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EXTRA HARDCORE ANAL SHOW #anal #milf #lush #lovense #lovense [GOAL MET]
Date: October 9, 2022
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EXTRA HARDCORE ANAL SHOW #anal #milf #lush #lovense #lovense [GOAL MET]
When GFs make life choices without your input or discussion or even telling you ahead of time she really doesn’t value you. And then wants to break up after due to a work trip? Yes I would say, since she broke up your good to go. Go no contact and start living your best life.
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My friends think my boyfriend and I have set some questionable and toxic boundaries in our relationship. We have both agreed not to spend one on one time (aka alone time) with people of the opposite sex. He got cheated on in the past and I’m quite insecure myself. As far as I’m concerned we both stick to this rule and haven’t had any jealousy issues since but lots of people think it’s toxic. How should I approach the situation? Has anyone else done this and how has that worked out for you so far?
TLDR: friends think my relationship with my bf is toxic because we agreed not to spend alone time with people of the opposite sex.
EDIT: Obviously family doesn’t count. Neither does co-workers since we must maintain professional. Also hanging out with friends of the opposite sex is fine (for us) as long as it’s as a group and not 1v1.
This whole discussion is insane. She wants control over his sexual and bodily autonomy and everyone is here trying to justify why it’s okay for her to demand that of him. No. It’d be wrong if he expected her to give up her sexual and bodily autonomy for him, it’s wrong for her to expect that too.
It seems like she is either insecure or very close-minded about sexuality. It is not abnormal or dirty to want to masturbate, evwn when you have a partner. That is private and personal time for self care, maintaining sexual health, and relax where you don’t have to think about anything else just for a moment. People saying he has a sex or masturbation or porn addiction have no idea what addiction looks like. Jerking off biologically causes the body to relax, it’s super normal for our and other species to do that before bed. Definitely a good idea to diversify with good sleep hygiene (meditation, sleep restriction therapy, etc), but masturbating to get to sleep is so much healthier than the shitty meds those of us with significant insomnia have to take.
We need to stop pathologizing sexuality to such an extreme degree. If there were some particular behavior when he masturbates or it interrupted their time for sexual intimacy there could be compromise or exploration of alternatives. But no, some people are so egocentric the mere idea of their partner getting off to porn is world ending. If you’re response to your partner doing something this natural healthily and in moderation (once a night, not even every night) is to forbid them from bringing themselves pleasure IT IS TIME TO GO TO THERAPY. Not for their “sex” addiction, but for your insecurity, sexual repression, and controlling tendencies. If the roles were reversed this would count as reproductive abuse. It should count in this case too.
If she is down to look inside and try to work out why him doing something with his own body alone is so upsetting, he owes her support, affirmation, and compassion in addressing those issues. But it is each of our responsibilities to prevent our challenges (like insecurities) from becoming weaponized and externalized to those around us.
OP simply agreeing to her inane sex quota isn’t going to address the root of those issues. It will just breed resentment as sex stops being about intimacy at all and only about not “letting him” masturbate.
The amount of shaming happening here, the complete disregard for his base rights to bodily autonomy, the projecting of any possible flaw on to OP to excuse this disregard, just about everything here is so sex repressed and tolerant of toxic demands of what one does with their own body – it’s disgusting.
Check outside of where you think you lost it, different random places, the waffle house, the cake factory, wallmart, your car, the olive garden, the club, the hood, pawn shops, the marina, the docks, Harvard, you never know where it might show up
You guys agreed to an open relationship. Either break up or accept she doesn't want to do it.
Looking at your post history, OP…
How does your wife feel about this? You know, the one you posted about having a kid with two years ago?
My mom's not mad at me, she just told me she wasn't going to entertain this. It's my girlfirend who's mad at me for doing nothing.
This is a red flag. And you communicated with her that you are uncomfortable and she went and did it again. You are not being insecure or controlling. She is being disrespectful to you and your relationship. Tell her to to block this friend.
Good perspective thank you!
Inform the guy's wife. Send her an anonymous message with the screenshots of their messages.