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Missed me? keep me warm till i gotta left those clothes off [32 tokens remaining]
Date: October 4, 2022
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Missed me? keep me warm till i gotta left those clothes off [32 tokens remaining]
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Communication needs to come forward. Talk about feelings with him and I hope he can open up equally and is understanding.
Personally, with what you said makes sense and I would go with it if love was true love. I can see his point of view as condoms in my endeavors ruin my erection after a few minutes and the personal shame of not holding strong is embarrassing. But again, that can be worked out. I speak up about how condoms do this to me with my partners and I've gone through 4+ condoms in a single bout as we went back and forth between oral and intercourse due to the loss of my erection. There are ways to have intimacy and still provide a safe place for our minds to be at peace. Being open to your partner is key to true intimacy. I hope it works out in the end for the two of you. I really do.
For me it's a tricky prospect.
If he just never mentions it again then really you'll sit around waiting for him to say it right? Like even right now that's ort of half the problem, it's you waiting till the next time it comes up and wondering how you'll respond.
If you have a conversation though I do think there is potential. Maybe getting a sense of why he has that in his mind, getting him to explore the idea deeper than 'I saw a porno and it seemed hot' or 'all my friends and male role models romanticise it' and he will probably conclude it isn't as good an idea as it seems and you can actually sort of grow through it.
Of course he may double down, or even just say 'well I won't say it again for you' and I worry those leave you with that lingering concern.
Still, part of it may be your own stance, as maybe allowing yourself to better differentiate those sorts of fantasies from an active desire for other women will help.
Being nice and not bringing it up will not help. He’ll take that as if you’re fine with it. He’s addicted to porn. You have no control over it, nor does he. Until he gets help…professional help, it won’t change. Sorry.
you’re literally a thirty something fully grown man coming to reddit about a situation that is pretty cut and dry. you shouldn’t even be over analyzing this ‘relationship’, let alone trying to go and dig through a stranger’s profile for a weak ass comeback.
Hopefully you get your ass beat