Right? I mean, she wasn’t going to hurt him or anything. She just wanted to take him for a walk and hangout which honestly would have been fine had she asked. But she didn’t. So I just came home to a missing dog and didn’t know for an hour where he was.
I dated the opposite. Men with plenty of money and stability. The problem was all the same with them. Divorced, not wanting more kids, not wanting to start over. Those in their mid 20s are with their college sweethearts and not available. And the really successful ones where I live all do cocaine or some other drug. You’d never guess. I think my job and where I live! attracts that kind and I’m trying to get away from it seeking the opposite and it’s not a good fit. We get along so well on a personal level though. But some for whatever reason cannot handle making less than the woman. If I was a school teacher, I’m sure I’d not have the problem. Teacher friends are all married. My higher earning female friends are not.
You were 17 and 19 when you started dating? Big red flag on his part. And his reaction to you not texting back on his time frame is abusive, manipulative, and controlling. Even bigger red flag. Oh and he doesn’t respect your stance on religion and would rather fight with you until you agree with his views? Come on.
I know you’re young and it may feel very difficult but please let things end and move on. Don’t be with this guy. Sounds like an abusive jerk. Cut your losses! You’re better off without him.
It won't make it better though. That's the thing. You already know for sure that nothing is going to make you want to stay with her forever.
I will, thank you so much !
Yeah. Thanks
Right? I mean, she wasn’t going to hurt him or anything. She just wanted to take him for a walk and hangout which honestly would have been fine had she asked. But she didn’t. So I just came home to a missing dog and didn’t know for an hour where he was.
I have so many stories. LOL
I dated the opposite. Men with plenty of money and stability. The problem was all the same with them. Divorced, not wanting more kids, not wanting to start over. Those in their mid 20s are with their college sweethearts and not available. And the really successful ones where I live all do cocaine or some other drug. You’d never guess. I think my job and where I live! attracts that kind and I’m trying to get away from it seeking the opposite and it’s not a good fit. We get along so well on a personal level though. But some for whatever reason cannot handle making less than the woman. If I was a school teacher, I’m sure I’d not have the problem. Teacher friends are all married. My higher earning female friends are not.
You were 17 and 19 when you started dating? Big red flag on his part. And his reaction to you not texting back on his time frame is abusive, manipulative, and controlling. Even bigger red flag. Oh and he doesn’t respect your stance on religion and would rather fight with you until you agree with his views? Come on.
I know you’re young and it may feel very difficult but please let things end and move on. Don’t be with this guy. Sounds like an abusive jerk. Cut your losses! You’re better off without him.