to fuck, or perhaps even worse, have the same kind of emotional bond with other people as with them.
From this description, it seems he is baffled by the idea of monogamy:
“monogamy worked when people died when they were 40 but now when we live till we are 80-90 maybe it wasn't enough” I'm the love of his life and that won't change but do we want to be exclusive for 40,50, 60 years?[…]He wanted us to be together because he loves our life but also we could se other people so it doesn't get boring.
If you are this clearly polyamorous, then be open about it, and look for other polyamorous people.