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GirlDoll-XX Public Chat Channel
Date: October 18, 2022
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As a mom this feels really disrespectful to both you and her son. You are an unrelated adult man and you should not feel comfortable sharing a bed (unnecessarily) with a young child, nor should you feel comfortable normalizing this behavior to him. Especially since it doesn’t seem you two have been dating all that long. Sure you’re not a pedophile, but what about the next guy or the one after that? No one knowingly exposes their children to men like that but they’re unfortunately very good at gaining a mother’s trust.
This cycle is not helping. Husband sees that.
Thank you for the response and taking the words out of my brain lol! Exactly what I have been trying to articulate.
I thought that we were at a place where he could feel free to bring these “issues” up to me directly – or at least make a joke / comment about it in the moment – I would get the message.
Ball is in his court and I would be totally open and nice about it if he decided to initiate.
But I agree – I really think there is more to the “story” here
I'm 40, you're a youngin' to me ??
End it, he has shown you so clearly. Who knows if it’s ever going to change but wasting more years is not the solution. These dudes always end up breaking up 9 years later and literally marrying the next woman in under a year.
Your not his person, he has shown you, don’t believe his words, he is not looking out for you. You’re okay for now, he has told you.
Ihave brought that up, but she said it's my word against hers, and who are the authorities gonna believe?
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I'd probably be downvoted to oblivion, but just wanted to say I'm the same age as you and my SO is the same age as your partner. We have a healthy, loving, amazing relationship. Tho my last partner was 12 years older than me and we had the most toxic relationship and I was abused. I know age gap relationships are mostly judged and looked down upon, and I understand it's a valid concern. But as someone who experienced both unhealthy age gap relationship and a healthy one, I just want to say-it can work out. Good on you for looking out for red flags. Take care!
DO NOT have plastic surgery just to get his approval!!!!
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oh wow! do you two interpret it the same or same-ish?
Why the hell don’t you use toilet paper? Who monitors their husband wiping his ass. This has to be fake. If not, get some TP and stop questioning your husband about if he wipes his ass. The fuck?
Yeah, he's cheating.
She’s cheating on you and has been cheating on you. Try to get whatever evidence you can and divorce her.
She’s against you jerking off and looking at porn yet she’s a cheater? Lol, dude, leave now.
Proposals are a very personal thing so ultimately you have to know what she likes and plan around that.
Anecdotally, my now-wife didn’t want a public display. She wanted it to be private and intimate (in saying that, some people might prefer a more public setting or not care). So what I did was plan a surprise gathering for after we got engaged as follows:
I asked her friend to set up a couples night with us at the specific location that I had reserved. This wasn’t out of the ordinary. My wife then asked if I wanted to go out with them which essentially made her plan her own proposal without her even realizing.
The place we were meeting was the rooftop of a hotel so I suggested we have a “hotel night” which is also not out of the ordinary for us. So I booked a room for the night. I knew she wanted to dress nicely when she was proposed to so setting the stage for going out with friends allowed for that. She was in a nice dress, had her nails done, etc. To reiterate, these are all things she hoped for when getting proposed to (I should also be clear that we had discussed marriage and the future so the only surprise was going to be the when and where).
So after we’re both dressed and ready to go, I had a short “speech” prepared in my head that I kept reciting in my head over and over. We then stood by the window looking out at the city, I said my piece, got down on one knee and proposed.
After, she asked if she should call her family and friends. I said no, let’s just enjoy this moment ourselves for tonight and call in the morning. We then go up to the rooftop and then waiting for us were some of our closest friends and family. Makes me smile just thinking about it.
But again, make sure it’s special to what you both would like. That’s key. Good luck!
Sounds like she never stopped thinking of you as the rebound. Time to bounce.
No I am not. Despite how poorly my post has come across, it may not be believed that I am the best he has had yet. Not wanting to kiss him has ALL to do with hygiene. He hasn't seen a dentist in 10 years and it is reasonable to set that kind of boundary when it crosses your comfort level. I jave had important discussions with him about it with the message recieved with care and understanding from him. The health of your partner should be important to everyone!
so once again, you have solved the problem and spoken to the guy, clearing up all the loose ends and miscommunications…Why are you here again? what advice do you want again? anyhow. I think our conversation is at an end unless you come you come up with some advice you are looking for..
it's better to regret not having kids than having them and regretting it and resenting them. kids can tell, no matter how much you try to hide it.
not saying this is the case for you, but my point is everyone is different. just because you find it fulfilling doesn't mean everyone else will.
good luck
THIS! I regret so much telling my cousin my problems with my ex/other romantic relationships. She would start to hate them to the point where it was affecting my relationships. I constantly had her nagging in the back of my head and all the red flags she saw even if I didn’t consider them a big deal. Now I tell her nothing.
Sexual incompatibility is a big deal. You are becoming resentful which will never help this kind of situation. I suggest admitting you guys love each other but aren't in love with each other.
u thought we were gonna agree with u and instead ur getting flamed lmao
It sounds like you’re gonna risk missing out on a lot of what you want to do because of the way he feels about it – even doing those things can be kinda ruined when you know that’s waiting on the other end. I’d consider ending things too, you should be having all the fun you can at your age 🙂
Wonder if it was some kind of mind game. Wouldn’t surprise me if there’s some stupid tiktok fad related to seeing how long you can keep people on the hook for stuff like this.
Sounds to me like you should be way less concerned with “dating” and a lot more concerned with maturing. That's not a criticism: you're 19 and it's to be expected. You're to be commended that you can recognize this shortcoming in yourself and are taking steps to circumvent it. But it's also one more reason to let her go. Focus on making friends, and less on progressing them to the “next level”. I guarantee you'll eventually come across someone that you're damn sure you actually “like”.
This is so fucking grim.
Consider the above, u/the_mr_sanders, & let me add; it's not “yesterday's problem.” It may have happened over a decade ago, but as far as your concerned, it essentially just happened.
That means you'll need time & space to process this. The truth is, your wife cheated on you, lied to your face, cried fake tears, & even kept on lying for over a decade.
IMHO, there is no getting over this. Your resentment will be noticable, your distrust (rightfully so) & anger towards the cheater. Your kids will pick up on this, as the home is already now unstable. Don't let your kids grow up in a home where there's distrust. Set the example in self respect & in choosing a marriage partner who respects & loves (wake up; that's not your wife) you. Speaking from experience, a single parent who's happy & open is better than a full house with strife & bitterness.
That happens when you completely ignore your partner when making a big, life altering decision that will affect both of you.
Dump her. You don’t want to have children with that person.
You don't help people resolve their issues, you help them help themselves.
You can't change other people, but you can help your partner come to terms with their issues.
Who let this be a lesson to you and to your own ego, that you need to support your partner. If they don't want to and they vehemently tell you they don't want to, maybe you should take that as a sign not to push.
You don’t have the right to decide what is worth him cutting contact over. The fact that you thought you knew better and could “fix” the situation is extremely disrespectful to him.
Never, EVER, pull something like this again. You need to learn to respect the boundaries other people have set. Until you do, you will not be capable of being a good partner.
Learn from this. No is a complete sentence, and you never, under any circumstances, have the right to ignore it.
Talk to a lawyer since this has hit your credit.
Your mom can't charge you for being a parent! She is the one who decided to have a child.
It's interesting that she called raising you babysitting. You don't babysit your own child. It called being a parent.
Also if she got child support from your dad she got paid.
I would consider cutting your mother out of your life.
Uhh… your BF is a keeper!
I wrote about myself and how I am on my period. Me. Not all women. So I don't know where you got the whole “reinforcing the stereotype”. And it is true about the alcohol. It makes the blood thin and you will bleed more. I asked my doctor. Although in my case when my period lasts 2 days and is weak it doesn't apply.
With all due respect, you can't know a 4-month person long enough to know if they complete you. that's just New Relationship Energy talking, not reality. Your bf is a piece of shit weirdo. You don't understand because perhaps you've never been in an abusive relationship, in which a person seems so sweet and loving until they start leveling bonkers and ridiculous 'charges' at you in order to get you to grover for their approval. Your best bet is to stop telling yourself the story that he's a sweet & kind dude who “completes” you (movie romantic crap, sorry to sound harsh) and get far & fast away from this dude.
The thing is, you already know she has a history of disloyalty in relationships. Just take this as a lesson going forward, you don't need someone who does this on-again/off-again with anyone, not an ex, not with you. Unless you crave the drama, you are better off with drama free and stable. You're too old with this stuff, it like Jr. High levels of maturity.
Nothing happened. June just doesn't like sex. She doesn't enjoy it or need it. They had a perfect relationship otherwise so she was willing to allow him to have sex elsewhere, as long as he didn't actually develop any relationship.
I just honestly never really had any desire to settle down. While I've been attracted to guys, it's never been love or anything more than sex. This is the first time I've actually cared. Normally I just move on fine when I have to break up with a friends with benefits.
Nothing happened. June just doesn't like sex. She doesn't enjoy it or need it. They had a perfect relationship otherwise so she was willing to allow him to have sex elsewhere, as long as he didn't actually develop any relationship.
I just honestly never really had any desire to settle down. While I've been attracted to guys, it's never been love or anything more than sex. This is the first time I've actually cared. Normally I just move on fine when I have to break up with a friends with benefits.
Sounds like she jumped at a chance to end this relationship, albeit preemptively. You should definitely take the interview, and the job should they offer it.
Sounds like she jumped at a chance to end this relationship, albeit preemptively. You should definitely take the interview, and the job should they offer it.
Do you communicate about what you like? A lot of women do not orgasm from penile penetration. Honestly, probably most. You should communicate and see what works best for you. There is so much more to do with fingers and tongues and toys in addition to or instead of PIV sex.
You did what you did and now he’s upset which is valid, don’t get blackout drunk. A good starting point is stop drinking, show him you made a mistake and you’re doing your best to make sure that doesn’t happen again. Maybe he’ll stay, maybe he won’t.
Maybe he was looking for an excuse to break up?
She's lying. With the knowledge she's cheating on you, what are you going to do now?
He's just using you for weed. Unless he ever hangs out with you and supplies the weed, I doubt he actually is being genuine.