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Date: February 6, 2023
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Are you also going on the title? Because if not you’re taking on the debt but not ownership. Apparently he offers everyone the chance to help him pay his mortgage as a sign of commitment. Given how unstable your relationship is already it’s a bad idea to make these kinds of commitments.
If she doesn’t know why it happened, she won’t know why when it happens again. You did right to take a big freaking step back from her. Never commit to someone who is that ambivalent about you.
What I meant by my comment was more wondering his reasons for not telling you where he lives. My thinking is maybe he doesn't trust you, does he have any reason not to trust you?
It did kind of sound like you would be making a trip to the local warehouse store and might end up just going with bulk to save money ?
Anyway… So, up until 6 months ago though, were you satisfied with it? We are talking purely in the last 6 months?
I know you mentioned she'd had an abortion 4 months ago, how far along was she? Would the timing line up with when she first conceived? Because if so, it could have possibly been hormones/not feeling well from pregnancy (I know I was immediately feeling like crap with my second), mixed in with getting an abortion and things just haven't leveled out yet. Not just that, but a woman's libido is pretty well known to fluctuate over the years and with big life events – an unplanned pregnancy would definitely fall under that category.
Have you tried asking her how she feels about the current state of your sex life? Does she feel like she wants to in theory but just emotionally/physically can't make it happen? I've gone through that one myself and actually around the same age. Have you asked her if she is still stressed?
Fine, here is straight up relationship advice: he’s an adult man with adult issues that include a child. The child should and must be his priority. You are not in the same place in your life as he is, and if you don’t want a kid or kids around, then you don’t have any other choice than to break up with him. The child has to come first, that’s what good parents do—and you wouldn’t want him to be a bad parent in addition to being a) a groomer and b) “a little more than your boyfriend,” would you?
There's more going on. I feel there is some kind of addiction to something other than weed, but it could just be the weed messing him up. I would say you need to leave to give yourselves space to figure things out. You need to prioritize yourself and your own happiness, you have given him chances to do that there. If he suddenly wakes up when you're gone and you can work on things great, but if he doesn't, you have at least taken a step to get out of the Toxicity and move forward with your life. In this life your happiness is the important thing, always.
You can attend both and should. Great job getting your medical degree! I hope your work gives you the kind of independence that minimises your family's tendency to play favourites.